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jugding others
February 08 2015
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inspirit
10 years ago
.those who judge are insecure about themselves.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
What about he who asks..... driven by a compulsion to keep telling others?
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
The trick is not to let yourself be judged. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It sounds like the OP is more concerned with other people and their thoughts than is his own business.... It sounds like you are actually JUDGING those people who judge OP....you are a bit of a hypocrite, but then who isn't...
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RHP User
10 years ago
some do it to make themselves feel better, others do it out of curiosity to see how the other half live, that's just the way some people are. If it makes them happy leave them to it ... means more free nice people for you to play with. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well. It's probably them commenting on something unexpected, not the norm or an unusual situation. A simple comment. What is the big deal? Oh sure, it's fine when we comment on your ginormous knob, isn't it. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you find yourself being judged and judged unjustly!! Then make sure you commit an offence-ive !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are curious,not even judging sometimes.,just commenting...and why is that short man with that tall gorgeous woman...oh yeah,it's Sophia Loren and Carlo Ponti or that really short man with the built up shoe and the beautiful blonde...oh yeah it's Dudley Moore and Tuesday Weld xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
its human nature to judge, it is on our DNA its to identify things quickly and make assumptions.Like is that a Bear with a goose? Or is that guy a cannibal? will he eat me( well i fucking hope so) every forum post is a judgment. every thing we choose to eat, to fuck to drink to fuck to what ever is a judgment its how animals function in a pack or flying solo I love the little pedestals of the ones that never judge, never tell lies, never cheat, never fudge their taxes.that's what bowling balls of reality do, they knock down those pedestals. I just say, with my hand over my mouth and whisper to my girlfriends look at that sad fuck, with the comb over , oh wait, I can see the bulge in his pants i hope its his wallet.
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Two_Tarts
10 years ago
We all make assesments based on what we observe others do, and everyone has a right to their own opinion. The problem comes when people assume, infer, or make decisions, based on seeing a small snapshot in time without knowing, or understanding, the background. Worse still, when we listen to others opinions without ensuring we gather enough of our own knowledge to base our own opinions on. Believe only half of what you see and none of what you hear! RHP land is full of smoke and mirrors! It is really easy for all of us to watch others any see it thought the reflection of our own uncertainties....and it is something we are all guilty of to some extent. There are plenty of circumastances when we might choose not to accompany people on their particular journey, but good on them for doing what works for them!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
based on a variety of things but usually jealousy mixed with a little or a lot of our own distorted views of ourselves and our insecurities or poor self image. If we could accept ourselves as what we are and not what if........then we would be so much happier not only with ourselves but for all our fellow humans. And no, I haven't found out how to do that yet myself.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What other people think of me is none of my business.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love people watching, love to see peoples taste in clothing, hair, other people, etc just a curious cat..... I'm no oil painting so I try not to be judgemental.... We are who we are....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Stick a falk in there ass turn em over there done😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
just an observation...
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Quoting 'treegirl' I love people watching, love to see peoples taste in clothing, hair, other people, etc just a curious cat..... I'm no oil painting so I try not to be judgemental.... We are who we are.... The girls and I are well truly guilty of that but I mean why cant they be happy for others.Its like judging a man on the size of his penis but lots of women finda small penis stimulating and a bonus for anal sex.Why cant we all just have fun.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' Stick a falk in there ass turn em over there done😝 I don't think Columbo was that way inclined.
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RHP User
10 years ago
and then there is those who just love to stir the pot for a response & those who just love to make shit up for something to say either way it does make good reading
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2play4fun2014
10 years ago
Maybe it's something like this: He's a fat bald dude - I'm a fat bald dude He's likes tall hot women - I like tall hot women He's GOT a tall hot woman - therefore there are tall hot women up for grabs by fat bald dudes! THEN "Yiiiiihaaaaaaa - I'm getting me a tall hot woman!!!" THEN "Fuck me..... HOW?" LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sounds like you're attending the wrong parties/clubs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' Quoting 'treegirl' I love people watching, love to see peoples taste in clothing, hair, other people, etc just a curious cat..... I'm no oil painting so I try not to be judgemental.... We are who we are.... The girls and I are well truly guilty of that but I mean why cant they be happy for others.Its like judging a man on the size of his penis but lots of women finda small penis stimulating and a bonus for anal sex.Why cant we all just have fun. I am just a biaaarch ,its my nature
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RHP User
10 years ago
Insult can not be given, insult can only be taken. If someone tells me I am ugly, I will take no offence, even if it is interned to offend. I will just think "So!! tell me something I don't know." Others may take offence, even if the statement was not meant to offend., that is due to the confrontation of personal insecurity. You took offence because you have set your self up to take offence buy hiding in your mind a truth you wish not to accept. If you are not ugly and there is no truth to the judgment then how could you be offended. The insecure person is more likely to take offence to a judgment than the confident individual. I never blame someone for voicing a judgment, I try to work out why, if I feel offence, that I do have a negative emotion, so next time something like that is said I can brush it off and not care. I have reassessed a personal assumption of my self that was incorrect. If I find that the insult was without merit, then I will just think that the person is a dick not worthy of knowing.
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Seachange
10 years ago
wonderful insight. thanks for sharing...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who is doing the "judging"...is it someone who is close to you,who you have a lot of respect for?..Or is it a random person,a stranger,or someone you have little or no respect for? .........Humans developed language so we could communicate and build relationships,part of this is to protect each other....So listen well.determine whether or not the judgement is actually good advice.or dismiss it.xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
That was too funny and probably too true😝xxFreya
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