✋ jumping on the profile check wagon

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I'm not currently looking for couples but was interested in experimenting when I first joined RHP. The thing that made me change my mind was: I was receiving messages from couples who's first message and profile was all about what I would add to their sex life and nothing about what they would add to mine. One woman even told me she wanted me to be a "gift" for her husband. Your photo is gorgeous but if I was looking for a couple I would feel like an outsider seeing that photo. Your wording is mostly good except for the one line about what a woman can add to your sex life....even though you do go on to mention what you would contribute as a couple - that one line would make me uncomfortable. I think to attract a single woman you need to make her feel really wanted and like it's all about her pleasure and comfort - you have each other after all. Just my take....I'm sure you'll get many varied responses!

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  spunkynhunky

  8 years ago

  Thanks phoenix girl, i can definitely make her feel wanted, I'm super aware of not making her feel like a third wheel or conquest so I'll have a look at my wording a bit. Thanks for taking the time to offer feedback. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If you're seeking women, as Phoenix has said, it's not so much about what they can give to you, but how being with you two will compliment everyone..... After all it's not just couples vying for the attention of women :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  What Phoenix said, and you acknowledged :) Good luck with your search, and have fun x

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Agree with both Phoniex and stirry comments, If i could be honest without any offence meant after reading your profile I think you might be able to word it slightly better, Try not to use the word And in between your sentences as much. Simplfy your descriptions. Paragraph your profile to make it easier to read for prospective lady's your trying to attract. Have your girl's input with your profile as it reads as if you may of initially wrote it all by yourself ? That would put me off if i was female joining a couple. Keep it short and to the point in what you both can offer, also what your looking for in a prospective third party. Hopefully this can help. Good luck in your search. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  My best friend and her husband embarked on a poly relationship that lasted over 2 years. It was an expansion of the love they shared with their girlfriend. I'm not suggesting love here but rather an expansion of yourselves. I think it needs to be more than inclusive, I dont know how anyone could knowing be considered "the third.' I really loved your response to Phoenix. Conscious couples who are open, vulnerable with banging EQ are very sexy. Loved the profile picture too. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  spunkynhunky

  8 years ago

  Cheeky, it's actually written by me (Mrs passion) haha maybe i have some masculine tendencies 😉 or maybe i just love the ladies! Either way i welcome your feedback and will have another look. Femme... I'm not sure i understand what you're saying but whatever it is I'll do it! 😂 i think what I'm trying to get across in my description is that we don't just want to meet someone, shag, and roll off into the sunset. I mean the way things are going i wouldn't say no, but you're right, we have a strong connection and want someone to be an extention of that. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Sorry Femme, Wasn't trying to come across as insensitive to anyone, Maybe could've used a better word then third party when i could of just typed a lady. Also apologize for assuming.who may of written the profile. Never wise ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I think the main problem is that you live in Geraldton. Unless you come to Perth and check out some of the clubs? Good luck. Pusscat xxx

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  MadhattersCat

  8 years ago

  Let's face it - it is scary enough meeting one person on here nether lone two. So that can tend to create the realm of; 1. We like her, and she would love to join us, but the fear of reality dwells. 2. Wow, they want to join us bad, pity we don't feel the same. 3. Patience for the right fit. How do they say it ? Patience is a virtuePosses it if you canSomething seldom found in women But always found in man. Or is that the other way around. Why is there no couples verse ???

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