M42 F40
lonely
November 24 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your profile has a few "Ask Me" which leaves much to the imagination (especially height).Use spell check! Have a read over your very obvious errors and as my partners have said "Anyone who uses abbreviations such as ppl or im are binned" Get verified, it will improve your chances of initial contact.The pool of girls or F/F couples aged between 18-30 who seek a M/F couple is very shallow.You smoke which is becoming less socially acceptable (honesty is admirable but can be double edged)All these factors add up and limit your opportunity to fun encountersLastly perseverance, it may take a couple of months before you find the right person/s (can't rush a good thing)
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RHP User
13 years ago
So I had a look at your profile, and well there are some issues from where I see it. The spelling is all over the place and makes it really hard to read. Furthermore there are lots of Ask Me in there which makes me think the worst. Also and much more to the point you are looking for a unicorn - single women willing to play with couples are hard to find, they can be as picky as they like because the odds are in their favour.
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RHP User
13 years ago
2 of the hardest options to catch up with. Denominating factor - Woman. Now this doesn't mean men don't waste your time either. It's just rare to find a woman who is up for it all the time, no matter what and doesn't want their brains stimulated also. Take this into account with locality/travel, time of day or night and the stars or moons or both alligning. Saying that, if women weren't that way then the guys that were after women would probably return to the cave man days and start pulling women around by there hair in the streets and they would accepts that (hair pulling in the bedroom is acceptable with willing participants - giddyup). We also need women to be this way so that we can better ourselves and then when we get into their pants it is an even more satisfying experience. On the odd occassion it would be nice to get the quick meet if anyone is reading.. It's also just bloody hard to find a woman to join a couple - there would need to be a lot of trust before they get there I am assuming. Good luck in your search
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RHP User
13 years ago
If Only I was in Victoria !! :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
The opening passage to you profile needs a quick fix up. I could be wrong but to me it's a little contradicting to.we are both new too this and rather nervouswe wabt to explore with some one comfertable and relaxed like us. this is a dream for us both and look forward to meeting the one.Once you have fixed that up. Perhaps you could put up some more photos. Be creative in your messages to others. You could even try registering a date in the date finder section of RHP and see if you get any interest. Don't get to cut up over people that don't bother to even reply with a thanks but no thanks. Sadly is something you will have to deal with on RHP. Don't give up just move on .Tim
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RHP User
13 years ago
The very first thing I noticed on your profile is all the blanks marked " ask me " .. I know most folk on here will just move on if they see a person or couple does'nt bother to give such basic information. When we see this, we pass...Also its important to write something about yourself , your likes ' what you are looking for ..etc... Dont BS because most will see through that, just sell yourself and be interesting.. Add some interesting pics of each of you, ....doesnt have to be naked if thats not what you want .. It can be hard at the best of times' so the more interesting you make it , the more chance you have of ppl following through... Mr JJ
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rupamohan
13 years ago
I guess restricted age , gender and may be smoking...I wont consider spaling mistake matters..at least we are not here for our language classes..we are not native english speaker but I was never good at spellings in my own language..lol...but there is one profile we found that clearily says one spelling mistake and you are out. Actually that one is a very funny profile...I read it to get amused....if you approach that cpl..they may ask RHP to ban you bcos of your spellings..lol ..no I am not joking they are so serious about it...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have found parties are the best way to meet people. It is a lot like a club atmosphere and if it's not your scene you can leave discreetly.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This site is becoming more of a bashing site than anything else WHO GIVES A FUCK ABOUT SPELLING we are not here for english one "o" one we are here to get fucked and to be fucked. It's really simple,,,, well i think it is if most of us out there did'nt meet someone because of the way they spelt things or other stupid things like that we would all die VIRGINS. it seems me to me that there are alot of narrow minded poeple on here who think that if someone cant spell or something stupid like that they must be dumb and not worth meeting or resonding to there message. GET THE FUCK OVER IT, what you have never spelt a word wrong in your life. And the bullshit about smoking is really the biggest load of bullshit i have ever heard, you all act like if you meet someone who smokes that your DICK OR TITS might fall off if you meet someone who smokes. simple ( GROW THE FUCK UP ) we have met poeple of here and don't smoke and have had the best times. So to you( sarzpuss )fuck them all and just keep on hunting and it will happen so keep your chins up. Cheers Mr cns.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks so much everyone, that was great advice.From now on hubby is not allowed near the key board without spell checking lol, and to cnsfelwat, thanks for sticking up for us, you're right we all need more opened minded people around. I will definetly take all this on bored and apply some changes! again everyone thanks so much :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Fucking may be all you have in life or all you see RHP for others they may enjoy something else before and after. As for smoking, I prefer my play partners to smell nice, not like some cheap two dollar street walker (why do you think it is less popular now?). Non- Smoking can also reflect personal fitness., stamina and general health another plus for me and I know the girls I chase appreciate that. We all have different tastes and desires."You catch more bees with honey than you do with vinegar"
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Jennie1972
13 years ago
Dear cnsfelswat,Taking PRIDE in what you say and how you say it is definitely something to consider when writing a profile. No we did not all go to private schools and neither is anyone on this site asking or insisting that we have to. Personally I look at how someone has written/structured their profile to give me at least some small indication of whether or not I will be compatible with them. No I do not smoke and have never smoked so "Prefer" non smokers and I do like to know the physical attributes of the person/people I may be in contact with to see if I am attracted. You cannot tell someones height from a picture and some pictures can be a bit misleading. I am the single female they seek and yet you want me to lower my standards?? Maybe you should stop telling everyone they should "Fucking get over themselves".Regards J x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jennie 1972 you dont really read the forums carefully do you my comment was directed at the people who put them down about there profile. Not every person on rhp so read the forum posts a little bit closer.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey cruissing fuck you have got no morals or pride miss cns smokes and if you called her a CHEAP TWO DOLLAR STREET WALKER you would be picking up your teeth of the ground for a month. You would have to have the lowest standings and morals about females i have ever seen,, you must wank so much that you would have dick fingers by now. How the fuck do you meet females or get any thing from them with thinking that ( i really pitty you and the females that you meet )
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whilst one of my pet hated is the butchery of the english language i wouldn't not meet a couple based on the inherent grammar skills therein. We aren't going to get married. Guys I would say you are in a long line of people looking for a single female and your profile doesn't pop. Compounded by the fact that 90 percent of the people online are fakes and tyre kickers. Add some detail that shows you are fun to be around before, during and after maybe. We got so bored of the profiles on here we added a bunch of random stuff about being super villains. Next week it will be some other random funny/strange stuff. I'm not saying do that (that's our thing!) but inject some of your personality perhaps. As for smoking. Again, so what, are people looking for life partner perfection or fun and good times? If it's the latter I forsee an empty calandar on the desks of many a whinger on this site. We smoke when we drink, we don't have to and if it's such a problem we don't. I can tell you we dont have too much issues picking up either......But if people were to be such douchebags about that then they are probably no fun to be around anyway and can take a walk.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everyone seems to be slagging off everyone else without regard to each person's right to their own opinion or standards. Cruisings2010's choice to compare the smell of cigarettes to a cheap two dollar street walker was unfortunate but Mr. Cnsfelswat read an awful lot into that which simply was not there. Calm down, my friend. You are being far too confrontational. Both hubby and I are non-smokers and while we wouldn't rule a person out for smoking, we would have to factor that in to our final decision. We are not on this site to simply find anonymous bodies to fuck. We are looking to find compatible people that we could become friends with before becoming playmates. I know my spelling is not without error, even authors need editors, but the extent of spelling and grammatical errors would also weigh when it came to decision time. Please allow us the right to judge for ourselves who we would wish to share our time with by using our own standards. Sorry for preaching, Sarzpuss. Things seemed to have gone way off subject. I have been on this site since february and only just had my first foursome last week. My first on on one with another female was last month and my first mfm threesome was the month before that. Be patient, fine tune your profile using the well meant advice offered by the other members and eventually you will find the right playmate(s). Hugs and kisses, Jen.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, sir, I did read your post carefully. How carefully did you read mine? Everything I wrote still stands and you are still being far too confrontational. I never even insinuated that you were attacking all people who patronise RHP. I was suggesting that you are very short of patience to people who don't share your own point of view. Thank you for puntuating my own point. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry, my mistake. You were talking to the other Jenny. We all make mistakes. Still I guess that's part of what I was trying to say to begin with. Nobody's perfect. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr Cns, I’m not concerned about my dick falling off if I meet a smoker; I just choose not to be intimate with a smoker based on my own thoughts and view of smoking when it relates to my play partners. Just like people who don’t shower before playing or brushing their teeth, it is unpleasant to me and I think most would agree. Would you have had the same reaction if I had said “Body odor smells like a hobo on the railroad”? Only if you thought showering once a month was adequate for personal hygiene and everyone else who showered daily were the odd ones out. I’m sure though you shower more than once a month (well I hope so). You related to my post for whatever reason and then projected your own insecurities. I’m not concerned about some online character assassination but save the threats for a PM and not a public forum, it just makes you look like a twat and any educated person would scratch their head and wonder “how does one pick up their teeth for a month”?? What would be more plausible is “I will choke you to death with my sausage fingers". My original comment was about “Improving sarzpuss’s profile” I admired their honesty but said it can be a double edged weapon. I’m sure you’re familiar with the phrase “Kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray”. Better to play to the masses than to the few. At Sarzpuss, Great to read some constructive advice has been taken on board and by looking at your profile you will find enough suitable (smoking or non-smoking) play partners in the near future. It was a shame your thread was high jacked and did not maintain the honesty of the topic you were simply seeking.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks to all for for your opinions, thoughts, comments, and advice. It's been very helpful and we plan to do a complete over haul on our profile, basically starting from scratch. We would just like to say that it was not our intention to start what seems to be sledging war. We think that everyone is intitled to their opinions and other should respect that, in saying that others should be able to Voice their objections. The reasons for the spelling were not because we are unintelligent, but the whole experience was to be a bit of fun for me and hubby, we sat down after a few drinks and I have really long nails and hate computer. LoL Thanks again to everybody it's been a great help and we hope that others experiencing similar issues can find the same help from this as we did.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your updated profile looks very nice.Single girls looking to play with couples arn't called unicorns because of how common they are however you've increased your chances dramaticly. I wish you luck and know that if you remain patient and keep searching the site you'll find a nice playmate.P.S. I'm rather new myself so don't know the odds.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Post that in a year and it could still be the same. If you're experiencing upset from expectations not met, then lower your expectations. There's no guarantees here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cruising2010'Your profile has a few "Ask Me" which leaves much to the imagination (especially height).Use spell check! Have a read over your very obvious errors and as my partners have said "Anyone who uses abbreviations such as ppl or im are binned" Get verified, it will improve your chances of initial contact.The pool of girls or F/F couples aged between 18-30 who seek a M/F couple is very shallow.You smoke which is becoming less socially acceptable (honesty is admirable but can be double edged)All these factors add up and limit your opportunity to fun encountersLastly perseverance, it may take a couple of months before you find the right person/s (can't rush a good thing) well said on all points but screw the smoking thing! be honest i say... as a smoker myself...saves the surpise!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tiz the smell of garlic that lingers on my chocolate fingers. Damn that was funny you lot. More oaf a hostile debate but beneficial to naughties in the end. We love the forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Nathan_n_Cassie. We know what ya mean. Funny tho cause I was just reading a debate about replying. To reply or not to reply. Either interested or not interested. Funny that a lot of people say they reply even if it's a "THANKS BUT YOUR NOT WHAT WERE/I AM LOOKING FOR" Just want to say that we are still looking but had spoken with a few people now. Where it ends up not to sure as yet. BUT its been a lot of fun and loving this whole adult forums thing... been a few good reads... LOL Take care all LOVES>>>>>>>
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey there. Don't forget, this time of year can be a killer for any kind of "extra" activities people can get up to. I for one haven't had a weekend free in about 7 weeks. It's going to take another 7 to recover. A lot of people are play on the spur of the moment type on here too so perhaps want to hold off messaging till then. You guys are young so have heaps of time to have a good time! Chill relax..and only other suggestion is hunt round the site look at profile pics and maybe have your own fun with the camera and get some more pics up on your profile. (not saying ones you do have are bad ..just fill up all the blank spaces you have on your profile.) P.S..one of my bugbears about this forum is there is no room to edit your post once is posted. I for one have gone" DOH" after posting. Oh and as for smoking, yep it's a perfectly acceptable reason in my books not to want to play with anyone. Cudos to the OP for stating what is an important factor. Some won't mind others will better to get it out there before what could be a potential disastrous meet. There are some strong opponents to smoking out there!! Mrs Sat HTH.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi im new at this but all i want to do is explore my sexuality abit more and meet friends for fun and friendship. can anyone help me???
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RHP User
13 years ago
i know ive been a member for over a month too i think zoosk is just a picture perver website because noby ever replies, well here i go im 30 married and bi and im aloud to have a play chic. . .interested?
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