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lost love
February 17 2015
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6exxy
10 years ago
You never get over it, you learn to live with the fact. Souls connecting are not easy to find. Remember the love, cherish the fact that you had it Look for another and value the next one to no end! 💐
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RHP User
10 years ago
In time it hurts less but is always there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I lost my best lover once. But then I realised my right hand had just fallen asleep. I am a person who dies not think there is a live if your life. What I believe in a moment in time you connect with amazing force but like all things beautiful it passes. Unless of course if it's a bit of art. We get over it by living a happy life as best we can. Death takes loved ones , life and time seperate the living. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have never found a great love,so I have never lost one..I don't think it's either a good or a bad thing,it just is ..hugs redhot666 xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have never lost a true love because I don't feel I have ever found true love. I have loved, but I don't think I have ever been IN love and the older I get the less i believe it will happen for me.
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
In love three times, and got belted every time. I don't expect to do it again - not for me any more. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
He was a gorgeous blue eyed blonde, cheeky smile no very mischievous eyes. He tied me to a tree and kissed me and then put bugs on me, we were 8, but it was true love! The same gorgeous boy was my first real love at 17, but my family moved and it all ended. We reconnected about 18 months ago, we fell back into everything so easily only problem is he lives on the other side of the country. Love is meant to be torture isn't it?
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JDM76
10 years ago
Yes , a couple of mths before xmas in fact and it hurts , more and more with each day , and when you know you are the one at fault for the loss , it is very hard to think straight sometimes and tell yourself that you will be in love ever again , Honestly i don't feel complete and whole , I miss her terribly , and it is the small things , like getting back into bed in the middle of the night after going to the bathroom and snuggling , a simple hand hold for a few seconds when shopping , pet names for each other , things like that are the hardest for me at this point in time .
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RHP User
10 years ago
i will never get over him he was my life an love my master
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RHP User
10 years ago
yep. I have loved and lost someone from the scene. You never get over it. It's a reality gap, if you will. And trying to close the gap is what causes the pain. We are blessed for having loved that deeply. But love doesn't always last. We make the most of every new moment, without comparison (eventually). This too shall pass. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Redhot666, Truly I feel your pain, perhaps it's an RHP curse. I too, met my match here also! Finally,after all these years, a person that quite literally stopped time for me! (Very left field I might add, and not what I expected to happen!) And so, 135 days later, I sit here still licking my wounds, slightly confused and perplexed as to what brought such a Houdini disappearing act to fruition! (Perhaps a logical explanation would resolve the situation.) And I might add, that a small beautifully hand delivered packaged, emblazoned with "Do not consume, whilst operating a moving vehicle", and containing 13 perfectly packaged Rum Balls (Home-made I might add, by my own fair hand!), failed to retrieve the situation! Without sounding flippant to your own pain, no one else since has passed muster. Very nice men, one or two that I am rather platonic with, but absolutely no connection! It's made dating extraordinarily easy since, and saves an enormous amount of time! So does it get better? Not really. My advice, get busy, really, really busy! And try not to think too much. Better to be with no one, unless they are perfectly suited to you. And, no I don't hold my breath waiting for lightening to strike twice! That said, I'm a rather optimistic creature, there are 6 billion people in the world, so there is always hope!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'funbuns43' I have never lost a true love because I don't feel I have ever found true love. I have loved, but I don't think I have ever been IN love and the older I get the less i believe it will happen for me. we're the same person...!
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
...is at school today
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RHP User
10 years ago
My elderly father and his partner of 15 yrs travelled to Italy, two days in she suffered a stroke and was hospitalised. Being both their birth place, their native tongue and her family close at hand made what was a difficult time somewhat less daunting.After six weeks with little improvement he decided to return home to Australia.Being apart over a seven month period his health deteriorated, whilst she was on the improve and so looking forward to being re united once more. He passed away very resonantly some would say of a broken heart.With the news she passed on the day of his funeral.The flip side is his request was always to buried next to his first true love who passed 32 years before him.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Says it. I hold it true, whate'er befall; I feel it, when I sorrow most, 'Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Ghost of lover lost Her hand forever there Waving me onward To a future somewhere The past is not forward She is back there Cannot go too far on To no longer see her I could not bear.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have lost a great love and thought at times she could never be replaced, but now I know that was just nostalgia. I believe you get from life what you are prepared to put into it and what your prepared to go and get I certainly don't believe that there is one person for everyone because I have seen too many people prove that to be wrong. Its summer, the sun is shinning and so many things left to do... Life is for the living
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry to say but if it was true love then you would have found a way or a compromise that would have made it work. This time it just wasn't meant to be ... so perhaps there is something possibly better on the horizon for you. My ex moved from North America to Perth to make it work and it did for 4 wonderful years until the Universe changed course and we ended up separating mutually. Long story, but we got on with our lives and are very happy again following different paths. Best wishes LG
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6exxy
10 years ago
Josie when you least expect it from an unusual place......... Oh yeah send me the rum balls! 😉 oh and yeah stop looking for lightening gurl it will kill ya! 😘 Leo_girl it really takes two people feeling that way to make it work. Then two as one you will be able to overcome all obstacles 💗
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can't remember the name but it says "if she's one in a million.....then there's 5 more just in new South wales". Comforting, no? :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's pure punishment to be honest with ones self and accept that you alone are responsible for a love lost - my eternal penance is to carry that burden and feel it's thorny embrace every single day. Tread not the path I chose, grow and cherish your love like a rare orchid.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I got lost in lust..... But alas he really was lost....
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RHP User
10 years ago
You do not have to get over him miss hot, you keep him close with memories and love. Never forget the future ! will not be one like your lost love ,no reason you cannot find another to love as much !!?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
OMG yes been there. Sometimes we just don't know what love is I guess. How did I get over it???? Never really have to be brutally honest. Just learn to live with it in some ways, I mean........ If you can get over it, it probably was never love to begin with. Hugs and much love to help you through this Dave
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CucknShells' with a lost love. It was worst the second time than the first.Fell in love with again instantly. Stupid, mental, addictive and obsessive love. He awoken something inside of me which I will always be externally grateful for.However I didn't want to be with him. I wanted to have my cake and eat it too. For a short time after I opened up to my husband it was perfect for the three of us but alas his relationship was not open so it ended. I haven't spoken to him in over two years now. With every passing day I think a little less of him. It just takes time. However I will always miss him and I will love him until the day I die. Shells.
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