lover

June 27 2013

how an I be the perfect lover to most ladies and make them smile. would love some help here

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are as many answers as there are women mate. Being yourself and exploring what she likes and wants are not bad ways to start though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Want to take that one?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    DG...where are youuuuuuu???? FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just be yourself... (and if you have great legs, wearing a pair of fishnets would make me )

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    lol Sheeeeeeesh DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ask Yoda!

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    No really listen to your lover ! She will give you all the clues you need to satisfy her. But that is her . Everyone is different Oh and try some tongue exercises lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Two words: Listen and Remember. That's how you learn. Oh, and practice, practice, practice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Be honest, relax and pay attention to your partner...when I first joined RHP I didn't know what I was doing, i was a bundle of nerves and wasn't sure how to talk to a lady. The best advice I was given was to be myself. I found that once I was comfortable, I was able to learn about my partner, what they liked, loved and adored...My best advice is don't go into anything with a preconceived notion of how things will go, if you do that, you lose the fun, and will most likely end up in an uncomfortable situation... That's my thoughts anyway, good luck on the roller coaster :-)

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Do not when you first meet her strip down to nothing and say your just getting comfortable. Don't offer a massage and only concentrate on one area, most women's erogenous zones are thier entire bodies. Be a great kisser, ahuh yup and be a gentleman. Be attentive, alluring, verbose, sex starts with the mind waaaay before the body as the "seasoned males" here know. and penetration is not the be all and end all. lol and tongue exercises yes definately tongue exercises!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Indagine, that description has me excited ❤

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    breathing through your ears

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Stimulate Her Mind . Give a Woman your full attention , make her feel Special . Respect Her and listen to Her . Be Open with her . Understand that No means No . Understand that Yes means YES !! & with Sex ; Give more than you Take ... ;) GG♒ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    One thing, is being there for a lady when the last thing on her mind is sex, chances are that you will be there when she does. Then it is just the matter of hold on cowboy, yeh hahhMado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My ''How to be a Perfect Lover '' workshop starts Monday at 10am...be on time and don't shove the other participants out of the way...I will advise you all equally,these things can't be rushed you know...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting '50zkool' breathing through your ears develop gills ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' Quoting '50zkool' breathing through your ears develop gills ... But I like the way you think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Win some lose some. No way will you make them all happy. Nature has it that there someone out there for everyone. So just enjoy the girls meant for you. You'll know when they come along.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Make sure you patent that concept   If you can make a woman laugh, you will often find that its a pathway to the bedroom   I don't mean open your pants and say what to do you think?? if you get gales of laughter then zip up and go   Ask DG , a guy with a vagina in his brain, after all he knows how women think   when you write DG, I have a vision of Huge Hefner , where are the RHP bunnies?   lol meeka where are your rabbit ears

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Breathing with a heartbeat with out the use of a respirator or oxygen tank..Oh and NO starfishing either! ;-) FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's how I get most of my laughs.....now what do I do??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    send me photos if your dirty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Funlover71'That's how I get most of my laughs.....now what do I do?? then once she is in bed and poke it around the side of the door, if she gives a giggle andsays ok come into the bed room you can say just a second I have to come up the stairs first...then she will feint! and you can nab her

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Are you trying to make me blush?Wont work.The gene was denatured in utero. Tuscan joked about it ....but she hit the nail on the head.Sun Tzu, in his brilliant book that spans the ages...The Art of War, said..."To know your Enemy, you must become your Enemy."Now, Im not saying women are the enemy.... FAR from it... I LOVE women..... but, observing and understanding how others think, work and behave.... is always a good and very beneficial thing.DG

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Anythingrightnow, that was very sweet of you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    that reminds me of that movie with Mel Gibson where he was struck by lightening and when he woke up he could hear women's thoughts. Wouldn't be wonderful if you could hear all our thoughts. PMSL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Start with the intention of giving a woman a little of what she wants. Instead of a whole lot of what you think she would want? Make sure you are present, in a good frame of mind and have allocated plenty of time (I'm talking woman time here, which is not the same as man time), drop your shit at the door, such as work or other pressures and don't mention them to her, they're yours. Don't forget to breath so you're heart rate slows down and your brain gets some oxygen and into the right gear. You are entering a woman's domain and the laws are not the same. Ego isn't a currency in woman's world. Best lose it beforehand as it will only create barriers and problems for yourself. The best tool you can take with you is a pair of ears.....listen to the obvious...... but also simultaneously tune in to the more subliminal messages....such as body language and adjust with hers accordingly. This is one dance where she actually leads you! Know that your whole future experience and the quality of the intimacy that is possible with a woman is always in direct correlation to how intimate you can be with yourself first. If you find being with yourself difficult, go off and do some inner work, or even a bit of deep and ruthless therapy, as the rewards will come back ten fold.Getting your own act together is fundamental.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Start with the intention of giving a woman a little of what she wants. Instead of a whole lot of what you think she would want? Make sure you are present, in a good frame of mind and have allocated plenty of time (I'm talking woman time here, which is not the same as man time), drop your shit at the door, such as work or other pressures and don't mention them to her, they're yours. Don't forget to breath so you're heart rate slows down and your brain gets some oxygen and into the right gear. You are entering a woman's domain and the laws are not the same. Ego isn't a currency in woman's world. Best lose it beforehand as it will only create barriers and problems for yourself. The best tool you can take with you is a pair of ears.....listen to the obvious...... but also simultaneously tune in to the more subliminal messages....such as body language and adjust with hers accordingly. This is one dance where she actually leads you! Know that your whole future experience and the quality of the intimacy that is possible with a woman is always in direct correlation to how intimate you can be with yourself first. If you find being with yourself difficult, go off and do some inner work, or even a bit of deep and ruthless therapy, as the rewards will come back ten fold.Getting your own act together is fundamental.