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lover names or terms of endearment

July 30 2013

So guys I'm just curious to know what terms of endearment make you feel the most special and which ones do you hate? Sometime ago I said to a guy I'd been seeing for a while when he turned up at the door "hey babe" he seemed a little offended that I had called him babe... maybe due to him being alot younger than me I'm not sure lolI tend to call all guys babe tho I know the name can be used for females too... so ladies also - what names do you use for guys sometimes? have you had anyone get offended at being called babe or honey etc?Are some terms of endearment referring specifically to men or women you think or are all of them gender neutral? and I'm not talking about the names you yell out during sex lol

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Lmao but depends on the person as to how familiar you can be I guess. Have lovers I've been very familiar with and another who it just seems awkward because I'm not sure if he'll take it the wrong way. I personally love greeting most of the men in my life with "hello you gorgeous hunk of masculine perfection" and watch them smile, get flustered or giggle like a girl.... Guess it's whatever fits the person or the moment really, unless they're anal retentive. ~ insert raised eyebrows and wide eyed innocence ~. Good post OP I was having this dilemma only this morning. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Depends on how well I know some one Amarella. aka sweetcheeks he he   Joking aside I don't think id take offence to any name that you called me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I find the term Babe so lame so almost rude its sounds quite cheap actually. A long time ago a girlfriend of mine said guys call girls babe because they cant remember their name.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Girl friend of mine calls me boof head, or just boof for short. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've uttered lately is "arsehole"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Babe, honey, beautiful man and my favourite is lover. But only after he is all those things......- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well first up I'm not really big on "babe" or "hun" but I guess it's better than "lovey " ! I tend to get abbreviations of my name so won't do that here. But "gorgeous hunk of masculine perfection" would work ! 💋- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    I don't like being called BABE at all - nor do I call anyone else that! It makes me cringe like fingernails going down a chalk board!! In saying that Mr Cheeky calls me babe n a close friend does too - they are the only 2 I tolerate! I usually call ppl by their real name or I shorten their name or make it longer eg Andrew - might get Andy or Drew or Toby might be Tobes or Toe. Mrs Cheeky x

  • kinky_master

    kinky_master

    11 years ago

    I generaly just get referred to as "Sir" - unless everything is working out perfectly and I get called "Master" - seems a lot better than babe - lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Oh yes I like both "lover" and "beautiful man" the latter is definitely a fave ! Oh and "sexy man" ! 😍- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For me: Only my lover can get away with calling me Bitch. I HATE IT, HATE IT, HATE IT when any other guys call me that, even a FB!For him: I call him my Red Hot Lover, but I think he prefers me to just moan out his name when I cum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    everyone darling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    some people have personal traumas...lolI dont care, how call me.Amarella, lets met? you can call me how you want! =)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Itsbsweetheart

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The 'b' of course

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    I used to have a habit of shortening friends names as a matter of course. As like cheekyarses . Andrew = Andy etc. That was until a friend introduced me to her new boyfriend....Dushan.

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    I have a good friend on here who simply calls me "Arsehole", I call her "Evil Bitch". We may both be right :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "Hun" or "sweetness" - because they are honeys or sweet people to me.A G/F and I call each other "Darl"..as it's just a little banter thing between us.FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hate being called "BABE" because its a generic term.For some reason,i have always named a lover after a sweet.Snickers,cup cake,black forest,picnic,top deck ,cheese cake,apple pie the list just goes on and on I had an ethnic lover i called "Baklava" At least it's original ,and most people like feeling special and having an original name !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When someone introduces you to another and they say.."This is my bitch!"sarcasm or not, I ain't no ones bitch...FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    All happy with that , i hardly called them by names and No ones complained so far , better than me calling him with another person's name ,now that is a problem, lol !... so it is safer like that.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    Sweety Sackadapussy Grumbles Honeypot

  • Bambi_Peeks

    Bambi_Peeks

    11 years ago

    Just don't call me... Garden Gnome... I ain't that short!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Whats wrong with a man being called 'Babe' for gods sake ? Its harmless and definitely non offensive as far as Im concerned.I've been called all sorts of endearing names over the years. Mate' .. Hunk,... Sort... Babe.. BTW' Im just repeating not suggesting these pet names are anything else but. I take them as a compliment as the girls who used them I usually like.Names I like to use for GFs : Precious... Blossom.. Gorgeous.. Pretty one... Mate.. Would never use Hun or Baby. Just dont feel them..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I wont repeat the names I was called while playing foot over the years.. but that dont count ' huh...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I call everyone Sweety or darling, my lover I call lovely boy or gorgeous man, good friends gorgeous woman. Someone I slept with recently called me baby and that was a bit weird, I'm 12 yrs older. I like most terms of endearment. My lover has found one that I don't like and insists on using it to get a rise out of me (bastard), and to make me laugh. No, I'm not telling!

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    I get called Evil Bitch too!!! Have to laugh cos we all know I'm just a wayward angel....hey Bastard? Yes guilty of shortening people's names down to a letter...like A lol or G. :-B i'm big on time saving!!! :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sackadapussy?????????????is this used as a conge?..as in I'm gonna sackadapussy,farewell.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'I get called Evil Bitch too!!! Have to laugh cos we all know I'm just a wayward angel....hey Bastard? Yes guilty of shortening people's names down to a letter...like A lol or G. :-B i'm big on time saving!!! :-D most of the time I just get EB

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Never call me late for dinner!   Talk about touchy..... Mind you if someone called me a big hunk of spunk (Kath & Kim) I wouldn't stop laughing for weeks and love it....

  • wingman2014

    wingman2014

    11 years ago

    Did someone call me a bastard ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My husband calls me "his little love chicken"..... always with a grin on his face. Makes me laugh .... he used to call me "love bucket" years ago .... well I guess love chicken is a slight improvement on the latter.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In my world if I use the phrase 'You Idiot' it is meant as a term of endearment and praise of the highest order !! I kind of need what I call the idiot factor.. My beautiful 34yo special girl gets this term often.. Sooo much fun when you can laugh and be silly together..

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Lol JJ he has such a BIG head!!! When I refer to you as Bastard Wings you'll KNOW it's you on this occasion I was thinking of yet another BASTARD in my life....haha. Jaz_Nurse that's lovely....my hubby calls me the Epicentre of His Universe...,I refer to him as the Earth beneath my feet (or loosely translated he says "as the dirt I walk on"). Lmao. Yes you you know who you are. I don't have a pet name for you..... Well not one I'd call you to your face.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I knew a girl who had usual names for her boyfriends. One I recall was called her 'odour'.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Some interesting and funny responses... :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    loverboy...ive got that alot,but only in specific situations...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    *usual = unusual :P- Posted from rhpmobile