massage night ideas please

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  be a real shocker if you planned this and it wasn't something she wanted at all? Or is it a fantasy that she has had for a long time and you are sure she wants to live it out? Question you need to ask, is will she be pissed and therefore cause damage to your relationship. I am sure many others will harp on this quite a bit so will leave it to them. So, find a guy that actually knows how to massage and not just rub her down, giving a proper massage that will actually feel great and relax her will absolutely lower her inhibitions and a man with a great touch when it comes to massage can help your wife feel amazing. I am basing this on that she is cool with this by the way. Also venue, where, lighting and how you introduce this is key. Reading the signs will be important, a hand there and a finger there may give the guy doing the massage all the keys and clues he needs to know to adjust the massage accordingly. If she doesn't react or tells him off if he massages too high along her inner thigh then you know this ain't going to work. However if she moans and parts her legs well you have the green light. But first point is key, make sure this is something she really wants and enjoy!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Makes e think of the ninja thread that Freya started. Can't remember where I found it but it's definitely something I'd like to try. Help on where to find it any one?

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  buszwack

  11 years ago

  I should be of some assistance 😉 Jas - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Over here look :)) I'm keen if u want ;),,

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Something about this topic reminds me if the 'gift' topic. Is this for her.... Or you? DG

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The OP clearly states it's for his wife. Why the need for cynicism? . Apart from that, I think Mind_lover makes some great points.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  try advance search,Freya13...all posts with Ninja in the title.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Couple wanted the fantasy of having a black guy fulfil this fantasy but this was led more by the wife than the man. I had chatted to them both and the fantasy for her was to have me alone. While it was great for her, feedback I got later from her was that all was not well with his reaction to her coming home that night. All I can say is make sure you are BOTH on board for this kind of fun. No fun for the guy coming in to know that everything isn't cool afterwards.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  This will be hard to pull off unless you have a trusted ally for the job... the person would have to be well versed on the signs to go or stay as Mind_Lover mentioned and would have to be willing to accept the outcome however it plays out. As a question to you... given you are a couple on this site one would assume that your wife can/will read this and the surprise is blown... or is that a false assumption? (have learned my lesson about being overly descriptive in the open forums) Also, is this a romantic massage or a post dinner relaxing massage in the lounge room type event? The different options allow for some fun and interesting alternatives. SG

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  @ mes... (knowing what's next).... I'm sure you've never been contacted by a guy from a couple suggesting.... you're just for her. ;-) lol.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'@ mes... (knowing what's next).... I'm sure you've never been contacted by a guy from a couple suggesting.... you're just for her. ;-) lol. Come to think of it, I haven't! Hmmm. I have been asked to be his present multiple times though. And every single time from couples profiles that seemed legit, but who knows.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  take her to Bali for a four hands massage...a happy ending indeed

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I would like to thank you all for your comments it has given me plenty to think about. I have stated this profile as a couple wife has not seen it . we have done swinging in past manly separate but my wife has gone off it a bit. But one thing she has said is the if it kind of happens with no planning she probably will. That is why I was thinking of the massage idea and if she gets hot and it happens good and well just need to find the right guy that for the situation.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  And there it is :-)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  sounds to me mischeviouslad by your comments that you just like being a to put it nicely a smarty I'm right haha. I did not think this was what these threads were about was just after a bit of general ideas such as most other people have.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  I call it as I see it..... as is the purpose of open forums. It ain't always gonna be pretty or popular..... like life. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'relaxedcouple68' I would like to thank you all for your comments it has given me plenty to think about. I have stated this profile as a couple wife has not seen it . we have done swinging in past manly separate but my wife has gone off it a bit. But one thing she has said is the if it kind of happens with no planning she probably will. That is why I was thinking of the massage idea and if she gets hot and it happens good and well just need to find the right guy that for the situation. Are you saying that your wife doesn't know about this thread, or doesn't know about your "couples" profile?I sincerely hope it's the former and not the latter

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Smarties...but sometimes the box is a bit short....not quite full

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  maybe the massage for her is planned as a stimulation for you to both enjoy leggo

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