meeting places eg clubs and pubs

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I don't think there is any pressure at couples club is there? In fact there are always couples or some people that stay upstairs, have a drink, dance and chat and don't play at all. That is were you will meet like minded people and no one thinks twice if you say that you are not playing tonight. Otherwise I personally don't know of any other clubs where you can go. Have you had look at the events section for meet & greet nights? I am sure you will find something suitable there. Seriously though, most events there is no pressure to play and if there is or you feel uncomfortable just leave. Drives me nuts how alot of people assume that just because you attend an event you have to play or that you can't say no if someone approaches you for sex. Not saying that you guys are, but I have had people say they couldn't go to "these " places because they are too fussy.WT? What are they saying, that I am not because nothing could be further from the truth than that. Good luck and hope you have fun. Remember we are here for a good time not a long time ;-) AbothHave you been to Hell Fire? That can be an interesting night and most people are quiet friendly. Meeka

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'd second that advice about CC, I spent a lovely evening there chatting and making out with my partner-in-crime, it wasn't like other parties with a "9 o'clock naked" rule or anything. It seemed perfectly fine to just hang out, like a night club but not quite so loud - but if you wanted to nick off for something fun you easily could.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  additional note: when I was there, there were younger and older people there, so it's not like walking into a key-party thrown by your parents :p

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Oh dear, the 9 o'clock naked rule! Lol The first party I ever went to about a year ago now was like that. I had met a very cheeky forum memeber who offered to take me to a party, show me around so to speak. So he picks me up on his motorbike and takes me to a very naughty anything goes party but neglects to tell me about the 9 o'clock strip off rule!! Hehe. I have also learnt to always take a pair of thongs whenever I go out with him... You just never know what you are stepping in at some of these places. :D Meeka

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  You know all the classy guys around here Meeka! I've never been to Couple's Club. It just seems too formal for my style... plus, I'd be tempted to wrestle some of the naked guys on all those slippery mats and as I understand it, that's not cocher. I love a night out at Hellfire Club though. There's no "sex" on premises... but such a good night and lots of friendly people dressed outrageously! I'd recommend curious couples check it out. Meeka you'll wish you were in kneepads, gumboots and a plastic raincoat... for the ultimate handjob experience outdoors. :) Hugs Stalky

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Jesus Stalky.. Every time I go out with you I am usually stepping in something wet. Hehe

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  QLDtwo4fun

  13 years ago

  We are in Brissy, there are a few clubs here, they are not all the same, you may need to try a few in Sydney to see what you like. Clubs offer a safe place to organise meetings with potential play mates, if they don't work out you might get lucky anyway. They can also be good for a casual sexy night out. If couple we don't already know doesn't want to meet at a club we usually don't meet them.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hey OP,we've been to CC a few times and had a good time, sometimes playing sometimes not. There's no pressure and you can stay upstairs away from the action.If you are not a pack a day smoker however I wouldn't recommend it. There's no ventilation and it can get very unpleasant for non-smokers on a busy night.We've also found on busy nights the hygiene downstairs can be a bit lacking, but that's more of a problem for those that want to jump in. The place really needs a makeover IMO.Went to a Redheaven party the other night (after Sexpo) and it was great for meeting friendly people in a casual way. Will definitely do that again. Look out for these is my recommendation (and a couple of others like them we haven't tried yet).Unfortunately we swingers are not well served in Sydney. Quite jealous of the gay men who have a venue for every night and every mood!Cheers,Mr Chick

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  (not intended as a threadjack) Are there any nice clubs in surfers that are less outright 'swingers club' and more 'night club that also just happens to be a bit more salacious'?

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