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RHP User
14 years ago
...I'd say that is why! "To reply to a messages" That you wrote, or that you received? If it is what you wrote: - Did you maybe write more than one miss spelt line? - Did you read their profile and were you what they were looking for? - Did you say anything about say their profile or something that you may have in common? - With no public photo your chances are pretty low, as most people have a public photo. - Wanting to meet with someone 18-99 is a bit weird...? - Your profile is rather dull, make it stand out, not rate as one of the worst... Harsh, but you asked? Well at least I think you did...
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
1. If the member has blocked you then you will not be able to reply to their message. 2. You can only reply to a message once. ET
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RHP User
14 years ago
because after a while, you get tired of wankers who really dont match your profile 'wants' and instead of 'going through the motions' of writing a polite response, you just ignore that theyve written a message and go on looking for those who wont waste your time.........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Well if they maka as mucha sensa as your question...LMAO!!!
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MissSarahCurious
14 years ago
Q: Why is it so hard to reply to a messages?A: Cos you have one hand on it, leaving only hand free to type your replies!~Sorry, goingforward, I'm feeling playful... teehee.I'd say you're either a) not putting anything in your messages that gives them a reason to reply (very very common) or an opening to a conversation OR b) targeting the wrong women OR c) all of the above.Also it helps to check how long it's been since the last time the object of your desires was online, lots of people find what they're looking for but their profile is still paid up.xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'd go with technical. Are you having computer problems? Can not hit the right....spot maybe? I dont seem to have the same issues. Maybe your.....page.....needs refreshing.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most folks here can't read or type...and the one's that can don't own a keyboard. I just installed a voice to text system on my computer or could not have answered this question either.
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RHP User
14 years ago
NO PICTURE... NO REPLY... Nearly 99% of profiles without pics go nowhere.NO PIC'S and the most common flirt is. " you're hot' what do you think of me " ? WTF ? We dont have csystal balls you know..Quote, People say Im good looking but I'll let you be the judge.. Same again.. still no crystal ball if no pic .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Your profile is made up of auto-pick lines with nothing original. It says nothing about you. If you are putting the same effort into your messages then so will the people to whom you sent them. You need to say something they want to hear. Don't forget, your profile is advertising who you are. If you advertise nothing then that is what you will receive.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' ...I'd say that is why! LOL........ I have to agree........Miss Seductive xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
hi do you have email or can you tell me how to work this site without paying lmao
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RHP User
14 years ago
There is not a woman on this planet that does not like it when you notice that she has nice shoes... | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Every one has something unique and special about them...| Of course there are exceptional exceptions and sometimes just saying you like bare feet and a simple cobalt blue dress might work? HSC is right...being abnormally or paranormally normal is a lot more noticeable and certainly more fun that crapping on about day to day stuff. | You know how to catch a unique bunny...you 'neak up on her. | | Shower radar and tail wagging dogs helps too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' There is not a woman on this planet that does not like it when you notice that she has nice shoes... | Ummm guess I'm from another planet?! going_forward - Everyone is different. They may not check in often. They may have many other meassages. They may decide not to respond in a negative way, instead simply saying nothing. Prehaps they cannot figure out how to send messages. Guests cannot respond to all messages can they? Prehaps they simply have their reasons and so you have two options, One: let it bug you or Two: shrug it off and move on. It is so easy to get stuck on the little things but at the end of the day it is only yourself that gets stuck. Let it go and move on.
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RHP User
14 years ago
its Not .. they just chose Not To ..Simple Hey !
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RHP User
13 years ago
if ur profile says nothing bout u and no pic, dnt match what im looking for and def overseas the way i see it the guys def hvnt read mine so just shown same curtosy also women get up to 40 flirts a day and close to that in messages to sort thru, its not delibreatly being rude just time managment, iv also found that when i hve done the right thing and replied explaining thanx but no thanx they dnt take hint, put more effort in ur profile in details and pics and ul get mre responses
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RHP User
13 years ago
Simple answer some people are just plain a**holes with no consideration to the person who has taken the time to reply to their add easy as that. It’s just common courtesy if someone says hi to you say hi back even if it’s a hi thanks but no thanks I sometimes wonder if it is just an ego stroke for some people to see how many people look at their add and reply to them and no that’s not just profile's that’s even when people put something in date finder, at least give the person who has expressed interest in you the courtesy of saying thanks but no thanks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we've received thousands of messages from all sorts since joining a number of years ago.....but many are so far from what we are seeking that its ridiculous...we have found that many dont even bother to read a profile...liking the pictures is enough. we receive messages from...married guys...short guys....out of towners....cigar smokers....hairy guys.....young guys...... none of whom we are looking for...so we do them all the same 'courtesy' they have done us, and ignore what they have written, and refuse point blank to waste our time and respond..............
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RHP User
13 years ago
Geez... Im agreeing with you again, seems like we are walking in parallel lines here. It could have been me writing that exact same message.. Like you, we too return the compliment when someone refuses to read and respect our profile...
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tamworthguy46
13 years ago
People can't realy reply to your thread if they dom't know what your talking about ? Are people not replieng to your messages ? Or are you having trouble replieng to other peoples messages ? I can pnly assume like most of the other replies, that you arn't getting your messages answered ?, that you might have to put a bit more work into your messages , profile, and pics. Tam
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Geez... Im agreeing with you again, seems like we are walking in parallel lines here. It could have been me writing that exact same message.. Like you, we too return the compliment when someone refuses to read and respect our profile... its not so scary or surprising is it? we are couples of similar age and possibly backgrounds......theres bound to be similarities in attitudes and experience......... its confidence inspiring when those who would be your 'peers' voice their agreement......thanks for the message.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its not!
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
While I answer every message .... may take me some time...but I do eventually get there..I am kind of perplexed on how a guy thinks I can possibly answer a message that just says "Hi, how are you?" To me this is laziness in its purest form...if you can't write something with a bit of substance and treat every girl as an individual and maybe touch on what is written on her profile then how am I supposed to answer? I do understand that you might not get many replies...but that one person that you cut and paste your one message to may pass on you because the message is .... well...boring! And if a girl says that you are not what she is looking for...if you must, send a thank you note...but don't go getting abusive and asking what you can change to be with her...those second messages just get deleted and most times blocked! xFunlovingx
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' And if a girl says that you are not what she is looking for...if you must, send a thank you note...but don't go getting abusive xFunlovingx Not everyone is suited to everyone...there will be many "sorry, not for me" replies and even more non-replies so just take it as the rule of unequal averages on this site and keep looking. Soon you will get that first reply and you will be in heaven ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why are there so many people that dont even give you the courtesy of responing to a message. I in the belief that if someone sends you a flirt or message at least reply either showing interest or no interest. So many think they are above the rest in terms of intelligence and choose to ignore when what they should be doing is going through all correspondence and replying. This is my take. Michael.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Quoting 'CoolMcCool' Why are there so many people that dont even give you the courtesy of responing to a message. I in the belief that if someone sends you a flirt or message at least reply either showing interest or no interest. So many think they are above the rest in terms of intelligence and choose to ignore when what they should be doing is going through all correspondence and replying. This is my take. Michael. I agree that it is rude not to answer a message....but a Flirt is a total different kettle of fish. I try and answer as many Flirts as I can...but the ones that I can't find replies to is "I think you're hot what do you think of me" as they usually are sent automatically when the person rates you as hot! And also the other one there is no answer to is "I just wanted to say I love your profile"... this Flirt isn't telling me that the person is interested...just that they like my written word! On the other other hand though...I do like the Flirt..."If I send you a message will you reply?" as it allows me to say yes or no before they waste a message on me (If they are not what I'm looking for)! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Because it requires time, effort and grammatical correctness that is physically and intellectually beneath 99% of women, on this site at least. I'm happy to be proven wrong, but still waiting. I wouldn't call it hope, but its the first word that comes to mind...
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RHP User
13 years ago
they are just rude or not online.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For every single message you receive, these ladies are probably receiving fifty messages. Some of the ladies I have met tell me they are inundated so they spend a lot of the time sifting through messages that have little substance. This may or may not help with increasing your response rate:Read their profiles carefully to ensure you know what they are looking for and use this in the basis of your message. Be honest, don't be too overwhelming, throw in access to your gallery so they know what you look like, make sure your profile is engaging to the audience you are chasing. It is a tough gig for us fellas, but just keep persisting.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I always try to be polite and answer every message if I can, even if it's just a no thankyou. However, my problem is that I find if I answer a message and say no thankyou or something to the affect that I am not interested... then the guy always sends a message back and tries to ask why or why not, or try to persuade me by saying he likes older women, he knows how to please a woman, give him a chance, let's at least meet, etc, etc, etc. That kid of puts me off. When I answer a message and say not interested... thats it... and I dont like men constantly writing back to me telling me or asking me things to try to persuade me.....so that might be one reason people dont answer messages. I know that if a much younger guy messages me, sometimes I am very tempted not to answer back, cause I know that if I tell him he is too young for me, he will always write back again and tell me that he likes older women, or some kind of other thing to try to make me change my mind. I can't be bothered with that. If I was interested in the first place, I would say so....so maybe people should take no as no.... and leave it at that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CoolMcCool' Why are there so many people that dont even give you the courtesy of responing to a message. I in the belief that if someone sends you a flirt or message at least reply either showing interest or no interest. So many think they are above the rest in terms of intelligence and choose to ignore when what they should be doing is going through all correspondence and replying. This is my take. Michael. I squeeze in RHP where I can, the first few months I was doing all the right things, but life gets busy. Now i log in only every now and again and it is mainly for the forums and maybe to message people I already know. I often read a message (maybe 2 weeks after it was sent) and think, great message, must respond to that... but I am not even up to date with my home email/facebook and my work emails and home renovations and dealing with my toddler giveing 5 of my nearest and dearest gastro, just after coming out of hospital after she had a virus that triggered asthma, trips downsouth to the grandparents, getting to all the birthdays/parties, catching up with my friends, my toddlers friends, housework, shopping, garden and hopefully more than 6 hours sleep... now if I was available for a bit of sumfin sumfin, then that is when i message back, and my way of messaging is MANY paragraphs, I like detail, i am not going to lead peeps on by sending EVERYONE replies, because that leads to a reply! I will only email someone if I want and look forward to their reply. And this can be for friendly witty banter (had a 65yr old dirty story teller ) Forum buddies, sexy peeps i want to meet, but if i am not available i sometimes hold off coz i don't wanna tease, because RHP communication isn't business?! " Dear Sir/Madam or Sir and Madam, or 'group' or Mr/Ms Pan sexual, thank you for your letter dated 281982, we will keep it on file until a place matching your criteria opens up. We wish you all the best in your future finding someone to root, yours up the arse (preferably), XYZ?? This is meant to be a bit of dirty fun, not dot your i's cross your t's type stuff. I have received some one off messages that had me rolling on the floor with laughter or hot under the collar dieing 4 more. I wrote back eagerly awaiting a return message, but not upset that they didn't send one, i was happy to have enjoyed what i got there, maybe another time? No one owes anyone anything on here that they do not know?! People whinge as if there is an RHP rulebook that some of us aren't following, there isn't one!!! We are all here for different reasons, my advise is don't EXPECT, coz you'll most likely get disappointed. I don't go to a pub or a club and expect everyone to dance/talk/buy me a drink/root me? In person and on-line it takes 2 to tango, some prefer a salsa partner, don't bag them for it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate…did you read their profiles? And didn’t just stare drooling at the pictures the ladies on their profiles, and thought to yourself “I’ll message her” without reading any think. Once you know what they are looking for, (by reading their profile)and that you do fall into most of their preferences (and NO just being a male doesn’t fulfil the entire criteria, “woman seeking man” you do need to cover more than that), If you don’t match their preferences, and you messaged them? ….. That could be reason number one to No reply. Secondly do you have a picture up? ….. If not that could be reason number Two to No reply. Thirdly, if you fit their profile, and have a picture up and it’s been more than a week since you sent the message, and had no reply…… Id say then she aren’t that interested in you … mate ….. Or she hasn’t given you the courtesy of responding with a “No thanks” … so move on …. (Oh and yes ladies some of you do have some absolute hot pictures up on your profiles were drooling is deemed mandatory)
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