RHP

RHP User

M50

messaging?

August 31 2010

Can someone tell me? Can i guest reply to messages? i have been a member for sometime an the only responses i have had are for other members. I know they may have chosen not to reply . i was just curious? thanks.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes guests can reply to messages... Hugs... Mrs P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    yes we can reply to messages we just cant send the first one hope that helps roxxy...welcome to the forums

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think guests should get 1 free message per month !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I vote for 1 free message per month for guests...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    that if your actively looking you should fork out for a membership. If you can't afford a membership how are you going to afford to show a girl a good time with a modicum of class.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think you will find that the members reply to you because they appreciate the value of the limited number of messages we are allowed...a lot of the guests are here for a 'free ride' and have less respect. There are also 'guests' that are tyre kicking anyway. Just make sure your initial messages are polite, interested and not overly smutty. I reply to most messages, unless they are disrespectful Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As a female guest I get one free message each week... and I ALWAYS respond to everyone that messages me... I believe in Karma .. it pays to be nice :) Sassy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Only thing being a guest we can't see PG with nudity

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sassy, I didn't know that we got one free message to send a week...Off to try that right now... Lol I have been here for years now and never knew that. For the Judge and Jury also, I have been a verified guest and a paying member (for a period of time).. Sometimes the Judge & Jury are a little harsh.. xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't think that it works if you are trying to contact another female though. Not sure about couples but you can definitely message 1 guy per week.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Thanks Deserts, done and dusted lol.. Sorry forum got a bit snappy re the guest thing....I paid for a membership on another site which I got f....kd over by a married man...no I didn't know he was married.. Not offending any married guys here or anywhere, just not what I am looking for. You do think although if you pay on a paying site, pple are genuine, how stupid of me. I have met more genuine people being a guest. I don't have to pay for a membership to have fun...although have paid one time, once only and I am glad I did...I got to truly make a friend for life during this time. I vote if you spend alot of time on this site, rhp could record minutes/hours somehow. Guests could accumulate rhp points, like frequent flyers and then we get to send messages using these points...I think that's a great idea rhp!!!!!! xxx So moving right along, very interesting post....xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I would suggest you perhaps consider the messages you're sending??As a guest...I can reply freely to all messages I receive...but I'm not going to bother replying to any messagesin which it's obvious the guy has not read my profile...is sending a template message (and sometimes...forgets to change the name at the top)or is just rehashing his profile.Make your messages interesting! Put in some effort!Remember....for every 1 girl...there are 100 guys...so think of a message as a job application letter...and do your best!Otherwise....just like when applying for a job...you might never hear back.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    MESSAGES ,,,,,,,,some are good some are bad others just leave me wondering ,,,,,,,,, there are so many wonderful friendly people on RHP and as a guest member (yes i feel I am a member) the forum gives us all a chance to post our view and vent our opinion....also its gr8 for the perve on the new profiles when they appear and to see how the regs change their pics I always reply it is just being friendly Andy XXXXX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Biggest problem i see is you send a message and some people are just either too rude or down right lazy too reply.It doesnt take much too say im not interested thanksIs it people

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Lookingforfunau' It doesnt take much too say im not interested thanks I agree! It takes 2 seconds. Or there are flirts that say thanks, but no thanks. Mrs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Lookingforfunau' Biggest problem i see is you send a message and some people are just either too rude or down right lazy too reply.It doesnt take much too say im not interested thanksIs it people Yes...while that's true....it's also not hard for a guy to actually READ a profile...and NOT send a message that just says....wanna fuck?Or send a message when he doesnt fit ANY of the criteria you have put up.I reply to all messages in which some effort has been put in...coz if you dont put any effort into the message...why would i think you would put effort into anything else???JMO...BJxxx