RHP

RHP User

M52

need help

March 31 2014

Hi ladies and gents I have been a member for a while now and have not had any luck in finding some one could you tell me what I am doing wrong

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have added some more to my profile but now it has closed till it has been approved but so far its been over 12 hours, I have not put anything inappropriate in the profile just added some more information about myself. could you please let me know how long the process may take, thank you and have a great day Robert.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Its just a numbers game on here, I guess you just have to keep plodding along good luck cheersLadyT

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    However we can post advice...it's up to you what you do with it. I looked at your profile and it appears OK to me. I guess like most people on here, they have the same feelings as well, not just men but women too. I believe most people, when they first join here, they think think "WOW - it's a sex bomb place"...after a while reality hits home. Keep your chin up OP and keep posting in the forums...there are some truly amazing people on here! It's true I have met many of them. Foxy

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' However we can post advice...it's up to you what you do with it. I looked at your profile and it appears OK to me. I guess like most people on here, they have the same feelings as well, not just men but women too. I believe most people, when they first join here, they think think "WOW - it's a sex bomb place"...after a while reality hits home. Keep your chin up OP and keep posting in the forums...there are some truly amazing people on here! It's true I have met many of them. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Maybe look at changing your age bracket. I don't know that many woman between 18-30 who want to date/play with a 41 year old man. But that's just my opinion, and it is your choice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and if they are indicative of your general messaging approach, then you may want to have a think about how you can improve it. I don't know if the messages you send to women who live close to you are different and have more substance to them, but one sentence messages telling a woman that she has a great butt, or that she is beautiful, are certainly flattering but they don't inspire her to reply with anything more than a thankyou. You are up against a lot of competition on here so you need to try and stand out in some way, or the women will just ignore you. I realise that writing isn't everyone's cup of tea and a lot of guys bemoan having to write a few sentences to try and get a response, but that is the nature of the beast on here. There have been lots (and lots) of forum topics posted by guys asking for advice like you are, have a read of some of them and the responses - check out the Guys Ask and the Profile Tips and Advice (under Hot Topics) sections in particular.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'stormey' I have added some more to my profile but now it has closed till it has been approved but so far its been over 12 hours, I have not put anything inappropriate in the profile just added some more information about myself. could you please let me know how long the process may take, thank you and have a great day Robert. WELCOME This is Allsorts Forum asking about his profile. It may be better if you wrote a Forum asking the same question..Then you will get answers what you are wanting.! Just go to "Adult Forums" and look for "Profile Clinic, Tips and Advice" and write a Forum there. It may take a while for Mods to approve. I'm sure posters will be happy to help you out, the best they can. Good to see new posters and new faces. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'stormey' I have added some more to my profile but now it has closed till it has been approved but so far its been over 12 hours, I have not put anything inappropriate in the profile just added some more information about myself. could you please let me know how long the process may take, thank you and have a great day Robert. Sometimes these things do take a while, but patience is the key. You're up and running again now! Best of luck Rob L

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Keep in mind there are more here for the chat with absolutely no intention of doing anymore than lip service... I did'nt read your profile so I don't know what's in it... But really' ' it's quite normal to feel the way you do.... I'd say 99 % ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sorry mate but it's harsh here at times ? Define a member for awhile ?? I've been here since RHP started n yep not much luck at all but I'm a stayer I guess lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You asked for feedback,so here is mine......your main pic is I think quite a few years old......get some new ones.Your profile is.ok but boring,it says nothing about you......what are your interests outside of the bedroom.....it doesn't have to be War and Peas but a bit more effort and sales pitch....it may make a difference..or not.....good luck x x Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    your profile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Warning69' Sorry mate but it's harsh here at times ? Define a member for awhile ?? I've been here since RHP started n yep not much luck at all but I'm a stayer I guess lol You have been here 10 + years and haven't met anyone at all? May I ask is your main thing just emailing women? I don't know but I reckon that actually going to events/parties/meet&greets is the way to go. The online dating thing is tedious and boring, well it isn't my thing I guess. Go out and meet people, gentlemen.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Looking! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    well Qefenta2 thanks I'm over the moon that you said my pictures are old. all the picture I have used are from last yearand I will look into changing things up and try make my profile a little more interesting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    thank you all for your advice I have taken it on board and now ill go read some of those hot topic section luckdragon suggested cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile looks ok. I obviously don't fall into your age requirements which is now 18 to 40. You have narrowed your margin right there for meets. There are plenty of young men on here, it seems to be more like an Olympic swimming pool really, and your in one lane. At 41 is your only interest in 18 to 30 as previously quoted by looking 4quality, or are you going to be more broad minded...........there are many gorgeous, sexy, mature ladies on here that would have probably bypassed your profile with such requirements of your preferences. Just food for thought - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    your profile is great! It looks as though you have implemented some of the changes as advised above. I would just say that your first couple of sentences are quite negative about yourself - in comparison, if you are selling a car, you wouldn't highlight what it cant do. Otherwise, a good and fun profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Macha' Your profile looks ok. I obviously don't fall into your age requirements which is now 18 to 40. You have narrowed your margin right there for meets. There are plenty of young men on here, it seems to be more like an Olympic swimming pool really, and your in one lane. At 41 is your only interest in 18 to 30 as previously quoted by looking 4quality, or are you going to be more broad minded...........there are many gorgeous, sexy, mature ladies on here that would have probably bypassed your profile with such requirements of your preferences. Just food for thought - Posted from rhpmobile I really don't know what's going on there I have never had it at 18 - 30 when I look at my profile it say 18 -99 I'll check it out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I just squeak in :-) :-) xx Q