RHP

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M57 F56

new at this

November 12 2013

Hi, we are very new at all of this any advice from you would be appreciated, a bit shy and nervous about making the first step.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you are guests , so you need something in your profile to attract others and inspire them to contact you.You need pics,and a profile in your own words,not a template...and good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi mofun, I agree with Freya, a well written profile is the first step. Allow it to not only describe you in words, but write it demonstrating your personality. For a few ideas, check out the profiles of the regular forum posters here. Most of them represent their personality rather than sounding like a Wanted ad in the personal column of a newspaper. If you are shy first timers, say so, and that you seek similar, or non-pushy experience people with willing to out in the time who revel in long sessions of foreplay, touching, caressing, massaging, kissing, licking, sucking, nuzzling etc to give the impression that you are keen to take it slow and not dive straight into things, or at least build up to diving in :-) As for doing the deed, have a read through all of the forums for tips on screening, meeting people, determining what boundaries you may have and what you definitely dont want, how to deal with jealousies that may arise within your relationship, and other conundrums that might pop up for swingers. My thoughts are focus on the social side of meeting. Look for people you would normally be able to hang out with and relate with personally. If there is a flow there, it will be som much easier to move that into the bedroom than getting to know someone naked, and then determining if they are suitable or not. Good luck with it all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We agree with Freya, picture are needed as for us we like to see a picture or more before we even look at the profile. The words seem very copied not you saying come get us and this is us Hope your search goes well ;-) Tryit3- Posted from rhpmobile

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Maude_Gonne' you are guests , so you need something in your profile to attract others and inspire them to contact you. You need pics,and a profile in your own words,not a template...and good luck. That said it all