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new girl in life what to do with rhp
February 19 2013
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
My view.......... thats a decision you BOTH make..... if you're determined to remain a couple with this lady....and youve discussed it with her.Anything else... is deception.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Be totally upfront and honest! If it's just for the forums and social side let her know this. Hopefully there is no issue. Good luck.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
dont ask us.....ask your gal. she's the one you have to respond to, and if she doesnt think its appropriate...then its not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do I really like this woman enough to give up RHP? Communication is the KEY...Talk to her dude...you answers will lay there..be open and honest with her... There are many that come here for various reasons..I see single profiles, couple profiles and then single profiles from couples...what ever you choose it will be OK - just be HONEST. Just remember tho if you're part of a couple state that clearly on your profile...nothing worse than someone that states their single but in R/L part of a couple...LIES and DECEIT none wants that!! Best of Luck FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why not be honest with her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your going to come just for Forums state that on your Profile.. As Temptation will be there...and tell her that if its just that. Some people come for that as well...and that's OK too. Give her the reassurance she needs. At the end of the day its about making good choices right for you both.... Foxy.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
need to be a member to read the forums,just if you want to post.As Foxy said,talk to her if you still want to have a profile here,she may be interested in being here too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it was on RHP then you've got a pretty good chance of keeping your profile, if not, well it's really up to you to be honest with her. Like SuperFox said: keep the communication honest and free-flowing. In terms of a couples profile, it took us about a year to mention it to each other, when we felt established as a couple. It couldn't hurt to ask the questions. It would most definitely hurt to not ask and to be all clandestine about your RHP profile. She'll know something is being hidden and that could spark some snooping and having no context with which to marry it to, I think you'd be in trouble if she discovered your RHP profile on her own. Best to be honest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did you guys meet from RHP or somewhere else?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
THe fact that you have brought it up tells me you care for her. The question is, do you just want her?, or do you not want to be tied down to a relationship? No judgement either way, but if you do not want to be tied down, its best to talk to her and she might be okay with it, however the scary thing is she might be too okay with it, and the things you like about her might be lost due t rhp, but if you are like me, I wouldn't want to share the intimacies of my relationship with someone for the world and would lose rhp. It all comes down to what you want out of the relationship. Also if you like the forums, you don't have to be a member to read them, so there is a potential option for you too. I hope this helps cheersRick
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inspirit
12 years ago
Perhaps. Besides I think you have answered your own silly question.... dont you? quotes "it is not the done thing"Just saying
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RHP User
12 years ago
Talk to her. Start how you mean to go on. Ask her the question, is she interested in participating, if not, does she expect exclusivity, after all it doesn't matter how you meet, if it's not ok with her then you are setting yourself up for either monogamy or a double life. Neither is appealing, so I think get it out there early before you're too involved, just so you know where you stand. That way, at least whatever choice you make, you can own the consequences. - Posted from rhpmobile
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uneventful
12 years ago
A sex dite. Its very educational ... not just the forums ... but also the sexual health issues.its a good opertunity to bring it up with her and show her the information pages from the Sexperts... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox'If your going to come just for Forums state that on your Profile.. As Temptation will be there...and tell her that if its just that. Some people come for that as well...and that's OK too. Give her the reassurance she needs. At the end of the day its about making good choices right for you both.... Foxy.- Posted from rhpmobile I think people should be up front and say, at the top of their profile I am only here for the forums. they do not have to have anything in their profile to entice or tease anyone, and people will not be lusting after them for no result. If your just here for the forums and to have your own cyber fan club then yes I guess, you want to have your sexy pictures up there to feed your ego, after all we all need a little ego stroke now and again, i am guilty myself of that. Even when my dance card is full I still like the fact that men lust after me. but I am not here just for the forums. I think do not advertise if your not going to deliver the goods. for the guy in a relationship rhp is not the place to be. RUN forrsest RUN to easy to be tempted when things are a bit rough in your life, the sex may get duller etc and there you are in the bakery with something fingerlicking good right in front of you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your other option is the 11th commandment'THOU SHALT NOT BE FOUND OUT'... tongue in cheek LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
Did you meet her on RHP or in the real world? If you met her here, what is she doing with her profile? If not, do you you think she might run a mile if you were up front about the fact that you have a profile? I met a guy this week in the real world. That hasn't happened to me in over five years or more. He leaves on Monday for home ( Sydney ) I have not told him I am on RHP. It is not because I do not want him to know, that is not an issue for me, it is solely because our liaison will be a short one, at least this time around, and despite the fact that our time together is rocking both our worlds at the moment, there are no guarantees I will ever see him again despite what he says. Your situation sounds a much better deal from what I read I into it. What do you feel for this girl? That's the real question here.
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