M56 F53

new to females and couples

October 10 2014

Hi, We have been playing for the last couple of years but it has been just guys for her mmf etc. We have been to a swingers club but it never seems to work out as we want, although we generally have fun. We have experienced lots of bull from single guys and males pretending to be a couple. Guys that don't turn up, find some reason to cancel last minute or just want her to talk them through a wank. We are a bit over it and really thinking about fun with other couples or a female. Thus far we have never played with a couple.She has never really experimented with a girl and we are taking it slowly but the question is will we get messed around as much by single females and couples? Any pointers welcome as we are a bit nervous about finally fully emersing ourselves into all the pleasures of the life style :)

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RHP User

10 years ago

You will face the same problems. It's just the nature of human interaction via the Internet

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RHP User

10 years ago

I have been screwed around by couples and mostly by the woman of the couple. I think the biggest differences in playing with men and women are that men are more selfish and women are more emotional and insecure. Not always the case but most of my encounters have been like that.

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FieryFun2

10 years ago

Thanks for the replies, I think couples and dingle females has been harder, we exchange a few emails then.......nothing. At least the blokes who bombard us reply! Its really frustrating , maybe its our profile , who knows or maybe our photos are too ugly :) V.rarely get past the pg stage, we have had one nice meet with a sigle lady but no replies otherwise, who would have thought it was so difficult.

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MsSuperFoxy

10 years ago

Hi bundallgirl, I'm assuming the male half has written the profile and Forum Topic and posting on behalf of the female as well?? Do you ever sign off as the male or the female of the couple, or just leave it for others to guess ?? I guess I can't tell who has written what? Do you and your partner have single profiles on here my any chance?? If you do, maybe mention that on single profile and refer them to the couple profile. Curious that's all... Foxy

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MsSuperFoxy

10 years ago

are called "unicorns" for a reason....just like all other couples want on here and desire, they are very magical and very very rare to catch. Once you have one, be sure not to let it go...or else it may just disappear and become a legend. Foxy

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'bundallgirl' Thanks for the replies, I think couples and dingle females has been harder, we exchange a few emails then.......nothing. At least the blokes who bombard us reply! Its really frustrating , maybe its our profile , who knows or maybe our photos are too ugly :) V.rarely get past the pg stage, we have had one nice meet with a sigle lady but no replies otherwise, who would have thought it was so difficult. We even got blocked after opening our soft gallery, no response, just blocked! We have however had more success at swingers parties, I think meeting in real life makes it easier to connect than on line. It's easy to dismiss a person by their profile or photo's when in real life you may actually connect. Not everyone photographs well, peoples personalities can make a huge difference and what we see or read here can often be perceived in many different ways and not always a true reflection of ourselves. Your profile looks great to me, I hope your luck changes soon

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RHP User

10 years ago

Sadly due to availability (i.e. the name unicorns) its much harder to find a woman but if it is going to happen it needs to be 100% driven from the girls talking, if the guy is trying to organise it, its already failed before its started :) As for couples, its very difficult to find a couple you both click with. And as said above, you'll have all the same issues with fakes, last minute cancellations and all the rest. When planning play just organise a sexy night for you both, if they turn up then its a plus else still have an epic sexy night! :)

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QLDtwo4fun

10 years ago

If your interested, I can pass on contact details for one of the Brissy parties. There is no pressure to play, and the people there are real.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'AGuyWithRespect' Sadly due to availability (i.e. the name unicorns) its much harder to find a woman but if it is going to happen it needs to be 100% driven from the girls talking, if the guy is trying to organise it, its already failed before its started :) In my admittedly limited experience with couples, this has been the biggest issue. The majority of the communication is being done by the male half of the couple. If I'm going to get it on with a couple, it's really all about the woman. Yes I need to find the man attractive as well, but the biggest draw for me is the woman. If it wasn't I'd just meet up with a single guy...

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FieryFun2

10 years ago

We lived in Aberfoyle park for 5 years wish we had met up...

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FieryFun2

10 years ago

Sorry the above reply was for rock minx ....thanks for the rest of the replies though, we have done lots of parties, but we have never fully swapped, and as fun as they have been we wanted to try and get into a classier meet/greet meal and fun type of thing, followed by nice hotel naughtiness. That's not to demean clubs because they have their place for sure. We just hoped for a bit more couple fun here that's all. We both sit and write our profiles/comments , we have been together for 22 years we are one.....unless she decides :) As for unicorns.... a lovely phrase that sums it up nicely.We are definitely looking for one , we have had a fantastic experience with another lady (she knows who she is :) but we would both like to further the experience and pamper and enjoy a "unicorn", especially a younger female. Written by male and approved by female but both very appreciative of your constructive help x

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RHP User

10 years ago

We're in the same situation , we have sent messages to selected woman and got replies but thats about as far as it got .We met one lovely lady but think we were too close to home for her and it ended there also . As my partner was a unicorn at one stage atleast i can quiz her on her thoughts for a better understanding. Usually i will send a message and if we get a reply my partner will take it from there as i or we believe the women should talk about it and do the organising. Besides we are both very discreet and respectful that they have even initially replied. Although to be honest i would feel a little weird organising that myself and not my partner with someone of the opposite sex Either way we will hold our breath there might be one out there

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