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  kevinmario

  13 years ago

  if finding friends with benefits is that easy, we won't be needing brothels anymore...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Perhaps you could try being a little more creative with what's written in your profile. As it doesn't say much at all. Just a guess but are your messages to others along the same lines?Try changing your photo and make it stand out. You could even get some to take some pics for you.At the moment your profile just blends into the background with 1000000 other single male profiles.T&J

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  So that the women know that you are for real. Then do as Tim and Jane suggested....be a little more creative. Have a go at writing your profile. If that means you need to look at a few more to decide what attracts you to that particular profile then do so.Yours gives precious little out about you and what you are looking for. Your profile is your sales pitch. Why should a single woman chose your profile that says nothing? Once you have unleashed your creative demons on the profile, look to the messages that you send. What do they say about you? Do you mention somehting that yiou have gleaned from reading the womans profile or is your intitial contact message as bland and as brief as your profile? Remember that there are so many more men on this site than women. It really is a buyers market. Make your message stand out. Cheers.

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  MissSarahCurious

  13 years ago

  There has to be something about you that makes you worth meeting. Advertise it. Show you have personality. If your personality doesn't gel with theirs, you don't want to hang out with them anyway. If you don't have a personality, at least have good manners, if you have neither, get some or you're not getting laid.When messaging people there has to be something about them or their interest or their pics that made you send them a message, tell them what it is and try to word your message to match the tone of their profile, ie if they seem playful, say something funny, if they seem serious, be respectful. Just keep trying and keep in mind that online dating is like online shopping, half of what we get in the inbox is junk mail that just says "Hey how r u" and nothing more from people with bland profilebuilder content so we get tired of it and stop reading. You don't write back to every real estate agent who drops a flier in your mailbox about a house for sale that's nowhere near your price range, do you? And does the real estate agent pout about how much time and effort they put into photocopying a flier and dropping it in your mailbox and how you could have at least called and said you weren't interested? No, they focus on the calls they get from interested people. Good luck.

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  cougar4fun

  13 years ago

  Your profile photo looks like it could be fake.....and you have bugger all info in your profile, I have been strung along by a lot of profiles that are along the same lines......(blurry pics and no info)   I don't know what you put in your messages, but if the messages you send are as short, sweet and uninformative as your profile is......   If I didn't reply to you, that would probably be the reasons why......   Good luck with it all though!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  md109 You are not on your own as it is a common problem on adult dating sites. There are just some people who have difficulty in meeting people and it is not due to any factor such as appearance, body shape or age. Just the way it is. Why don't you try attending a few private house parties as a way of getting to know people and making new friends. you may never know where it could lead. You will be amazed at how willing women are to play at a party and at the same time would never meet you privately. I think because women can see you, hear your voice and gauge your personality, and feel safe in a crowd, they are willing to play. You will also be amazed at how you will be willing to play with women who do not necessarily tick all the boxes as far as you are concerned either. Good luck and all the best. I am going to a party tomorrow and I am thoroughly looking forward to it. You will find the same.

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  inspirit

  13 years ago

  fully agree ladies.....

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Thank you all xo much that is great advice well be fixing my profile in the next week or so and well msg u all to see what u think. Thanks again guys

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Its simple really, you are a 1 guy in a trillion or so. When single females or couples get a flirt or message amoungst the other 20 - 30 males that day. You will be somewhere well down the list unless you make yourself stand out in some way... I dont mean flashing your dick ( they really are all the same ) or using a dumb name like ' best rooter in town' Guys with names like these or showing cock pics' get deleted or blocked straight away... Be creative, honest and interesting... thats the best you can hope for...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Some wise words by Sarah. I'd like to add to the discussion, but I think what she's said is pretty much on the money.Although if someone does go out of their way to construct a half-decent introduction letter it's probably nice, if not respectful to respond, even if it's just to say, "sorry, but you're not what I'm looking for."But things like "hi, let's fuck" or "you're so hot and I'd love to...." are destined to fail. I mean seriously? Cary Grant once said in an interview when asked what his definition of style was, he replied, "knowing how to tap dance but choosing not to." I mean we all have our motivations to be here. Some are more obvious than others. But to just blurt it out there in an intro as plain as day seems a little too obvious. Whit, charm, humour, intellect, mystery and even a bit of tact, all seem to go a pretty long way, whether it's online or face-to-face. Male or female... that seems to work for most. Right?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  That's it.you said it.ihate cock pics as profile pics.if u have one,no pic at all or a boring profile.then goodluck with being on here awhile lol...most women want a nice man not some idiot who's profile and picks turn u off lol...we want a face pic and a sense of humour goes a very long way.it also helps to read and understand the profile u wanna flirt with too goodluck :)

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