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occupational hazard

July 10 2013

Hi there people,stuck at home with the flu and just been reading through a few profiles and have picked up on something lately that I hadn't really noticed before. The amount of women who say they are after a guy that is a "professional' or 'ambitious " 'Has a great career" . I could understand this if they are looking for a long term relationship, but RHP is hardly that. Which made me think is it code for they want a man to spend money on them? Could it be that they are just snobs? Is it something else? I would assume that if you are looking for a potential playmate ,then you want someone you find attractive, good body, endowed and can hold a conversation for the most part. Do you think what they do for a job affects their ability to ring your bell? Does a sewerage plant scuba diver (yes its a real job) make a better lover than an accountant ? just curious.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Hi wingman2013 To me there is a correlation between "ambitious" men also being more confident and dominant. Most people find confidence to be an attractive trait, I know I certainly do. Many "professional" men have a certain flair about them (and again confidence) and live a certain life style which again can be seen as attractive. It's important for some women to be surrounded by nice environments so they can relax and feel comfortable. It can be a real turn off to visit someone and their home looks and feels like a tip. I have standards and I want my partner or playmate to have the same standards for me to feel comfortable in their company. "Has a great career" - someone that is financially happy and secure and isn't looking to sponge off anyone else. There a certainly some who are out there hoping that NSA leads to more but IMO most just want some to be compatible with them so they can get on with enjoying more intimate times. These are just my thoughts and happy to be proven wrong. SFxx

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Hi wingman2013 To me there is a correlation between "ambitious" men also being more confident and dominant. Most people find confidence to be an attractive trait, I know I certainly do. Many "professional" men have a certain flair about them (and again confidence) and live a certain life style which again can be seen as attractive. Bingo.There is the perception that an ambitions and active man.... lives an interesting and exciting life and is therefore an interesting and exciting person.They never use phrases like 'Just give me a chance".. or "you wont regret it".They just do what they do, and invite those into their world who will benefit from sharing in it... even if only temporarily. DG

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RHP User

11 years ago

I want a man... To be that is someone with ambition, independent and strong. I have probably approached three men in the last three years on RHP. I met a man in his early 30's that was absolutely gorgeous. My clit had a hard on from the minute I sat down. During our drink he mentioned living with flat mates, the fact that a mate drove him to work because he didn't have enough money to fix his car, and made numerous comments about his lack of money. My clit got an immediate soft on! Physically he floated my boat but his demenour and coversation, which to me screamed I am a boy not a man, just turned me off. I agree with DG. Although you don't have to be a "professional" to have that confidence and of course not all professionals are good with women. I don't think it's about the money... It's more about the man and the perception of success that is appealing to women.

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sweetgem

11 years ago

Means someone who is educated and well mannered, who doesn't use the "F%#k" word as soon as he speaks, and someone who can write without using text language! And I don't mean university degree either when I say educated! It just means that someone who has literacy skill that they know how to write and speak properly. I have had some cheap skate experiences with men whom arranged to meet and play with me, but let me paid the full cost of the hotel room hire! None of those cheap skate men had even offered to share the costs! So, men who are not financially comfy are not my cup of tea!- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's all about about presence. How he conducts himself and how he speaks. Yes, confidence and power are attractive qualities. This may are may not be related to what his profession is. When it comes to potential partners....it's a whole other ball game

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wingman2014

11 years ago

I can see what you are getting at - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

many women here ,are not just here for the zipless f**k.Many women want more than just a set of pecs,an elegant cock..er...where was I ..oh yes...that is why many women choose brains over brawn...ya see wingy,we like occasionally to have a conversation...yep..weird as that may seem...not all women here are deeply shallow....soooo I think by saying ''professional''that is woman speak for''I want a man that I can relate too, because I am a professional woman''. We tend to gravitate towards those that we have most in common with,not as is often thought, someone who is the complete opposite. I, on the other hand ,am a deeply shallow woman,

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wingman2014

11 years ago

Thank god for shallow women :))- Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

Quoting 'Meeka100' I agree with DG. Although you don't have to be a "professional" to have that confidence and of course not all professionals are good with women. I don't think it's about the money... It's more about the man and the perception of success that is appealing to women. They guy doesnt even have to have money....... but, if he has a PLAN..... well.... that makes him interesting... and attractive. DG.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Were the original professions. All the other - accounting, chicken sexing, counseling - came later. The idea of profession became a way of creating barriers to entry, so those of them/us behind te barriers could charge more. Of course, we are now more advanced and we all recognise the huge attractiveness and general superiority of men in suits.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Agree DG. A plan, a goal, a purpose, etc. And wingy... you listen to the deeply shallow Freya. LMAO!!! that was hilarious Freya.... hahahahaha

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RHP User

11 years ago

bollocks. I'm over 'gunna' type people. I'll be happy with someone who is happy with their profession. Or someone who professes their happiness.

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RHP User

11 years ago

This is my view alsoQuoting 'Sensory_fun' Hi wingman2013 To me there is a correlation between "ambitious" men also being more confident and dominant. Most people find confidence to be an attractive trait, I know I certainly do. Many "professional" men have a certain flair about them (and again confidence) and live a certain life style which again can be seen as attractive. It's important for some women to be surrounded by nice environments so they can relax and feel comfortable. It can be a real turn off to visit someone and their home looks and feels like a tip. I have standards and I want my partner or playmate to have the same standards for me to feel comfortable in their company. "Has a great career" - someone that is financially happy and secure and isn't looking to sponge off anyone else. There a certainly some who are out there hoping that NSA leads to more but IMO most just want some to be compatible with them so they can get on with enjoying more intimate times. These are just my thoughts and happy to be proven wrong. SFxx

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wingman2014

11 years ago

"huge attractiveness and superiority of men in suits" Nah doesn't work. Remember politicians and lawyers wear suits- Posted from rhpmobile

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