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January 02 2013

I just wrote (and lost) a long detailed post about almost pulling at a vanilla event (surrounded by people we needed to look respectable for which completely stymied our approach) and the fact that all our encounters to date have been through RHP or at naughty parties... So without rewriting my novelette I'll just pose the question. If you met someone in real life who you thought was actually interested would you text them through the url/epage for your RHP profile? Have you? Couples - how have you handled seducing in a vanilla environment and were you successful?

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

Because I am interested...

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RHP User

12 years ago

I haven't tried to pick up anybody since my early twenties. Every time I've scored since then, I was the one being picked up. Makes it much easier that way.

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luvsilver

12 years ago

Mrs luvsilver and i were talking about this very subject about a week ago. We have not been in the position as a couple to have some fun with others after meeting in a vanilla situation. We have both however been in the position where we could have acted on opportunities after meeting others in normal day life. We have not acted on these impulses but would love to as a couple be that with a single male/female or another couple. Not really sure how we would go about it Paradisepair but giving them a link to our RHP profile wouldn't be it. It is a very sexy thought and something we would love to do.The only thing that would worry us is un likeminded people then telling others our dirty little secret pastime and what we get up to-lol. Mr Luvsilver

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RHP User

12 years ago

I wouldn't risk it. Once you've effectively shown someone your profile, there is no going back. Like mrluvsilver said: they may show others with the possibility of you never living it down. It's not like you can say: "You thought I suggested WHAT? Oh no, you must have totally misunderstood."

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Cheekyarses

12 years ago

No I only discuss rhp with other close rhp friends. What happens on rhp - stays on rhp! Plus I like having this as something that my husband n I can share without our other vanilla friends knowing about! Plus rhp has helped me out in so many ways

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

Wondering if a few extra details might help... They live 800km away and share only one mutual friend who seems fairly open-minded.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Paradisepair'They live 800km away and share only one mutual friend who seems fairly open-minded. Echoooo.... one mutual friend who seems fairly open-minded. seems fairly open-minded. seems..... I've made that mistake.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Be flirty and up front there an then..

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

I find they handle the concept of debauchery better than most :)

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'Be flirty and up front there an then.. I was, it felt like they were too - it's always been a goal for us to grow to the point where we knew how to handle real life situations like this. After a little bit of tamed down dirty dancing he said 'She wants to meet your boyfriend' - which I suppose could have meant something-else. If we had been the ones 800kms away from home I would have been much more overt. Anyhow, based off the feedback here I have decided to hold back on sending the RHP link. Instead when we're next down their way we'll take them up on the offer of hitting the town but before we meet I intend to send a text which let's them know our intentions are entirely dishonourable. Then at least if it all goes pearshape the worst that is on record is a lecherous text.

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Paradisepair

12 years ago

I thought I'd update because part of the reason MrParadise and myself got into 'the lifestyle' was to arm ourselves with the confidence to handle the IRL sexual opportunities that presented themselves to us from the time to time. Enough posts here on RHP seem to indicate that a lot of people think it's hard to bag a couple IRL and not to try... But I'm a never say never girl, and my gut feeling was they were interested.So back in Jan I sent the text stating -words to the effect of - that we hoped they realised that our intentions were entirely dishonourable but if they don't swing that way we've got enough options that we can keep sex out of the friendship.I sent a text just a few days ago to suggest we go for drinks when we're next down their way - and the reply had way to many !!!!! to make me think they're not excited by the prospect. Hopefully there will be another update to cum.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I was having drinks at a busy local pub with a friendgirl (who has been on here) when we were approached by a couple, both very attractive though he was a cocky/smarmy type.The girl of the couple said "Hi we're visiting from interstate and staying at the Esplanade Hotel, (nearby) would you guys like to join us for some fun later" Delivered with a saucy smile from her and an idiot grin from him !As we are just friends and neither of us liked him we declined. But it was very flattering and we still have a chuckle about it, mostly over her outright boldness.So there you go, that's how one couple operate in real life !

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