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...oh I'll probably reget this, but what the hell. How's the profile?

May 10 2014

Howdy! I've been here a solid 2 weeks. Yes, 2 whole weeks and I'd be very happy for a bit of feedback about my profile. Now, don't get me wrong, RHP has treated my well since signing up, so I'm not complaining. I also understand that there is a dearth of single dudes on here, so that's also an issue..but I'd really very much appreciate some feedback about my profile. My goal is really to just meet some cool folks who are also in the lifestyle, and if something more develops out of that, great, but it's not my top priority here. What do I need to to to my profile to get that idea across, and make me seem more approachable? I ask for the usual reason, I'd just like to get a reply when I mail someone. Hell, a "not interested" would also be fine. but total silence is kinda hard. So, I figure if my profile gets tweaked, I'll seem more approachable. What's your take? Thanks for for your reply! Tom form Texas

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi Shells, Thanks very much for the reply. Eventually I got the idea that this one was hardly ever read..and then I chickened out from posting it on the Australia-wide one, because I didn't want to be seen fishing for compliments or something... :-)I've kind of come to the conclusion that this might be the wrong place to meet people. But that's cool. It's still fun to read through. Melbourne, however rocks! I love it here. -Tom

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't think it's your profile that needs tweaking; but your selection of WHOM you're messaging and HOW you're messaging them. Good luck :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ... a lot of truth to what you are saying. I've not thrown in the towel yet :-) Working on the "how" I approach people.Thanks!

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    The only thing I would comment on is the emphasis on couples & lifestyle experience. It may be a little off putting to some women who find you interesting but are not seeking that lifestyle. But as already said, I like your profile, you appear friendly and approachable. Stir has made some pertinent remarks which are good advice. I would add the time honoured 'get on the forums' (Australia wide). We three who have commented here are regular posters and it does make a difference.If you hear about upcoming meet & greets go to them!! I went to a recent one in QLD and had a ball!

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    The way I read your profile you are a serious swinger wanting back into that lifestyle. As a single woman with limited to no experience I wouldn't approach you because of that even though I found your pics attractive and your profile well written. Best of luck and welcome to rhp. p.s don't all texans wear big cowboy hats?? :P The bigger the hat the bigger (or is that smaller) the ......*cough* anatomy....(insert sickly sweet grin with dimples and batting eyelids here) missb - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I quite like your profile, your pics are great, but I think Stir makes a valid point. Maybe start looking for a woman that is also interested in getting into the swinging scene or possible already into it. Then that way you can maybe go to clubs, private house parties etc together, as I know for me it's was much easier to go to these things with someone else. Also as miss Kissk pointed out meet & greets are a great way to meet people, as are the forums, it's all about talking and getting to know people....😊 Good luck Tom.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why cant i get just one fuck Why cant i get just one slut Guess its got something to do with cocks And the amount of bell ends in the Piieeeeeee redhot pieeeee Guess its got something to do with all those cocks and then the women tell you there not sluts ! Whyyyyy ohhhh Redhotpieeeeeee Whats it gunna take for our mate tom he just wants a slut so he can fuck whats he gotta do to just get one Replyyyyyyy Just one replyyyyyy I guess you could say hey mate Goodlaarrrrkkkkkk Its got nothin to do with luck ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    nove that song! Good one Big O!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    great answers all round. Thanks to you all for taking a moment to give me your impressions (And that song...still smiling about that). It was fascinating for me to hear that my swinger experience is actually off-putting. I'd have thought it would have the opposite impact: not your usual horny "f*ck anything that moves" single guy. I actually believe that the experiences in ..."the Lifestyle"...have made me much more laid back about all that. I concentrate more on the people, because I know that if we click , the sex will come and be better for the time spent doing that. So it's good to know. I've actually had some very nice experiences with some couples here and that has been really very nice. In fact, I think I might actually prefer that over the interactions with some of the single woman I had here. I guess a couple is a bit more clear about what they want...? who knows... any, this cowboy in't riding off into the sunset just yet (ahem, the bigger the hat the smaller steer) Thanks again, guys! It's been fun reading through all these.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Well hello all my lovely friends; looks like we're having a cyber meet & greet! I love spontaneous parties!! Now, a CC & dry for MissB, a Bourbon for BigO, a vodka for Lovinit.... what can I get you Shells & Stir? And our guest of honour TXTom, what is your tipple?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Would meet you for drinks any day beautiful, vodka for me would be wonderful.....xoxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Jeepers glad you said Tipple there LOL...getting Mr P excited when he thought he saw NIPPLE LOL!!!! And our guest of honour TXTom, what is your tipple?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but if I could, I'd prefer a gin tonic. ...the old tipple nipple slip... :-)

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'TxTom' but if I could, I'd prefer a gin tonic. ...the old tipple nipple slip... :-) Mr P - have enough and the nipple may well appear! I'll join you in a G&T TxTom, as long as you muddle some lemon in the glass.... yum! And Lovinit, a vodka or two with you would be so lovely right about now xx

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I'm hearing ya lovely.... I could probably go a few more than a couple though, always up for a bottle at least.... Mr & Mrs P, nipples straight up, muddle stick and nipples....check....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...notoriously slow on the uptake, but I think there might be some double entendres going on here....gasp! It's Friday night, thinkI'll definitely have another G&T, lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I'm hearing ya lovely.... I could probably go a few more than a couple though, always up for a bottle at least.... Mr & Mrs P, nipples straight up, muddle stick and nipples....check....💋 For the perfect tonic....a layer of ice, add a quarter of Lovinit, a splash of Kissk, drop of lime, shaken not stirred .....and perky nipples up :) ......

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    If the polys are there and lovinits nipples then just tell me where to be!!! I'll bring my own cc - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' If the polys are there and lovinits nipples then just tell me where to be!!! I'll bring my own cc - Posted from rhpmobile You are that warm, comforting and elegant nightcap we like to indulge in called, Vintage Port MissB72 :) what a year, classic and enriched :)

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    I'm in!! Scotch and dry thanks bartender. How's this wind Melbourne peeps?? Wow!! And op, profile looks fine but I'd presume, as a single, that you're not looking for me. The 'lifestyle' thing is a bit... Not me. Welcome though, hope you find what you're looking for.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    You have your own little party here. Yes I sometimes even hesitate to use the word "come" in normal conversation these days as it brings wild thoughts and pictures to my mind 😜 Polys I think I love you guys :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' I'm in!! Scotch and dry thanks bartender. How's this wind Melbourne peeps?? Wow!! And op, profile looks fine but I'd presume, as a single, that you're not looking for me. The 'lifestyle' thing is a bit... Not me. Welcome though, hope you find what you're looking for. Welcome to the divine MissBB! Another lovely to party with Scotch and dry is one of my favorites, as long as they hold the ice :) TxTom, you've acquired a pack of new friends without too much problem; we Aussies are very welcoming! We might have to work on a M&G for a select few....hmmm.... thinking hat is on :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    this has gotten pretty cool! lots of lovely people in a virtual M&G, I'm feeling pretty happy about that :-)thanks for the positive feedback, even if I'm not your cup'a hey, it's Saturday night....what's on in Melbourne town?

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    I went to see a band at a local pub and caught up with friends, it was great. We are lucky in the inner city to be spoilt with great music. Some of us might catch up on Friday night if anyone's interested.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    Yep MissBB, I'm up for a catch up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Id love to meet you kissk Im close by.xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hi there ive been on here for near nine months and no action at all i chat with some nice ladies who nice enough to reply but im not there type so we are just message friends. I either dont get replies or rejections. i have changed my pic a dozen times re-written my profile a few times all with no luck. I am polite honest and respectful with my messages but i dont know. im at the stage where im about to just forget it just wat a damn waste of money. if any of you nice people here would mind looking at my profile if you could pick where i have gone wrong, i really would appreciate the advice and pointers. thanks in advance Ash