on the hunt for bdsm dom

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  Hottie1

  7 years ago

  This isn’t the site for that. Yes, I believe there are authentic Doms and mistresses on here but sorting through them, avoiding the pretenders and wannabes will be quite the challenge. Many confuse their abilities with their ambitions and think they are Dom but truly are more driven by their needs first. I would definitely join Fetlife ... go to some workshops, watch, learn and immerse yourselves in the lifestyle further then you might find what you’re looking for :) Goodluck Mary xx

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Hey there, We agree with above, fetlife and attending meets, events, parties and more will really help you find someone who suits you both. We have played Dom for a few couples over weeks or months :) and both sides have thoroughly enjoyed it. If you would like to know more send us a pm ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  In my experiance Fetlife might be a better place to find a Dom. Is your wife exploring for the first time? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Lisa082013 is super Sexy xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  *sigh* Its taken me 15 months of searching and training to find “my Dom”. Still haven’t found him 🙇🏻‍♀️ (Still open to it but no longer actively searching). I’ve met many and some are wonderful men, some are just bossy boots, some don’t fit my needs and desires, some are wannabes, some are taken or just friends. Everyone suggests fetlife, which hasn’t worked out for me, in saying that I’m yet to attend a munch. I guess my lack of free time and availability and distance has been a factor. Don’t give up. But definitely don’t rush! I’m sure I commented on your past thread? She’s lucky to have you support and help her. It’s a road fraught with danger, weeding out the fakes and deviates among the many who “would love to give it a go” ! But hey it’s exciting and a lot of fun too! Best of luck in your adventures and hey, let me know how you go. Welcome to PM me 🍀 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  aussian43

  7 years ago

  As others have suggested, fetlife is your best bet. I have only recently been involved in the scene and was incredibly lucky to meet someone who was a great match and we have been exploring our kinky sides. Still very difficult to separate the wheat from the chaff. Heard too many stories leading to abuse and worse. Your idea of getting to know each other over a course of months before you return is an excellent start. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  xpassionatepairx

  7 years ago

  Thanks for the tips guys, Its certainly not our first rodeo haha we have lived the stag/vixen hotwife lifestyle for quite sometime but i think living overseas this year has certainly made it tough to find anyone, hence why we were hoping to build up a relationship via kik before we head back home.

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  The_Antichrist

  7 years ago

  I usually prefer to be called Dominic though but Dom is fine 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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