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May 14 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is how relationships started you know.....back in the day before the internet it was the way we met people, the way it all began. There was no other way unless introduced by friends. Of course I flirt (shamelessly) with a man if he makes the overtures. Yes I stike up conversatiopns with complete strangers, wonderful looking hunks of manhood....a girl never knows now does she? Supermarkets are good for that, check out what is in the trolley is normally a good indication whether or not he is attached.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I choose to accept this mission Heedless.I shall go to the same coffee shop every morning at the same time.....10am sounds good,there will be regulars ,hopefully a few likely candidates to make eye contact and flirt with. I shall report back as to the success of my mission in one week. Wish me luck ,as I venture into the trenches of cafes in Scarboroughx hesione undercover
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would feel slightly weirded out if a complete stranger just walked up and started talking to me, but if we'd made a bit of eye contact first and some blushing smiles etc, then it would fit and feel right.I have no qualms about talking to a man/making the first move, but again, I think the eye contact thing goes a long way to indicating if the other party is at all interested.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm married and don't play with men without hubby around somewhere ( even if he is watching the footy ) ...I'd be flattered but just smile and tell him I'm married and faithful ( haha I am kinda!! ) I have guys chat me up a lot in normal places, I must look easy :p If I was single , I'd have no qualms about openly flirting with a hot man in Coles or myer :) If not too full on sleazy, being hit on is lovely and boosts your day !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' I choose to accept this mission Heedless.I shall go to the same coffee shop every morning at the same time.....10am sounds good,there will be regulars ,hopefully a few likely candidates to make eye contact and flirt with. I shall report back as to the success of my mission in one week. Wish me luck ,as I venture into the trenches of cafes in Scarboroughx hesione undercover As I posted this one Hesione, I will pm you my number so if you go over board (lol good on ya) and get whisked away u can use the free phone call to call me and I will bail you out - or if I new what Scarborough in what country and state I may lay there waiting in anitcipation
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'GreyEyesHobart' I would feel slightly weirded out if a complete stranger just walked up and started talking to me, but if we'd made a bit of eye contact first and some blushing smiles etc, then it would fit and feel right.I have no qualms about talking to a man/making the first move, but again, I think the eye contact thing goes a long way to indicating if the other party is at all interested. This is what I mean, the initiation of it all would come from here....I would not tap you on the shoulder and when you turn round slap my lips on yours and say GOTCHA mmm dont think I would
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' This is how relationships started you know.....back in the day before the internet it was the way we met people, the way it all began. There was no other way unless introduced by friends. Of course I flirt (shamelessly) with a man if he makes the overtures. Yes I stike up conversatiopns with complete strangers, wonderful looking hunks of manhood....a girl never knows now does she? Supermarkets are good for that, check out what is in the trolley is normally a good indication whether or not he is attached. Nice Handmaiden, checking the field to pre-prep the counter flirtMy trolley is usually full of toilet roll washing up liquid and pre made meals oh 2 bags of coffee beans, Harris Columbian then few of those healthy bars for kids lunches so that might be a turn of, best buy them first( i am learning cooking and fun but gone through 3 pans already he he practise will do me good)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's actually a really nice change to meet someone like that rather than the avenues nowadays - online or in a bar, etc. While I've had some incidences of men striking up conversation in other public places - while sitting in the park, one very flirtatious time in the line for airport security, I rarely initiate conversation with good-looking men as I'm always convinced that they're either taken or gay! Prolonged eye contact and a cheeky wink before passing them by is my style. Mind you, I have had my share of weird moments. Was sitting one rainy afternoon in a coffee shop with a book only to have a guy pass me by and slip me a note onto my table asking if I wanted to follow him for a quickie down the street. Being a fresh-faced 16 year old girl, you can only imagine my horror!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I should be safe Heedless ,and you know, if ever you are in Bris Vegas,Scarborough is just north....like a village really, but a few cafes....you could play where is Ruby...lol..a long black with milk on the side thanksx Hugs Hesione
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seems when I was monogamous guys chatted me up a lot more- now not so much :( I would love to actually go with a random flirtation as I am allowed to now!!! I case the supermarket lol!!! maybe that's the problem??? Trying to switch off my radar :) I am not sure how to do it, what if they are married or have girlfriends or worse are not interested!!! I think I prefer to be sought after haha. Open to any tips though as long as they come with a guarantee :PCass xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe a simple conversation is the start .....to sometimes a good relationship!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Quoting 'GreyEyesHobart' I would feel slightly weirded out if a complete stranger just walked up and started talking to me, but if we'd made a bit of eye contact first and some blushing smiles etc, then it would fit and feel right.I have no qualms about talking to a man/making the first move, but again, I think the eye contact thing goes a long way to indicating if the other party is at all interested. This is what I mean, the initiation of it all would come from here....I would not tap you on the shoulder and when you turn round slap my lips on yours and say GOTCHA mmm dont think I would Hahaha., I'm not accusing you of creeping me out Heedless, just saying that there are PLENTY of men out there that think it's fine to approach random women (and probably vice-versa women to men) and proceed to chat them up without any 'invitation'.This is what usually creeps me out at a bar or pretty much anywhere else that I may get approached because there was no testing of the waters, no subtlety about the interaction - just wham in your face whaddayathinkofme?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like it. I think we should start this as a game........report back on our expierence. I would stay in the same coffe shop with the man and drink another strong black, enjoy myself and feel like a teenager. I LIKE IT LETS TRY.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you're in the mood, and are responding in kind, of course. If you're not in the mood for a chat and he won't pick up on the signals, then there's a problem.If the answer was no, there would be far fewer random encounters and the world would be a more boring place. Sometimes its just a chat, sometimes it means you end up spending the next fortnight in the city you were about to leave that day. So very random!
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi litanya i'd love to have coffee with you
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
I have had many a date from guys approaching me at shopping centres or while I am filling up with petrol and even when I walk my dog (although they do it from a distance as my dog is huge lol)! I don't mind if they come up and talk to me....I give them points for being courageous! The ones I HATE are the ones that follow me around the shopping centre and say nothing until about half an hour later...by then they have creeped me out so much that I want them to piss off...no matter how hot they are! I am more the cheeky-smile-at-you girl than the girl that walks up and talks to a guy! But I have been known to involuntarily moan as a hottie walks past me haha! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I remember when this kind of thing was always OK. Now the internet has come along and given men the opportunity to put a very well polished presentation across in places like this (not that many do).I will one day charge people to attend workshops on how to meet people face to face and engage them in meaningful conversation and human interaction.The day I can't engage a woman in conversation in a public place I'll give the game away.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks to all and your input,Obviously if they are attached no hurt feelings even if I'm rejected is as many say just nice and a boost to the day if it leads onto a coffee great if more well yabdabadooH
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Dirtyroughsex'I remember when this kind of thing was always OK. Now the internet has come along and given men the opportunity to put a very well polished presentation across in places like this (not that many do). I will one day charge people to attend workshops on how to meet people face to face and engage them in meaningful conversation and human interaction. The day I can't engage a woman in conversation in a public place I'll give the game away. . Headless dont worry bout the health bars for the kids. A man taking care of his children is no turn off. In fact if you go to the supermarket early on saturday mornings, round about eight ish, all the daddies are there with thier kids. They have picked them up for the weekend and are buying supplies...fills in half an hour and the kids get to chose thier own cereal. I have made quite a study of the different demographics of shoppers at various times of the day or week.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hey dannnyboy101, Should you see me in the coffee shop just shout me a coffee and I will too,....I will look in your face...and giggle, you say, hey you RHP and my mind will trigger and get the right file out. What fun to be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
there cant be anything bad in walking up to someone face to face and saying Hi go for it i reckon Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' Quoting 'Dirtyroughsex'I remember when this kind of thing was always OK. Now the internet has come along and given men the opportunity to put a very well polished presentation across in places like this (not that many do). I will one day charge people to attend workshops on how to meet people face to face and engage them in meaningful conversation and human interaction. The day I can't engage a woman in conversation in a public place I'll give the game away. . Headless dont worry bout the health bars for the kids. A man taking care of his children is no turn off. In fact if you go to the supermarket early on saturday mornings, round about eight ish, all the daddies are there with thier kids. They have picked them up for the weekend and are buying supplies...fills in half an hour and the kids get to chose thier own cereal. I have made quite a study of the different demographics of shoppers at various times of the day or week. You are such a gem, so many of your posts I enjoy be it laughter, comeback, hit-back or sharing information... I collect my two on Friday after School, if they have not (without my prior knowledge, usually the case) arranged a play date...we then go shopping for the week ahead each get a choice of food for a day in turn but starts and ends with me. If I don’t know how to cook what they choose they have to help cooking it too. In your study did you happen to notice the female rush hour and the female take your time browsing hours? I don’t want the supermarket to have the same competition as on here lol – supermarket not meat market (meaning full of men) – however this could be the time the females are out in search of a mate and laying their perfume trails!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
So far not much but what a laugh - suppose one had to be there to get the benefit Such fun Thursday night on the way out the shopping mall, had to get them new shoes.There was a pretty hot lady early 30's noticed her striding in our direction, tall, medium build, well fitted cloths black jeans, black top, white colour, black jacket loosely draped over her torso, knee high boots, straight back and oozing confidence in each stride as her hair landed and fell back landed fell back…as she got close I looked down to my eldest (10yrs) winked at her and she smiled back to me… I then made eye gestures to see the lady, as the lady just past us I said, “now how about that fine lady for daddy and a new playmate for you guys” (not loud for the lady to hear) to which the elder one said "daddy she's well out your league, all that time she walked up this way not once did she look to you, she is a lovely lady but daddy you need to bring your level down a little"! I had tears in my eyes laughing so deep and hard, this distracted a young couple ahead about 24 ish (age group), the lady turned round looked at the three of us in split seconds concentrating on each in turn then a slightly longer pause on me as she turned back to face the way she was going, my eldest pulled on my hand vigorously and said “now daddy go talk to her she’s in your league and you stand a chance, she even looked directly at you”. I starting to laugh again and said, “But she is with a boy.” She says, “But he's not for her and not cool.” I say, “But he will be upset and may get all agro about it, maybe even want a fight.” “Oh daddy” - she says, “look how big you are, he will just walk away and leave you too it, you need the confidence of that lady that just passed.” Now I thought I had some imagination and “out there” a little as far as chance taking goes but that from a very fairy like 10yr old. Is this me brushing of on her sweet innocence I ask myself? That was one of the best shopping trips I have made so far - needless to say I didn’t try hitting on anyone - YET Any one else been scoping about?? Anything to report?? Hesione, surely you have been to the coffee bar by now, do I seriously need to jump on that plane get my butt over there
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RHP User
13 years ago
Female rush hour is just after 3-30 pm. Normally with obnoxious, tired kids in tow after having been cooped up at school all day. Browsing-take-your-time shooping for women is normally during school hours. Tuesday always works well. Monday for cleaning up after the weekend of kids, sports and what ever.... Best of all is the first day back at school after the long christmas holidays....bliss... Now MY personal favourite time to shop is around 9:30 pm. Not many people around, abolutely NO screaming kids, mainly those that work long hrad hours and great bargains to be had.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My tongue hangs to the ground when I think about it.and here I am lying on my back after an Op on Wednesday. Thinking shit they all havefun in the shopping centre. Please I want too...I want to report too how it is and see all this handsome sexy men all shopping. perving on them in there tied jeans or work clothes looking into their eyes and smiling.....wow what a thrill. Shit I AM IN BED> for another week.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Heedless,I took thechallenge,there were lots of single men at the bar I decided to go to.But after I had sidled up to five of them with no sucees ,and I was using my very best pick up line"..Hi sweetie,do you come here often?" the barman aparently called the police!! I tried to explain that I was a volunteer on a mission,but they just would not believe me said that I must be there working.!! Anyway that was the most expensive drink I have ever had,and it was volunteer week tooxHugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' Well Heedless,I took thechallenge,there were lots of single men at the bar I decided to go to.But after I had sidled up to five of them with no sucees ,and I was using my very best pick up line"..Hi sweetie,do you come here often?" the barman aparently called the police!! I tried to explain that I was a volunteer on a mission,but they just would not believe me said that I must be there working.!! Anyway that was the most expensive drink I have ever had,and it was volunteer week tooxHugs H Did you have fun Hesione, if so nothing lost in the end its all about fun and enjoymentI am going to try Tuesday mid morning then mid afternoon see what cooks...for the shopping centresCoffee bars I may try on wednesday on my way out the city or if enough time might try tomorrow arvo, shall let you know how it goesIf you dont here from me for a while I might be in a cage or behind some bars of a metal type and believe me they wont be serving any jacks and coke or single malts lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Since I look totally different in everyday clothes any conversation that gets to the point of discussing occupations usually ends rather quickly after that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
when im at shopping i focus on that , but anyway more interested about what happened about the bee....did it survive , did it get squished omg poor bee ,focus sin focus lol . anyway if someone flirts with me at shopping first reaction is ....omg shoe sale ... hope this helps
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I were single and a guy approached me in this way, and I was feeling particularly confident, I'd definitely have a coffee with him. A guy with the courage to approach someone these days would certainly earn some good brownie points :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have so much fun reading all of this...Hesione I am still laughing about your last entry..... SHIT SHIT SHIT>>>>I cant report.....YET.....I am still bound to my bedroom. Hedleshorsemen I am waiting for your report you sound so very..... GO GO GO. Cheers all
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi all,Great topic it is very funny reading it all.I like that so many people are looking for someone but we all pretend not too. I go to the virgin gym in the city and it's this huge open plan hot people fest at night time, so much furtive eye contact and that's all, no chance to talk to anyone. Except the suana. The trick for meeting people in real life is routine. Same coffee shop, same time, same train, same gym times, same chinese class, same time.Then eye contact galore. I like talking to strangers but to everyone not just girls. It's funny to me when we go out to bars and thing you're not allowed to just talk to anyone you need an excuse, some of my favs are: can i sit here, sorry did i bump you, got a lite, don't we catch the same train?if this is how people met in the past, how we're any of us ever born?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Back in the early days, maybe thats not quite the right word, lets say 1900's up to 1950's, Dances were a regular and weekly event, church groups were also strong. At least that's what my parents told me. I have even been to a couple of country village hall dances, great nights as I recall. A more innocent age.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
When I head up to the shops it's most likely to duck in duck out and looking like an extreme dag so I rarely am approached to ask if the mangoes are in season by some attractive gentlemen.
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scooda
13 years ago
Quoting 'sinfultwo'when im at shopping i focus on that , but anyway more interested about what happened about the bee....did it survive , did it get squished omg poor bee ,focus sin focus lol . anyway if someone flirts with me at shopping first reaction is ....omg shoe sale ... hope this helps
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a shocker, I have a terrible habit of getting dressed up (and I do mean UP, medieval ballgown or corset and collar :P), popping across the road to buy milk, and going home and getting back into my housedaggies. I mean, I spent alot of fucking money on those pieces, damn straight I'll wear them whenever I please! Can't imagine what the poor checkout peeps thought, though... Then there was the day that I was cleaning the bathroom (which was home to a ferret I was sitting at the time) and ran out of domestos before the job was done. I didn't want to shower before I finished it so I just ran over as is, thinking I would grab my one thing, no harm done. Pretty sure there was at least 3 seperate instances of "omg I just threw up in my mouth what is that stench?" (note to self: ferrets SMELL and human noses get tired. I was NOT fit for public!!!!) Suffice to say, I wasn't getting hit on under either circumstance!
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