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people asking if its the female or male speaking
May 31 2018
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Zarabyfar
7 years ago
It would matter to me. Call me crazy but I like to know who I’m speaking to - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes it matters. It’s called being polite and showing respect to others. If you two are glued and the hip so that you are always typing together. You can still let people know that. I think this is your problem, not theirs.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Smug married?
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RHP User
7 years ago
And I would like to know which one, or if it is both I am chatting with. Men will pretend to be couples is probably part of the worry for the people asking... Peachy
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NaughtyPandaV02
7 years ago
yes i always ask if i am speaking to Mr or Mrs...you guys might always chat together but a lot of couples don't so its always nice to know who you are speaking with...
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NaughtyPandaV02
7 years ago
yes i always ask if i am speaking to Mr or Mrs...you guys might always chat together but a lot of couples don't so its always nice to know who you are speaking with...
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MissRedFox
7 years ago
And if someone is Gauging attraction then I guess some would want to ascertain they're speaking to both parties While couples profiles here are joined I personally find it weird on other platforms couples share a user when it's appropriate to have two accounts One it identifies each party easily and two I'm not wondering so much if there's control/trust issues Oh and BTW just curious if it was mr or Mrs roundup posing the question XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
And actually get pretty annoyed that i should even have to ask. If you are a couple you should always identify who is ACTUALLY messaging. Its polite. And lets face it, its rarely both parties sitting there messaging together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We get asked alot....and even if we are sitting side by side we respond as to which one even when the takes over we say....just being polite really....Mr...😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Oops....even when the other takes over...🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
7 years ago
I assume a couple discuss interactions on RHP or other medium with each other but I'd like to know who I am speaking with on each occasion. I don't think it's unreasonable to ask, or for them to volunteer that info.
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
Thanks we see it as you are chatting to both of us as a couple and both have access to the site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
No different to a phone call, it's manners to sign who it is. Conversations are usually very different coming from a male/female. The reason l have 2 profiles for separate genders
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
You may very well see it that way..... no one else does and it's seldom the case that cpls and always using the site together at the same time....... i know my cpls profile is never used by hubby and its it's always communicated that way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetnsensual
7 years ago
What I have found is yes they chat differently when we did tell them. Yes it’s our opinion but yours isn’t wrong and neither is ours! If we all thought the same their would be no variety. I didn’t ask if it we were right or wrong! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Livingandloving2
7 years ago
We are 2 people with different personalities so if I state something I’m not speaking for him- I think that’s rude to lump him as sharing my viewpoints Even though secretly I know all mine are correct and his are wrong if he disagrees... - Posted from rhpmobile
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ArtsyLusttty
7 years ago
Annoyed or not... Yes, I do ask the couple which ones are typing whenever the "couple" chats me up in the chatroom. Usually I find it is always the males of the couple that chats in the chatroom and few times both genders of the couple chats in the chatroom s3d
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Many couples where one member does the majority of the contact, and its good to know who you are actually talking to. As others have mentioned, its just polite to let others know who is messaging. I've had 'couples' pretend that they are both sending messages, but unfortunately (for them lol) that doesn't usually fool me. A person's writing style is as distinct as their personality and hard to disguise when sending longer messages.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Is that the person doing the asking is hoping that it’s the Mrs doing the chatting (especially in the chatrooms or on Kik) so that they have an opportunity to (a) talk dirty (b) flash their dicks on webcam (c) try to convince the Mrs to meet them alone. (d) try to convince the Mrs to show them her assets on webcam That is certainly what we have experienced. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Xxalex
7 years ago
I would certainly ask, and be it the male or female or both... Wouldn't matter. It would purely be to help steer/drive the conv and give an idea of what and how to talk or what to chat about.. I get a lot of people have taken a hard and almost offended view on this... But I'd ask, not cos I'd talk dirty if it was the female, but clearly my approach and topics would be different... Same as if it was the male.. And a couple would be completely different again, I'd probably ask more general and experienced based questions.. Hope this helps.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
At least here. By their opinions on certain topics, like the genders. Or sometimes they accidentally drop information written about the other partner in the third person, while speaking in first person, etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
That if the chatter (person doing the typing) jumps straight in to saying things like “ hot pix wanna fuck?” and then proceeds to steer the conversation in an overtly hard core sexual direction, they are most probably male. However, on here one just never knows. We have had “unicorns” contact us , whose writing style was, we thought, respectful, gentle & feminine .... but when asked to chat on the phone or wave hello on Kik video, have then vanished back into the woodwork. Clearly not female at all, - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
We prefer to keep them guessing, on here, as to which one of us has written what post. There has been a lot of debate that people, on here, can tell if a male or female is doing the writing. How can one tell that ? A little bit of mystery can be fun we feel. As an example , the first time that we went to Shed16 (have only been twice) we had several people coming up to ask if we were DC36 from RHP. Innocently and with a twinkle in our eyes we said “ Who is DC36 and what is RHP? Have never heard of RHP “. The looks on their faces were priceless !! We prefer to remain anonymous, certainly on here. We also value our privacy. And so no one, on the forums, will ever really know which one of us (or both) is posting on a particular forum post at a given time . Half the fun is in the guessing. We certainly don’t take the forums seriously. We don’t owe anything to anyone nor do we feel anyone owes us anything . It’s just fun and games :) However when in the chatrooms & or KIK, we do specify if we are both on and or just one of us is on , chatting. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've found the keen polite single guys drop me like a hot spud once they realise it's just me, and they are not smooth talking my lady.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
You are entitled to be creeped out by whatever you feel is creepy. A couples profile is just that . It’s a combined single entity / identity assigned to a couple . If not then each party would need to get his / her own profile. We are happily married, and have been together 22 years now. Are we joined at the hip ? No. We each have our careers, we do live together in the same house, share a bed and have children. When it comes to RHP, swingers parties & clubs , yes we are certainly joined at the hip, always together in the same room and generally either always touching or within arms grasp of one another. Why ? Because we like to look after one another (plenty of predators out there esp at swingers clubs) and we are in this together as a team and as such watch ones another’s “backs” . Hardly creepy at all. PS: we will never play alone :)
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