M49
perplexed
October 07 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
If they're 21 genuine 'friends' you're doing damn well, but the other ladies don't know what sort of a tall, dark handsome devil you are - your picture leaves you looking like a tanned person of a very fuzzy and indeterminate figure.. I.e. stick some photos of yourself up. People like what they like, but I'd suggest you've got two audiences, those who might just like you irrespective of your colour; and those who have a little fetish for guys that are packing a big load... of melanin. (Not sure if you're using tags in quite the right way)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ladies like pics on profiles and you prefer Skype so thats not going in your favour. And your status is Ask Me so if you are attached....again, no matter if you are tall, dark, handsome and packing, its not for everyone. Race is irrelevant to me, its the person that counts. But no photos and attached without your partner knowing would be a no from me no matter what race you were.
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RHP User
8 years ago
love the tags but I love the topic even more. There was a topic on this way back, last year from memory and it was really good to get a chance to talk about how it turns me on, I'm always looking for other race, mixed race, coloured skin, you know, any or all of the above, all together would be even better but to let them know they have a fan base, I'm a really big fan, but the rest has to check out too. I don't hook up with guys just because they're young, or just because they're a race I like, all boxes have to be ticked, or the usual things that attract us come into play as well. From what I read at the time, it doesn't suit all women so of course not all women will be attracted, but for me, I love love love not only coloured skin, but other races, most anyway, so please don't think it's your race or skin colour that turns women off, because it could be your biggest asset
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RHP User
8 years ago
I said how I still wanted mixed babies but sadly, that bird has flown
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MissRedFox
8 years ago
Same as when any other man approaches me. To me, connection is most important. If there's a connection of the minds and sexual chemistry then looks are secondary. Although I must admit dark skin against my lilly white skin can be a turn on and I've found a few dark skin guys who feel much the same way😉 Basically the mention who get my attention are good with messaging and good conversationalists neither of which are reliant on skin tone - Posted from rhpmobile
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Eiliethiya
8 years ago
Do you not get a "vibe to not be welcome to talk"? The forums are for everyone, I know this now ;)If you're talking about private messages to people...maybe you're just not reading profiles and messaging people that aren't chasing what you're offering..? It will come down to your profile (you have a few "ask me's" in there that can put a woman off) and your personality & looks (I'm not talking skin colour specifically)...but people usually have a "type" they may be attracted to...
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
You are brave enough to put your details on a forum post, why are you not brave enough to put them on your profile? A person's skin colour is irrelevant to me, but if you are not prepared to give me enough information on your profile to make some sort of decision as to whether to engage in conversation then I would in all likelihood make the decision not to engage. I also find it a little strange that your have fetish interests but no sexual interests....most start with the sexual interests, and then if the connection is good enough the fetish is explored.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Your first line of your profile says you are "well educated and professional" So lets look at your dilema with a marketing/comsumer approach. If you are browsing the ladies profiles, would you be more inclined to stop and read a profile with some form of picture that catches your eye, or a blurred blank? I bet you stop at the pretty pics, dont you? You say'" being discreet and having a pic on here is contradictory" I dont believe so. I am discreet. I have family and work I want to keep seperate. My pics are on here. You say that you will share pics by email. Thats no less discreet than having them in your private gallery. Actually its worse, because someone tech savvy can find out a lot about you from your I.P address on your email. So with that said, to a "well educated and professional person", its all about how you market and present, positive banter wins over a negative spiel about not having pics. So would you bother with a profile like yours? Or skip over it and look at the next 10 that have a pic and dont tell you that they only email or skype their pics? And I seriously doubt the colour of your skin/hair/eyes/poo has anything to do with not getting the attention you thought you would easily attract on this free sex site.
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RHP User
8 years ago
S 😂😂😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
What I always find amusing and a little contradictory, is profiles with no pics, who message and say,"love your pic, can Ii see your pg please?" This internet hookup stuff is all about first impression/visual. So thats how you need to market yourself. And dont assume or expect from a profile,what you refuse to give in return.
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Willow I totally agree you nailed it. those tags are priceless 😂
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RHP User
8 years ago
Im sure he will agree that visual attraction is a major drawcard on here. After all, his 21 friends all have profile pics showing. Maybe if he had some blank fuzzy-wuzzies scattered amongst them, I would have thought he may not care if a lady/couple has pics up or not?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Who would jump at the chance to get you in the sack.
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RHP User
8 years ago
While I totally agree with most of the posts I feel I must put my 2 cents worth in. There maybe genuine reasons why some people do not have a visible profile pic. I for one don't have one because I have a small business and live in a small town, so if someone who doesn't know me on here sees a pic it could be very embarrassing. I do have pics in a private gallery and anyone who requests to see them can. I had a lot of thought after reading some of these posts, and have totally rewritten my profile to better explain what I am seeking and who I am. So if anyone wants to comment on it feel free any suggestions are welcome.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Oddbod811' While I totally agree with most of the posts I feel I must put my 2 cents worth in. There maybe genuine reasons why some people do not have a visible profile pic. I for one don't have one because I have a small business and live in a small town, so if someone who doesn't know me on here sees a pic it could be very embarrassing. a profile picture doesn't need to be an identifying picture - most people can't identify Willow in the street from a picture of her boobs behind a chain top, or MsJonesy from a cleavage pic.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Oddbod811' While I totally agree with most of the posts I feel I must put my 2 cents worth in. There maybe genuine reasons why some people do not have a visible profile pic. I for one don't have one because I have a small business and live in a small town, so if someone who doesn't know me on here sees a pic it could be very embarrassing. I do have pics in a private gallery and anyone who requests to see them can. I had a lot of thought after reading some of these posts, and have totally rewritten my profile to better explain what I am seeking and who I am. So if anyone wants to comment on it feel free any suggestions are welcome. sorry but this just doesn't wash with me. No pictures, no contact, not negotiable. Married people put body pics up, why can't you? Is a person in your town likely to recognise your abs?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I didn't read S's comment before posting my comment so not coming off the back of that, just needed to make that clear, but our posts reflect the same thought. We all at one time or another need to hide our identity, I have had to before, but always had a stack of non identifying pictures up. In my experience, every single time I asked for pictures, there was a reason they didn't want to show themselves, That was when I was rookie not anymore, no pictures, and I state that in my profile, I don't do blind dates, no reply, not negotiable
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Oddbod811' While I totally agree with most of the posts I feel I must put my 2 cents worth in. There maybe genuine reasons why some people do not have a visible profile pic. I for one don't have one because I have a small business and live in a small town, so if someone who doesn't know me on here sees a pic it could be very embarrassing. I do have pics in a private gallery and anyone who requests to see them can. I had a lot of thought after reading some of these posts, and have totally rewritten my profile to better explain what I am seeking and who I am. So if anyone wants to comment on it feel free any suggestions are welcome. sorry but this just doesn't wash with me. No pictures, no contact, not negotiable. Married people put body pics up, why can't you? Is a person in your town likely to recognise your abs? Well I stand corrected and I take your criticism to heart. Just as soon as I can get a good body shot that doesn't identify me I will post it. I used to post face pics on other sites until a "work mate" called me and said they had seen me on a dating site. So iI hope you can understand my reluctance.
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up4nsa
8 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Your first line of your profile says you are "well educated and professional" So lets look at your dilema with a marketing/comsumer approach. If you are browsing the ladies profiles, would you be more inclined to stop and read a profile with some form of picture that catches your eye, or a blurred blank? I bet you stop at the pretty pics, dont you? You say'" being discreet and having a pic on here is contradictory" I dont believe so. I am discreet. I have family and work I want to keep seperate. My pics are on here. You say that you will share pics by email. Thats no less discreet than having them in your private gallery. Actually its worse, because someone tech savvy can find out a lot about you from your I.P address on your email. So with that said, to a "well educated and professional person", its all about how you market and present, positive banter wins over a negative spiel about not having pics. So would you bother with a profile like yours? Or skip over it and look at the next 10 that have a pic and dont tell you that they only email or skype their pics? And I seriously doubt the colour of your skin/hair/eyes/poo has anything to do with not getting the attention you thought you would easily attract on this free sex site. Thanks for your reply, We can have a completely separate discussion about how secure it would be to have face pics on here as against using email. Just to give you a synopsis, have a look at the recent break-ins that has taken place in similar sites.Thanks again
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