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pity sex,have you ever had sex with someone because you felt sorry for them
September 27 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Felt sorry and out of kindness, I got pity sex from myself
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RHP User
12 years ago
What tha? Why would you? We never take one for the team, and never expect anyone to do it for us, as its not a one way street.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... and no. Sorry, couldn't xx
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
yes i have......I was not attracted to them at all, but I felt sorry for them. At the time I thought I was doing the right thing, when really I should have just said no. Hind sight is a wonderful thing.......I would not like to have sex with anyone if it was pity sex, I think it would make me feel worse about myself......
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never had pity sex ... maybe I should look for a Redcliffe lady of about 54 and ask if she will help me? LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
What on earth is kind about deceiving a person into thinking you're attracted to them? As far as I'm concerned it's downright cruel unless the person is aware of how the pity perception, in which case it just seems tragic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I once had sex with a guy (my first time with a guy too!) because he hadn't been laid in 6 months. It was terrible! Totally put me off guys til I met my husband.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never done one for the team............. I am in this for fun as well......
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RHP User
12 years ago
...but can't seem to coordinate
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RHP User
12 years ago
So people have pity sex ? Take pity on me RHP!Serious tho i have never had pity sex ,and would not like the emotional baggage that would come with it.I only sleep with people i have respect for and have a connection with
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RHP User
12 years ago
pity sex? what an insult that would be......either way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There was a time when it was the only kind I could get. ...Then I found out there was 'paid for' sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi! Freya 13:) ....Thanks for the Topic:) Honestly I couldn't do Pity sex..However out of Compassion I have shared Intimacy with a couple of Guys out of Friendship for medicinal Emotional Purposes .1 comes to mind A Friend Mature Guy in his 60s I'm not Sexually attracted to him and I've been open all along it was Friendship.that was cool for both of us.. we did have Massaging kissing cuddling normally .. .I felt he was so lonely and desperately missed his Wife and the Intimacy they shared for many years as it was only them No Children..So we did share Sexual Intimacy but went back to the kisses and cuddles Massage after a couple of times because his energies were Balanced we had fun ..He didn't feel as Lonely after that.. Later on we did share an Amazing encounter a very Beautiful Spiritual one..In a sense his Wife came thro. using her energies her likeness in My minds eye he could see her I saw the change in his eyes,demeanour.. They shared a moment to enjoy each other in every way.. time just stood still ..when I checked later ,30, minutes has passed.. He wasn't making Love to me he was melding with His Wife.They said their good bye sealed it with a kiss so much love..Parted his eyes returned to Normal I stepped back in we continued as we had before.. OMG! I have never experienced something so Awesome before or since to date..It was similar to "Ghost the Movie"if you like to understand a little what I mean ,but this was real not a Movie.. ..It brought closure so he could move on with his Life ..He told me this the next day when I asked him how he was because we had experienced something so Unique..:) Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi! Freya 13:) ....Thanks for the Topic:) Honestly I couldn't do Pity sex..However out of Compassion I have shared Intimacy with a couple of Guys out of Friendship for medicinal Emotional Purposes .1 comes to mind A Friend Mature Guy in his 60s I'm not Sexually attracted to him and I've been open all along it was Friendship.that was cool for both of us.. we did have Massaging kissing cuddling normally .. .I felt he was so lonely and desperately missed his Wife and the Intimacy they shared for many years as it was only them No Children..So we did share Sexual Intimacy but went back to the kisses and cuddles Massage after a couple of times because his energies were Balanced we had fun ..He didn't feel as Lonely after that.. Later on we did share an Amazing encounter a very Beautiful Spiritual one..In a sense his Wife came thro. using her energies her likeness in My minds eye he could see her I saw the change in his eyes,demeanour.. They shared a moment to enjoy each other in every way.. time just stood still ..when I checked later ,30, minutes has passed.. He wasn't making Love to me he was melding with His Wife.They said their good bye sealed it with a kiss so much love..Parted his eyes returned to Normal I stepped back in we continued as we had before.. OMG! I have never experienced something so Awesome before or since to date..It was similar to "Ghost the Movie"if you like to understand a little what I mean ,but this was real not a Movie.. ..It brought closure so he could move on with his Life ..He told me this the next day when I asked him how he was because we had experienced something so Unique..:) Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't mean to Post 2 I don't know if 1 can be removed sorry about that cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
But pity I had sex with that person lol!
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RHP User
12 years ago
its a pity I dont have sex more often............... pity me please :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
that almost every time i've had sex i have been on the receiving end...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pity sex is an insult, I think. But there's a lot to be said for compassion. Sexual surrogacy exists for a reason ... Lu, wow! Your compassion comes through loud and clear lovely lady x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Please have pitty on me ladies..it's hard slog here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Prrofile name of "cheeky arses", profile pic of a bum in a bath, then the heading...hindsight is a wonderful thing?I see what you did there....very clever Pity sex? I nearly did once, broken hearted woman, good friend, kisses and cuddles, bit of touching, things started heating, but I stopped it.......nearly went there. Was more detailed than that of course, but yeh, nearly. But no, not really, and no, wouldnt go there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Prrofile name of "cheeky arses", profile pic of a bum in a bath, then the heading...hindsight is a wonderful thing?I see what you did there....very clever Pity sex? I nearly did once, broken hearted woman, good friend, kisses and cuddles, bit of touching, things started heating, but I stopped it.......nearly went there. Was more detailed than that of course, but yeh, nearly. But no, not really, and no, wouldnt go there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Me n Dragonfly had the need to post twice, just to make sure we were read properly ha ha........dammit.....fail
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Thank you very much for your lovely sentiment I really appreciate that Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi! Hun :) You certainly did the right thing with your Female Friend ..It can get very tricky when a Woman especially is emotionally vulnerable.. Good For You acting the Gentleman and good Friend..:) Yes Thanks from me for Posting twice too ..Mine stands out with 1 reply but 2 Monopolizes.. With your added extra too I don't feel so guilty ..I know now why It came up twice so all good he!he! Cheers LU :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have given pity sex. I have most certainly received it though, through the sex industry workers. Afterall isn't that what it is, apart from a business transaction?
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RHP User
12 years ago
that made me laugh.I sooo know what you mean...unfortunately.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun :) Thanks for the giggle I liked your warped Humour but it's so true too he!he! Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
...Ummm, ...I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pity sex! i could never! :-) It's just not in me...! Axiom28 lmao!!!
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