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play meets only ?
January 11 2016
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Is that they don't want to socialise, meet for dinner , make friends , but rather just want to play (have sex) straight away - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
lmao ,well shit ,thats what i was hoping it didnt mean ,damn it ,more flicking to the side lines ,lol,whats next ,name badges need to be worn ,to cut down on the time of getting your name ,<<< jokeing ,before anyone bites ,lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
As one guy put it...." just want to come round, fill your 3 holes and leave" Not for me but obviously suits other people.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Wow Kokoflamingo, did he really say that?! That is so crass! In that sort of scenario, don't prostitutes have it better because at least, they get paid to be used like an object! :P
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RHP User
9 years ago
You don't just open the door to a bent over female and go for it. It just means they are definately looking for sexual interaction on the day/night, but that doesn't mean literally immediately. If you're invited over for an MFM for example, that's a play meet, but it doesn't mean you don't socialise/drink/eat or that there are no other connections to be made. The same as going to an advertised play party also generally involves socialising and making friends. It might also mean they want to organise fantasy arrangements, host a play party themselves, or invite others to join them somewhere else. I don't know about everyone else, but I regard the other "meet first, then play" option to mean that the meeting and playing are on seperate dates/occasions. Not everyone has time for all that, especially if it's more than one extra person they want to play with, it's quicker to vet people in other ways.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes. And a very small percentage of guys think the same way. Hurrah for the rest of the guys who are respectful and lovely.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't know what I have selected, i'll have to check, but most of my hook ups are with much younger guys and I play immediately, i'm horny, I want sex and don't even bother with a drink. The door opens, we kiss and start getting it on right there lol. I'm not shy and extremely horny. I don't see what could be disrespectful about 2 people wanting to have sex. Only if one person didn't want it I suppose, but that's what I need and guys love it. No time wasted. I love moving straight in for that first kiss without conversation, I don't require that. I've only ever met guys in public a few times and then got them to the car as quick as a could 😀😀👍 so respect is there, always, just no wasting time
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RHP User
9 years ago
To answer your question, I would take play meets only to mean expect to play straight away, no dating
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RHP User
9 years ago
We take it to mean tbey'd like to play on the first meet. Personally I don't see the problem with this after all the messaging and toing and froing that goes on. Some people are on here for sex, some for a social connection, some for both. Many on here have sex with total strangers at parties, clubs etc. Its really no different I don't think. Personally we don't put any limitations on when we will and won't play. The first meet is no different from the fifth in our mind. If you click why put it off because of some rule about when you should and shouldnt play. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is that the purpose of meeting people on this site is for play meets only. Not social interaction, not to become best mates, no BBQ'sand tupperware parties etc. Some people(couples in particular in my experience) are here simply to fulfill a sexual fantasy whilst going on with their everyday, muggle life. I wouldn't have thought it necessarily meant play on the first date, or that future meets meant sex on arrival. Just that all parties were aware that the only purpose of engagement was for sex, not friendship.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I joined here to restart my non existing sex life. However I have made a few friends into the bargain which has been great! I think its up to the individual whether you meet first or just get straight into play. I like to meet first because if someone came over for sex and we didnt click, no way would I shag him just for the sake of a root. But each to their own? :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
What she said, oh and I wouldn't have sex with them either just for the sake of a root, there's no commitment, you can walk away at any point. Come point of hookup though, that rarely happens after heavy screening and forming a connection, plus lots of dirty talk mmm love that 👍😉
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
cool thanks for clearing that up ,
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would define it as the primary point of the exercise is to get laid. The understanding I would have from an invitation like that is sex is the expected outcome by the end of the night. I prefer at least some foreplay and conversation but to each their own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
9 years ago
... can be loosely interpreted as meet first, play later, within the same first date! Guilty...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm sure there are men who like to take things slow, I wouldn't know 😁😁😉
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ocean_man
9 years ago
I have seen this and thought it could be interpreted a few ways, unlike "NO SINGLE MEN".Maybe they should say "NO TALK WITHOUT SEX" "And for those who missed it the first time NO TALK WITHOUT SEX"Because we all know single men and social people need to be told twice!
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RHP User
9 years ago
play meets means that I'm not looking for regular meets. I'm not looking for a continuing sexual relationship (although given the right person and locale of course I'd consider it). Any meet I have is going to involve travel - either for me or them - so the meet one day and hook up again another day just doesn't work for me. So yes I'm that gal that's going to want to spend time talking to you to establish if we'd get along in real life because I have to. So my play meets will indicate sex at that meet. Obviously it will happen where I meet someone and the chemistry just isn't there for either of us but I'll cross that bridge when it happens. Until then I'll continue to arrange meets with the implication that if sex will be involved. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I don't know what I have selected, i'll have to check, but most of my hook ups are with much younger guys and I play immediately, i'm horny, I want sex and don't even bother with a drink. The door opens, we kiss and start getting it on right there lol. I'm not shy and extremely horny. I don't see what could be disrespectful about 2 people wanting to have sex. Only if one person didn't want it I suppose, but that's what I need and guys love it. No time wasted. I love moving straight in for that first kiss without conversation, I don't require that. I've only ever met guys in public a few times and then got them to the car as quick as a could 😀😀👍 so respect is there, always, just no wasting time
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not another one? It has to be me, this comment was only just posted, then poof, they're gone another tombstone to erect sigh
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RHP User
9 years ago
Aren't you concerned that they may not be who they say there are or maybe they have bad hygiene and you don't like their smell? For me, if their eyes don't speak to me then I loose interest and don't want to have sex. So if bloke turns up at your door and you don't like him. What do you do?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will mean different things to different people I suspect. However I would assume they after sex on the first date, but that doesn't necessarily preclude meeting for drinks or dinner to assess if there is any chemistry and have a evening of flirting and teasing.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Aren't you concerned that they may not be who they say there are or maybe they have bad hygiene and you don't like their smell? For me, if their eyes don't speak to me then I loose interest and don't want to have sex. So if bloke turns up at your door and you don't like him. What do you do? You walk away, simple, but it rarely happens. If they're at my place, they have to leave. Location is somewhat irrelevant, it could be at their house. I've left on two occasions when I went to a guy's house. A third time I very nearly did and he suggested I stay for a drink, we laughed about it after that, he was an incredible lover and I saw him many times. I've written bits about him in the forum here. But I wasn't concerned for my safety, he was just a lot thinner, and didn't look like the pictures I'd seen. Turned out he had a very sick parent and other stuff that had caused him to lose weight. I'm very glad I stayed. But no, I have my vetting process, and always trust them before meeting. I know what I'm doing and make decisions based on instinct and each guy as an individual. Some I trust more than others, so each might be treated differently in the lead up. I never take any chances, always careful, but I still want sex, straight in. We're also talking young guys here. Most of them are just flat out horny like I am, no hidden agenda, they're not desperate, neither am I. I actually have more issues with older men putting up fake pictures, young dudes are no problem It's not for everyone, I accept that, but people also need to understand their way isn't for me either. Each to their own
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have gone to men's places straight away after a few emails before but I figured that I could make a run for it if they opened the door and I didn't like them. I would never invite strangers over to my place, I would be to worried they wouldn't leave quickly if I asked them to or that they may get abusive. But I am lazy and I don't vet them very well. No Skype or telephone convos first. I prefer to meet for a quick drink to see if there is chemistry rather than endless emails and calls. Just my style of doing things. I am in a relationship now and rarely play alone anymore so I don't have to worry about all this anymore. My boyfriend can be a very play first guy. I remember the first MMF fling we had, we turned up at the guys house. Neither of us has met him before. We walk in and sit down and I am chatting to the guy. My BF asks to use the bathroom.... And comes out of the bathroom totally nude! After being in the house less than 2 minutes. Coincidentally this was our second date. Haha. 4 years ago now. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
thank you xxx you have explained it awesomely xxx I think thats what most off us hope for xx If most of RHP members are as open minded, down to earth as I am, are hear to meet for fun. Not to find a life partner. We dont want a wham bame thank you mamm either. But it is not explained on the site, meaning of somethings. I will be keeping what you have explained, to share with others who are not so sure of themselfs and to newbes that come along xxxThank You
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RHP User
9 years ago
Has anyone been to the club 103 in Belmont if so is it any good and is there lots of nice pussy there for me ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
9 years ago
I am amused by some replies!!! Significant people come to this site for specific purpose and for others to misunderstand them shows lack of maturity that is required to understand every increasing diversity around us. Let me ask a question first before I share my view. Do people who have a greet date first before play date decide on the following play date they will undress in car, make dick hard, ring the bell and other sides there will be people in same situation and without saying anything the first point of contact will be the genitals. Once finished they will withdraw and walk backwards and disappear. Because it is so called play date... Looking for play meets only means they don't have time for exclusive greet date so if everyone feel comfortable they expect you to play. If it doesn't results in play it means there is no further connection. Play date is not a commitment to play but greet date is sort of commitment to greet because greeting doesn't require same level of comfort as is required for play. Play date means play is expected in same date but only if everyone is comfortable. It is not a pre-commitment for play irrespective of connection. In short a play date is all inclusive meet greet play combo date.
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