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playing while pregnant
August 03 2014
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
It's been discussed on here before and the consensus was that it was not acceptable as it could place the unborn child at risk due to possible STD's, viruses etc that could be passed on as a result of not only sex, but also kissing and oral. HPV, Hep etc etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
This was discussed a while ago, but in my opinion, no, it's not okay. What happens if you play with someone who doesn't understand the words stop or no and the baby ends up being hurt. Or if you get and STI and it affects the baby? I know that your hormones go crazy when you're pregnant but I don't think the risk is worth it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is this the male or female posting? It's hard to tell by your post. Curiosity or do you want to be told that your sex life won't change if you fall pregnant? I've had three kids and couldn't imagine wanting to play with others whilst pregnant. I felt uncomfortable, sick, fat and just wanted the comforts of Hubby, but that was me and all women are different. I never got the sexy hormones until the third trimester and then sex is awkward and that is also when mum and the baby are at a higher risk to infections. It would probably be more likely to happen if you were friends before falling pregnant and were open about it, rather than finding new couples.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do not have children nor have I been pregnant I have two girlfriends both around my age who are both pregnant at present With all the gushing and love emitting from them both at the moment well it is lovely to be around, and based on my observations of both these people and their partners, well I would have thought that for a couple having a baby, then that would be a very very special bonding time for them. The creation of life that is the extension of themselves and one assumes their love of each other, I would have thought that is where the focus would be, on this special time and not on sexual fulfillment with others. But like I said I have no children, nor been pregnant and deep down I have old fashion values. IMHO there are some things that only a couple should share
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RHP User
10 years ago
I also think it's not on for all the reasons mentioned above - Posted from rhpmobile
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
As we said in another post, we did swing until I was about 6 months pregnant and then it became too uncomfortable. We only played with close friends so we had no worries about STDs or being too rough. Of course we wouldn't have done this with strangers or put either of our babies at any risk. Just because I was pregnant it didn't mean I wasn't horny or was out of bounds! I found it very relaxing being caressed in a hot spa or being massaged while someone was shagging me. Each to their own though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As anything, pregnancy can be a fetish of people's. Ooh wait til the wife is lactating that will get all the blokes going.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sure it has rigid views on this..I don't think enough care could be taken to be honest. Too much at stake.
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Uniquebloke76
10 years ago
Sorry the question is not a personal one, it was a discussion that came up in a mums chat group and a lady asked about it, so I thought the best place to ask was here
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RHP User
10 years ago
have to say....that while i found my own wife to be incredibly sexy and attractive while pregnant, i dont find other women the same...not really sure why, perhaps its a case of 'i did that'.....but yea, couldnt go there with anothers pregnant partner..just saying
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RHP User
10 years ago
You asked a question, it's obviously one that has touches people differently and some people have very firm views on the issue. Like anything, it would be a personal choice.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My husband wouldn't touch me once I began to show. It was very demeaning to me plus I was very horny. The orgasms I had when I was pregnant were amazing. Had to satisfy myself everyday. If I got pregnant again (highly unlikely) I do know a guy that I trust (and have played with) and he said he would love to help out lol. We always use condoms. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Quoting 'MaryMaryContrary' My husband wouldn't touch me once I began to show. It was very demeaning to me plus I was very horny. The orgasms I had when I was pregnant were amazing. Had to satisfy myself everyday. If I got pregnant again (highly unlikely) I do know a guy that I trust (and have played with) and he said he would love to help out lol. We always use condoms. - Posted from rhpmobile Using condoms does not necessarily make the sex safe, nor does it make it safe for the unborn child. Just our opinion on the matter.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MaryMaryContrary' My husband wouldn't touch me once I began to show. It was very demeaning to me plus I was very horny. The orgasms I had when I was pregnant were amazing. Had to satisfy myself everyday. If I got pregnant again (highly unlikely) I do know a guy that I trust (and have played with) and he said he would love to help out lol. We always use condoms. - Posted from rhpmobile that your husband would be like that :( Pregnant women are beautiful.
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Seachange
10 years ago
ARe you referring as you the female, the male or the couple as playing while you are pregnant. Playing while pregnant depends on how you see and practise it. Having sex while pregnant is not dangerous as long as you and your partner (s) are aware of your physical limits and practise safe sex. Sex while pregnant is not dirty nor it is a new thing. There are a lot of books or sections in pregnancy books that discuss this. Also google it. Lots of topics referring to the pleasures and dangers of sex during pregnancy. A woman still has her urges while pregnant but may experience discomfort, obviously, and the partner (s) need to be aware of this. WRT to the man playing alone while the woman is pregnant, i can not comment as I have not been in that circumstance before. Better leave that for those in the know. Good luck and stay safe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Being the father of three healthy and wonderful children, I can say that it was a question I MADE SURE I asked (I was 16, 18 and 19 when my wife was pregnant with the three, so it was very important to me at that age... As men are walking penis's at that age (and don't really change that much, I know... But at those ages, SEX is ALL you think... I mean, you look at LINO and you get a mongrel). There's no way THIS 16, 18 or 19 yo was going without for 6 months or whatever... LOL. Joke, I would have done whatever I had to ensure the safety of her and the child. But I didn't need to worry at all... Anyway... I'm assuming the question concerns (or at least includes) sex between the couple alone. I know nothing of the dangers or warnings relevant to other partners. But the THREE different GYNOs that handled her pregnancies said there was no problem with having intercourse up till birth, PROVIDED there are no complications or conditions that might preclude sex... For example: a history of cervical weakness, a low-lying placenta, you've had heavy bleeding or you've had a vaginal infection...There was no internet then, so it was necessary to rely on the Gyno for the right advice... Now it's at your fingertips, like everything else. ____________________________________________________________________________________________Reference: If you’ve had a healthy pregnancy, there’s no reason why you and your partner can’t have sex. The thick mucus plug that seals your cervix helps to guard your baby against infection. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of your uterus (womb) also keep your baby safe. Your partner's penis won’t damage your baby in any way while you're having sex. You may find your baby moves around a bit after you've had an orgasm. It's nothing to worry about. Your baby's reacting to the pounding of your heart. He doesn't know what's happening or feel any discomfort.BTW... I've heard from many ladies that they get extremely horny during pregnancy... Some have gone so far as to say, they have never since been so horny as they were. I don't know if that is so for everyone... But I've heard it from a number of ladies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' ARe you referring as you the female, the male or the couple as playing while you are pregnant. Playing while pregnant depends on how you see and practise it. Having sex while pregnant is not dangerous as long as you and your partner (s) are aware of your physical limits and practise safe sex. Sex while pregnant is not dirty nor it is a new thing. There are a lot of books or sections in pregnancy books that discuss this. Also google it. Lots of topics referring to the pleasures and dangers of sex during pregnancy. A woman still has her urges while pregnant but may experience discomfort, obviously, and the partner (s) need to be aware of this. WRT to the man playing alone while the woman is pregnant, i can not comment as I have not been in that circumstance before. Better leave that for those in the know. Good luck and stay safe. Obviously, if the lady is experiencing discomfort, there is a need to stop and make sure things are as they should be.... Obviously, also, if there's any reason to feel that there may be a problem, consulting the Gyno is a must.... I was demonstrating that there is no general rule or universal reason that dictates that sex is not advisable during pregnancy... As I said, I asked each time and got the same answer that's available today, online... Obviously, as I expressed, there may be problems or conditions that could preclude sex... I add this because it's a health question and also a serious subject... Ta
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'MaryMaryContrary' My husband wouldn't touch me once I began to show. It was very demeaning to me plus I was very horny. The orgasms I had when I was pregnant were amazing. Had to satisfy myself everyday. If I got pregnant again (highly unlikely) I do know a guy that I trust (and have played with) and he said he would love to help out lol. We always use condoms. - Posted from rhpmobile that your husband would be like that :( Pregnant women are beautiful. I agree... Pregnant women are beautiful and although I'm not a 'nut' about it... I recall it as a beautiful period in our relationship and also a period where we shared a marvelous experience from start to finish and also enjoyed each others bodies at the same time. It was nice to get back to normal positions (as some are either uncomfortable or impossible for a pregnant lady to pull off)... I was overly careful to begin with, but she assured me she would say so, if there was any reason to stop... There rarely was. AND, as I said before (along with the other women I've heard it from since), she was the randiest women I've ever met SINCE... Bar none. So, if the Gyno says all is well and there's no reason not to enjoy...... ENJOY. It's a wonderful time for both...Good Luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am/was referring to a couple continuing to have sex under the circumstances.... Not with other partners. I have never 'swung (swinged?)' so I am referring to my situation as husband and wife who were exclusive, so the STI risk and the other things pointed out in a swinging situation like someone going at it too hard etc, are not an area I would comment on...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'MeAgain7' Obviously, if the lady is experiencing discomfort, there is a need to stop and make sure things are as they should be.... Obviously, also, if there's any reason to feel that there may be a problem, consulting the Gyno is a must.... I was demonstrating that there is no general rule or universal reason that dictates that sex is not advisable during pregnancy... As I said, I asked each time and got the same answer that's available today, online... Obviously, as I expressed, there may be problems or conditions that could preclude sex... I add this because it's a health question and also a serious subject... Ta Did I say anything in the contrary? . My post was quite obvious. No further explanation... I have had 2 kids and being sensible and being aware, from a physical and medical standpoint is important. so what are you saying? I must have missed the point. Sorry.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MeAgain7' I am/was referring to a couple continuing to have sex under the circumstances.... Not with other partners. I have never 'swung (swinged?)' so I am referring to my situation as husband and wife who were exclusive, so the STI risk and the other things pointed out in a swinging situation like someone going at it too hard etc, are not an area I would comment on... I think the question refers to swinging as in sex with someone apart from husband. Personally I think it is a no go zone. Obviously sex can still be on the cards but i would have thought it was too special a time between a couple for anyone to actually play with someone else.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'VelvetNoir' I do not have children nor have I been pregnant I have two girlfriends both around my age who are both pregnant at present With all the gushing and love emitting from them both at the moment well it is lovely to be around, and based on my observations of both these people and their partners, well I would have thought that for a couple having a baby, then that would be a very very special bonding time for them. The creation of life that is the extension of themselves and one assumes their love of each other, I would have thought that is where the focus would be, on this special time and not on sexual fulfillment with others. But like I said I have no children, nor been pregnant and deep down I have old fashion values. IMHO there are some things that only a couple should share Well we must admit that there is not much more we can add to what you have said ,we agree with your words totally.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting 'MeAgain7' Obviously, if the lady is experiencing discomfort, there is a need to stop and make sure things are as they should be.... Obviously, also, if there's any reason to feel that there may be a problem, consulting the Gyno is a must.... I was demonstrating that there is no general rule or universal reason that dictates that sex is not advisable during pregnancy... As I said, I asked each time and got the same answer that's available today, online... Obviously, as I expressed, there may be problems or conditions that could preclude sex... I add this because it's a health question and also a serious subject... Ta Did I say anything in the contrary? . My post was quite obvious. No further explanation... I have had 2 kids and being sensible and being aware, from a physical and medical standpoint is important. so what are you saying? I must have missed the point. Sorry. I'm sorry Lilyorchid... I put that there to indicate that I had neglected to say earlier 'in my post' that it was something serious and all the care that YOU advise, should still be taken, regardless.... I wasn't referring TO your post, I was supporting it and adding the same comment, so as make it clear that I agreed. Sorry for the misunderstanding and your confusion... Perhaps I didn't need to include your post... It was just that it was what made me realize that I hadn't treated the subject with enough care.
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Seachange
10 years ago
No worries. Thanks for the clarification. Cheers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' This was discussed a while ago, but in my opinion, no, it's not okay. What happens if you play with someone who doesn't understand the words stop or no and the baby ends up being hurt. Or if you get and STI and it affects the baby? I know that your hormones go crazy when you're pregnant but I don't think the risk is worth it. Not understanding stop or no? That would be sexual assault...
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RHP User
10 years ago
We personally wouldn't go there, but everyone is different. Do whatever Rocks your Boat!
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RHP User
10 years ago
We tried it but it didn't work it was a fun thing to do while we waiting...aah the good old days.It was only the two of us and we did have medical advice to do what came naturally...
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
We have been told by a lot of doctors, that semen ripens the cervix and that could induce labour, in the last few weeks of a pregnancy. Not sure if this is true or not. We have 2 children and would never play with others, during a pregnancy. Its a special time for husband and wife and just too risky to introduce outsiders who may be carrying an infection of sorts which in turn could have a negative impact on the unborn baby. Just as smoking, alcohol and illicit drugs can also have a negative impact on the unborn child.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its personal choice regardless of how high some people get on their horses.But there has been a lot of good advice given as well. We actually fantasize about being with a pregnant woman but as many have stated above we would only do this with somebody we knew. We think its one of those fantasies that are maybe better as a fantasy and not acted upon.
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HedonicGent
10 years ago
While it's not for every woman or couple I think it's perfectly fine to play while pregnant but the key is picking the right partner(s) in crime. Group fun, I think, is asking for trouble but a select gent/lady/couple isn't unreasonable if you keep to safe sex and are happy with the chemistry. I've happily enjoyed the pleasure of a gorgeous pregnant woman's company and have had some wonderfully kinky sex. I find the form so alluring and sexy and I only wish more women realised how attractive they can be during pregnancy. I find it sad to hear of those many who think they're the opposite of sexy and especially of the men who lose interest in them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I feel it's the age old sex verses love making. During pregnancy sex became more about the love making, more emotion and sensual. With mrs Madmanx, sometimes we make love, sometimes it's a great sex. With a couple it's just sex. Hard to explain but while I can see some circumstances where it may work it certainly wouldn't be for us.
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