please help!

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  On_Safari

  11 years ago

  But you have youth and inexperience on your side. Try Forums, Newbie Questions, Profile Tips or read this one: http://redhotpie.com.au/Mobile/Forum/Thread.aspx?topicID=42139- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  "Here have my dick!" Do you want fries with that??? There's nothing about you, what you offer a potential partner, let alone any part of your personality.... And you get more success at the pub??? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Cue the PUSSY WHISPERER.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Welcome to the asylum..... dont feel ignored.... its a common complaint so you're not alone there.One or two quick thoughts.... There is more detail on a 13 digit barcode than in your profile. Detail paints the picture of 'you' as a product and entity in here. Think of it as a resume, but please... leave out the so called sexual qualifications and achievements.Also.... the shirtless bathroom selfie...... dime a dozen in here, doesnt distinguish you from 98% of guys in here, and its just not appealing to most women, according to comments in the numerous similar topics that can help guide you.DG. There are many topics

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You could definately fill out your Profile blurb some more . Re : Do you Drink You've written "Ask Me" But I can plainly see a Bundy can in one of your pics . As the others have said , there's been plenty of talk about Profile building , in the Forums . You should also check out a few Male's Profiles (you can do it secretly , via Settings) to get a better idea of what you're up against . This is a competition for attention , so you need to bring your A-Game . Happy Hunting ... GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Nice picture, nothing special, at least the one at the beach you look a bit more tanned and muscular. Ok, moved down, oh that's it, ummm I don't know, don't really think I would have gone further. Now interests, there's nothing there and then the information was non existent. OK, yes a bit harsh but now comes the helpful bit. Nice jeans and shirt fine, outdoors, leaning against a pole, arms crossed = I'm a relaxed guy who gets out there. Do you know what you like? Do you want someone to bake in the sun with and rub lotion all over their bodies? Do you enjoy making pasta at your place with a full bodied red wine, having little titbits of dessert which you will have fun choosing where you eat them. Think about what you like and what you want and try and translate that into visuals. Good luck on it all.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'TongueCramps' Cue the PUSSY WHISPERER. right on cue ... Everyone here is right OP. Men outnumber women here a gazillion to 1. Takes some effort to stand out here. It's been said in the forums by ladies that if you're lazy in your profile it makes women think you're lazy in the sack. Good luck and welcome as DG says to the asylum. And if you do get lucky, be sure to post in the forums and tell us all about it ..

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Nothing like rejection to do a stock take on yourself

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Damn my non-instant posting privileges! Made it look like I was whistled up...... wasnt the case.... but no biggie)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Bahahaha Now sit......good boy :D - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Because there is nothing whatsoever in your profile that tells me! Well there's three things in there: You're in your 20's (well, for a few more months anyway), you're laid back AND easy going. But the last two are synonyms so you're really just saying ONE thing about your personality. To me that screams either BOOOOORRRIIING! or perhaps LAAAAZZZYYYY. Just because you're on a sex site, doesn't mean you don't need to put any effort into presenting yourself. Try answering questions (I use these to gauge whether it'd be fun to go meet someone or not): These two questions I find make a decent enough profile to warrant further talk:1. What is your idea of a "bit of fun"? What do you like to do in the lead up to having sex? (i.e. what is your ideal date? what do you do for fun outside the bedroom?) 2. What are you actually looking for on RHP? Are you looking for one-nighters? something on-going? possible friendship or just sex with no other interaction? This question is more about messaging/flirting:3. How are you initiating interaction with the ladies? Are you just sending flirts? Are you messaging? Are you checking that you ACTUALLY fit the criteria the ladies are looking for? If you're sending flirts, I probably would just not bother. Flirts are lazy and many don't get returned. I attempt to return all messages (except the explicit creepy ones or ones that just say "hey, wanna fuck?") so go with messaging. When you message, ask a question that suggests you might think of the lady as more than just 2 or 3 holes (comment on something in their profile, compliment, what would you ask or say to a lady if you were to meet her in a bar?) Finally, can I just say... SMILE in your pics FFS!!! People look so much nicer when they smile!

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  indulge_you

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Gr8whiteUnicorn' Because there is nothing whatsoever in your profile that tells me! Well there's three things in there: You're in your 20's (well, for a few more months anyway), you're laid back AND easy going. But the last two are synonyms so you're really just saying ONE thing about your personality. To me that screams either BOOOOORRRIIING! or perhaps LAAAAZZZYYYY. Just because you're on a sex site, doesn't mean you don't need to put any effort into presenting yourself. Try answering questions (I use these to gauge whether it'd be fun to go meet someone or not): These two questions I find make a decent enough profile to warrant further talk:1. What is your idea of a "bit of fun"? What do you like to do in the lead up to having sex? (i.e. what is your ideal date? what do you do for fun outside the bedroom?) 2. What are you actually looking for on RHP? Are you looking for one-nighters? something on-going? possible friendship or just sex with no other interaction? This question is more about messaging/flirting:3. How are you initiating interaction with the ladies? Are you just sending flirts? Are you messaging? Are you checking that you ACTUALLY fit the criteria the ladies are looking for? If you're sending flirts, I probably would just not bother. Flirts are lazy and many don't get returned. I attempt to return all messages (except the explicit creepy ones or ones that just say "hey, wanna fuck?") so go with messaging. When you message, ask a question that suggests you might think of the lady as more than just 2 or 3 holes (comment on something in their profile, compliment, what would you ask or say to a lady if you were to meet her in a bar?) Finally, can I just say... SMILE in your pics FFS!!! People look so much nicer when they smile!

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