RHP

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August 03 2009

Why do some couples whos profile say they are looking for single females only have photos of the female?  If i am interested in a couple I want to see a photo of Both of them, esp if they are both hetro. To me it is ridiculous and maybe even a bit sexist?

Comments

  • BriteLite

    BriteLite

    15 years ago

    I know we took our photos down because my partner did not like to see themselves naked. The thought of putting the photos up turned them on, but actually seeing the photos whenever we logged on was a turnoff. So.. I took down the photos... Not so much interest now, but now we both enjoy the site together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think I get where you are coming from llindy, Where does it say that your on line photos have to be R rated...lol. A simple face or body shot even clothed..lol is an honest start to even an on-line friendship. Nothing stopping you from sharing a few "action shots" later before you meet in the flesh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its funny you ask because I thought the same thing recently. I was curious about a MMF and after checking out the profiles I changed my mind. The photos of the couples are not shared 50/50 (M/F) and therefore begs the question. Unless ofcourse its the female on female experience thats driving the whole thing.  You've got a great body by the way!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I totally agree When we are looking for couples to meet so often it is just shots of the ladies - i love the ladies (mrssexycountrycpl) but i also love the guys. What are the guys afraid of?  show both parts of the couple and face photos.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Interesting post and we would think there are many, many different opinions that fit peoples reasons which also will have many differences. We put a pic up of her which is un identifiable for a few reasons: 1) we both work in public jobs and need to be carefull 2) we find that most guys in the couples do the searching and that the girl is brought in when some matches have been found. 3) there is about 1 hit on a guy profile to every 500 hits on a girl profile. This is what we found on our singles profile. It is more likely to be seen if a picture of the girl is up there 4) a lot of girls claim they are bi or curious and are looking for the lady, not the man..... I agree though that if as a girl you are looking for a couple there needs to be plenty of pics of the male. When we approach a single girl for us, we do give access to our PG which has equal male and female shots of us and not of the 6 inches of us. Looking forward to other peoples opinions!