RHP

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September 20 2012

Ok I just want to throw this out there   What draws the attention of a woman or couple to 1/ click on a profile to view it 2/ engage with either a flirt or message   I have clicked on quite a few profile's of late ( and no I'm not a stalker) to find that most of the guy's on the friends lists have there shirts off and flexing so hard they may need a dipper   Is this really what people are looking for as I would like to know incase I need to rip the gear off and oil up to increase my chance's of people wanting to meet me .   PS be kind in your replies as I hate the word ugly

Comments

  • razor2000

    razor2000

    12 years ago

    I reckon that about 80% of the fit and ripped guys in Aus must be on this site going from the photos you see on some profiles. I know a fair few guys, what with work and sport and there is nowhere near as many fine specimens amongst them as there is here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    til ya make it,is the motto of many here....but some fake profile photos amuse me greatly.I have a particular favourite..it is actually a photo of a young British comedian ,naked except for a posing pouch and lots of oil enhancing his extreme chubbiness... I am fascinated to know what happens when he meets women,I wonder if he wears a mask. Just be yourself,like me, today I am channelling my inner zebra. and er..perhaps rather than your photo , you might want to consider changing your profile name ,while it might reflect your state of being, it is sooo not original or intriguing...just my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The most attractive thing to me is a nice smile that reaches the eyes in a nice picture to draw me to their profile. When I say a nice picture, what I mean is something that doesn't have a lot of clutter or dirty dishes in the background. I know that may sound a little shallow, but I find that people who take a little pride in how they look a lot more attractive to approach and their profile picture reflects that. As for the profile, just something that says their approachable and open to just chatting, otherwise if they're after more than that it's just a waste of both of our time. So the profile does need to reflect that, if we were to strike up conversation, I wouldn't be wasting his time by not wanting anything more than a little chat and maybe a frolick in here (the forums). A sense of humour gets me without fail every time.   Put offs: a tage line that says "horny and in need of attention now"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hmmm, Well, we're not looking for singles guys, but, What attracts us to a profile is a "nice" pic. Then what we read is another important part of it. No need to go out there and be something you're not, as it's all about the person/s for us. The buff look maybe suits some, but not all..Not us! Enjoy your journey.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Make sure you have something worthwhile to show. If it's hiding a stomach chest area that's had its fair share of beer and a good feed without the effort of exercise stow it away. You may want to consider what us your best asset and make the most out of that. Plus as what's been said countless times before, you are up against tough competition from the very start. RHP.. not every one is doing it..but the ones that are do have a ball.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Substance is really what I enjoy the most..a man who can have a laugh and who realises that beauty is really only skin deep and tight hard bodies don't last for ever... even the fittest hottest bods get old and wrinkly :) As wiccan says a smile can take you a long way ... You have a great one OP.. make sure you use it often.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' til ya make it,is the motto of many here....but some fake profile photos amuse me greatly.I have a particular favourite..it is actually a photo of a young British comedian ,naked except for a posing pouch and lots of oil enhancing his extreme chubbiness... I am fascinated to know what happens when he meets women,I wonder if he wears a mask. Just be yourself,like me, today I am channelling my inner zebra. and er..perhaps rather than your photo , you might want to consider changing your profile name ,while it might reflect your state of being, it is sooo not original or intriguing...just my opinion. a horse that wants to be a zebra ..consider the amount of fakes on this site, for all we know you could actually be an asseeyore eeyore ... excuse the horse play, but i had to ass the question

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Pics of oiled up bod's and sucked in guts just dont do it for me.. Rather a nice face, personality and a guy who can make me laugh.... not perk...Spending that much time to prepare a pic ( theirs or downloaded ) with light shading etc. I think I'll just pass... NEXT....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    you actually are a zebra ~face palm~could have sworn your pic was a horse and the stripes were shadows from a blind. Why i thought that, i'm not sure. Moron

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I shal just have to ''bray'' for you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Coodie and Freya....many thanksthats the best laugh I've had all day!I needed that!We need more frivolity round these parts.Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! alittlehorny99:) Thanks for your Question in the Topic.. Hi! Hun.. I checked out your Profile just to make sure it wasn't just what your ID Conveyed..Unfortunately not ..It only compounded it..This is My Opinion only 1 You've shot your chances in the foot even before you Begin with your ID that word Horny ..You mentioned it again i n your Mood ..You could have said Flirty , anything but that .it would have tempered the view Women are getting of you .. 2.It's obvious you're a very active Male in your Interests..Your Mates Love it but you're not wanting sex with your Mates unless it's under Kinky stuff he!he! ....You need to show more of your sensual side Let a Woman know you'll share in an Intimate way not just fucking ..she's the Prop Cum Bucket..because that's how you come across.. 3To Top it Off! Man I think you ticked every frigin empty box Going for your Interests and your Fettishes..Well that's where you go ouch!! because you shot yourself in the Foot Big Time.. You can fix it up a Bit if you want.. 1 You have a nice Pic ..it shows you're open friendly smiling ..Good 1 Hun :) 2.Remove Horny.. Add a little more of what type of Women you seek so they can Relate to you.. 3.For Goodness sake just stick to a Precise shorter List of your Sexual Interests /Fettishes ..You'll be able to chat with People who are Interested in you at the time you start chatting 1-1 then mention what you like or would like to try .. In reply to your Question I enjoy a Ripped artistic Pic of a Guy but they also need to compose an Informative Profile about themselves showing Intelligence , Warped SOH ..just a Nice Guy I'd like to know more let the devil within him out to play..If the Guy doesn't have a six Pack I'm not going to kick him to the Kerb at all ..But I do suggest 1 they have a Pic.. 2 Make it something Pos; not show beer bellies as was Mentioned.. That's My Input Hun take it Improve on your Profile or not it's your Choice ..Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We like an attractive photo that tells a bit of a personal story, maybe at the beach, or outdoors, or in a spa. Not only naked body parts and nothing else, a cock or pussy shot just tells us that you one of 3,5 billion people; not very individual.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The first impression I get of a guy on this site is normally their name. I have given the profile of many guys a miss purely because of what they have called themselves. It seems a lot of guys have tickets on themselves and I don't know why, but the hotter they make themselves out to be by their name, the worse they seem to be in their photo or in person. If your name suggests your a d#$khead, you may well be. It's funny but if the guy has a humourous or even a normal sounding name, I will normally give them second look.   Kye (Female of couple)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi wican, You say the most attractive thing to you is a nice smile.   Ouch, I look like a grouch in my profile pic.   I'm changing it (or adding to it) with a photo of my Nice Smile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Serious guys, if you aren't brave enough to show us a face pic, how the fuck are going to be brave enough to get into our pants?? We are over these endless excuses with the how's and whys you can't get a pic up. We have so much more respect for men that put it all out there.