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profiles?
February 17 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why do you care what other people think about it, you're happily attached aren't you??
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RHP User
12 years ago
but it just makes me curious.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am confused. Why would they be shocked? Sure, they may not have read your prolife particulars carefully (some simply don't) but in the context regarding the implied intent of your profile, does being "attached" matter (to them or to you?) Do they want you all to themselves? (selfish buggers!) Share the love I say!
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RHP User
12 years ago
...the description more so than the form details. Your description doesn't mention your partner or the nature of the relationship you have with him/her (and not saying that it needs to), so for me there would be no reason to assume you had one. I'm not really interested in your Star Sign, restrictive Personality classification, and how much you drink or smoke isn't really a factor for me, so I almost never check the Lifestyle tab. My advice would be to at least add something to the line you already have like "I am not seeking a relationship - I already have one - but would like someone I could meet regularly."
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Twisted_Mister
12 years ago
Make much difference as you're a lady (and a hot one too BTW!). Try being a male with 'attached' on his profile - that thins the field out, I can tell you!
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I read "attached" I go eeeek A MESSY situation...not for me but others may want that and that's what they looking for...and that's OK. So I guess some people don't want to enter something that's messy...just my thoughts..but you and partner are ok seeing others...then what's others opinions got to do with that?? People LIE on here about their relationship status A LOT. Makes people weary I guess?? The do it because they can... Chin up OP..I wish you well-stay true to yourself dear one. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
you'll find many people here just look at the pics and then message/flirt directly from there instead of reading all the way through your profile. Others just read part of your profile before their urges get better of them and they bang off a message. I've had the same happen with my location as well as relationship status. I usually mention something about my wife in my first or second message just to make sure they haven't missed that part ;) I've had no negative reactions so far. Most people either say "oh, you're married, sorry for wasting your time" or are curious about the relationship and how we make it work. Very few dont care one way or the other and have stated this.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your looking for "another FWB or NSA" NO women wants to hear about your misses or partner...that's a turn off on its own.. Same goes for Ladies as well. Remove any wording of that on your profiles..Odds are your chances may increase.. Trying to help ya lot out here... :-) FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' When I read "attached" I go eeeek A MESSY situation...not for me but others may want that and that's what they looking for...and that's OK. So I guess some people don't want to enter something that's messy...just my thoughts..but you and partner are ok seeing others...then what's others opinions got to do with that?? People LIE on here about their relationship status A LOT. Makes people weary I guess?? The do it because they can... Chin up OP..I wish you well-stay true to yourself dear one. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile Well said foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
i can understand where everyone is coming from and its good to hear all points of views. my partner travels for work, so his not really home or in Victoria much. makes it hard. i think i'l update my profile, thanks for the great line neptune_drift.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Deviousbassman36' you'll find many people here just look at the pics and then message/flirt directly from there instead of reading all the way through your profile. Others just read part of your profile before their urges get better of them and they bang off a message. Same here, some guys like the pics and skip over the rest of the profile. Every day I get messages from (I'm sure fantastic) married men that are 5"7 and cannot spell to save their lives. Just enjoy the attention and give a polite "No thank You".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Twisted_Mister' Make much difference as you're a lady (and a hot one too BTW!). Try being a male with 'attached' on his profile - that thins the field out, I can tell you! Touché
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do read profiles, I can't speak for anyone else.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Statistics" are best left at work for me, I prefer to read the narrative to get to know who I'm looking at. It has had me barking up the wrong tree with girls who are looking for other girls, but they're usually friendly in correcting me. Very strange that someone who hasn't really gotten to know you is at all possessive or disapproving of your attached status...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bit like the profiles that say seeking men,women,couples,groups. Then when you read in there own words the people state in big letters NO SINGLE MEN mmm so why put in men for what you are seeking. some people read all the profile some skim the interesting bits and some just see the woman,couple or man
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RHP User
12 years ago
If what she wants is what I am looking for then all good.
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