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recognise a close friend

June 12 2013

I have recently been contacted on RHP by a friend of my son. He has expressed his bisexuality and desire to make contact with me. I have let hm know that I am not interested but he continues to pursue me. He does not know who i am and i do not intend to tell him, of course his secret is totally safe with me. I have told him on a number of occasions that i'm not interested and do not want to make contact with him. i do not want tio be rude to him but need to get him off my back. has anyone else had a similar experience, how did you deal with it?.

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RHP User

12 years ago

You have done enough. Block him and he'll never bother you again, nor find out who you are.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Well if he reads this he might put two and two together????

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RHP User

12 years ago

Don't you love a conundrum. If you see him on occasion, have a quiet word, easy... What Beneath_blueeyes said is a wake up call

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RHP User

12 years ago

Its easy, just block him and problem solved.

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RHP User

12 years ago

A while back I was contacted by someone local who didnt have a profile pic but called me by my real first name...... Just a Hi "****" how are you, you are back in town and would you like to get together.... Well of course I was more than a bit surprised they knew my name.... and I had no idea who he was.....THEN the clincher came that he was a friend of my ExHusbands......well the conversation came to a quick halt as I said I would not be going anywhere within that Circle again.......took him a couple of messages to back off... but luckily he did.... Gotta keep somethings separate I think....... as some things are too close to home

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RHP User

12 years ago

and forget.Don't worry about appearing rude, he is the one not respecting YOUR wishes OP.

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sweetgem

12 years ago

Otherwise the chance of him able to identify who you are on here is slim! So, I would say don't have a quiet word with him when you see him on occasion. That's just like playing with fire when you know it's gonna burn! Just block the guy and let it be. Of course if the guy knew you well in reality, and if he read this thread too, then sir, you would need a backup plan B and C! Good luck and hope nothing goes wrong for you.- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

As Beneath_blueeyes has said, if he reads the this, the cat is out of the bagTalk to him - make him feel comfortable with who he is and that he can trust you.

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Mischeviouslad

12 years ago

You've said 'no' Remember their username....save it for those friendly 'negotiations'...... should you ever need a favour lol DG- Posted from rhpmobile

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lookandsee12

12 years ago

Thanks for all the comments, i think I'll just ignore him then block him one day in the future. thank you Beneath_blueeyes i will need to be careful there, mischieviouslad, i like the way you think lol

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'lookandsee12' Thanks for all the comments, i think I'll just ignore him then block him one day in the future. thank you Beneath_blueeyes i will need to be careful there, mischieviouslad, i like the way you think lol Another Duh!If you block him now, then if he goes to view your page, he won't be able to see that you've commented on this post... get it??Although he could find out by going into the forums separately, it's a lot harder to work out...Why would you wait?

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