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scarring.
May 11 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
They are part of her. She has several but she's still gorgeous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Rara Hun scars don't make the girl. Personality makes the girl. Don't let your imperfections stop you Hun, they are what makes you you :-) Hugs roxxy
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
Love your scars, if you do, others will as well.they are a part of you..There was a funny scene in one of the Lethal Weapons movies with Rene Russo & Mel Gibson where they are bragging about their scars and how they got them.....funny and sexy!.I have a couple of big scars, one from 20 years ago and one from last year, anyone I have been with loves to run their fingers over them :).Buy some BioOil...fabulous for scarring !...have some fun rubbing it in
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RHP User
13 years ago
Three on my back in the last three years I look like Zoro and I crossed swords, and he won. Sometimes men ask me where I got that scar etc I tell em I got it in a knife fight back in my youth People really do not care at all, it just makes your body a little bit more interesting. I like to have the philosophy,that something that is unique is a beautiful thing Like the perfect cup in the Japanese tea ceremony can have a mark or chip or what ever, that makes it exquisite.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thankyou all for putting my mind at ease. I guess i just need to stop letting it hold me back.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Men don't see the things that we women see when we look at our bodies. They don't notice the flabby bits we think we have, and the same goes for scars. Pusscat xxx
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Insomnian
13 years ago
Lots of people have scars. Some from operations in their fight for life, some from car accidents, some from stupidity in there youth ( or adult life ) They come from all ways and places in life. Look at them as trophies. You got a scar, which means whatever it was, you survived it and are still here to tell the tale. There's never anything to be ashamed of with your own body, it's you, who you are. Love it and yourself and others will do the same
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RHP User
13 years ago
All those war wounds, scars, creases and folds make you who you are. They are your history :-) xx
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inspirit
13 years ago
at least they can see your scars on the outside...It's the ones on the inside that cause problems for most
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have one very obvious scar across my stomach. I've only had one guy ask me how I got it. Others have traced their fingers across it but not mentioned it. They don't stress about scarring unless you want to start comparing, then they think it's hilarious that a female could possibly have as many scars as they do. Don't think about the scarring, the guys won't. Love your body as it is and have fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my experience, men are too busy thinking "hooray, I'm getting some action" and as Pusscat says they don't notice the flabby bits or the imperfections. If they do notice the imperfections, often they remark that it's cute and what makes you unique.It's not the same thing as your scars, but it feels obvious to me as it's on my face. I have a crooked smile that I used to be self conscious about but men keep commenting that they love my cute crooked smile so I just go with it.Be confident and love your body, that's what men will notice. We all love confidence. And remember that everyone is looking for the same thing - connection, intimacy and acceptance. Your man will probably worry about what you think of his body too.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'at least they can see your scars on the outside...It's the ones on the inside that cause problems for most Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dont let your scars control who you are.. I think any person who would reject you because of that ' is not worth their salt..This is your life, do what you have to, and dont worry.... Jay
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uneventful
13 years ago
Scars are but a road map of your bodies life experiences...If they are of a major concern to you .. then you can obtain a product from the chemist that reduces the scars .. two products actually .. ONE .. is Bio oil ... constant rubbing a scar line with the oil .. helps reduce the intensity and viability of the scar .. .... TWO .. is a silicon pad .. available from the chemist .. wear it for 12 hours a day for 3-6 months .. makes the scar diminish by up to 90% ... both products work very well ... main difference is the pricing ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' Men don't see the things that we women see when we look at our bodies. They don't notice the flabby bits we think we have, and the same goes for scars. Pusscat xxx This is so true it's not funny... SO many women worry about all the little thing they see in the mirror. No matter what you think the guy who's with you (if he is a decent guy and no a prick) doesn't care about your self perceived imperfections... perfection is boring and clinical and requires photoshops 99.9% of the time. Just relax and let go for a whil. You'll feel better and give a decent guy a chance to show you how little he cares about the things your worried about...
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RHP User
13 years ago
... if anyone asks, just make up great stories. ;) If they don't have a sense of humour well pfttttt. Mind you, for some reason I am more fascinated with others' scars rather than the ones I have.Ah screw it, I actually find scars on guys a turn on
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' I love Jennylee's scars. They are part of her. She has several but she's still gorgeous. You would love Jennylee if she was bald, put her bra on back to front, totally missed with the lipstick and ran around in a garbage bag... I think the "you love Jennylee" says it all xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and how it got there is rather interesting. Good guys don't always loose....and since it's true, it makes a great story. I don't mind so it doesn't matter...most people have a few.
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jensta
13 years ago
I have Scars ... I don't like them ... but they are apart of me Except them ... Love them Most of all be Happy ... now that is SEXY ...
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playfulpirate
13 years ago
They are part of you and what makes your body unique. If you are really concerned just be upfront to remove the suprise factor. Good luck and have fun. I'm sure you look beautiful
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're a tiger who has earned her stripes, Rara! Keep your head held up high :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thankyou for all your beautiful comments. I am feeling much better about them. Now to let my guard down and go have some fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'newkee' Quoting 'jensman1903' I love Jennylee's scars. They are part of her. She has several but she's still gorgeous. You would love Jennylee if she was bald, put her bra on back to front, totally missed with the lipstick and ran around in a garbage bag... I think the "you love Jennylee" says it all xx You've just described our Christmas prior to last. (It was her pussy that was bald, not her head but I think you still get full marks).
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't really mind as long the girl is fun and is having a good time... the trick is to get your men distracted with some sexy stuff ;)scars? which scars? ...scar him with your nails.. haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had a breast reduction when I was 18; it was the best and worst decision of my life. Best because it gave me the confidence to be a person in my own right and not just a pair of FF cup breasts but worst because I developed keeiloid scarring. They are big and red and ugly and therefore I view my breasts as ugly.At the time (before surgery) my Dad said "my darling, you must do what you feel is right, but remember that 'Mr Inaddition' might not be the only man to see you naked, and though you think now that he's the love of your life, you are still young and you don't know who you'll meet tomorrow". That must've been hard for him to say! And he was right, albeit in a different way. Mr Inaddition is indeed the love of my life but now, he's not the only one to see me naked.Given how many men profess to be 'boob men', the fact that mine are very scarred and ugly is an issue for me so RaRa, I can identify with your hang ups. MrInaddition doesn't notice them any more but I do feel I need to explain it to potential playmates. In reality, its never been an issue for playmates and maybe that attests to the kind of people we choose to play with but it bothers me nonetheless. The creams and silicone gels do calm the scars down (Circa Care is the best, but expensive) but for me, they will never be little white lines.
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RHP User
13 years ago
All of my girlfriends, whom I have loved, have had scars. Two of those were quite visible even in everyday clothes, not just the swimsuit or in the bedroom. None of them liked their scars or how they got them but I was attracted to them for who they were. Some lines on the skin here and there wasn't going to change that. The kinds of men who are going to put down women because they have some scars are the kinds of men who will put down women for anything appearance-wise. They'll never be happy with their partners and more importantly they'll never make their partners happy with themselves. As proof that men often don't notice, two female fwbs mentioned they had scars from surgery. For one woman I only noticed them because she got a tattoo there and it drew my attention to it. The other woman and I played together time after time after time before I suddenly realised, "Oh, there they are!" We'd mostly been playing in the darkness and I'm not the most perceptive at the best of times. When I finally saw them it was kind of like that moment when you find Wally in a Where's Wally picture. I was just proud of my own powers of observation, late though they were, and got on with business!
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RHP User
13 years ago
its nice to know someone understands.... Its easy to say forget about them and relax but doing it is another thing. Mine are all to the tummy area i have one from under my breast line down to the bottom of my tummy. Another one right across the bottom of my tummy i have one on my left side from belly button accross. One on the right side above my belly botton accross. And another about 5cm above my left breast. All still really red and i have tried bio oil and creams but nothing has really changed. My friends tell me not to worry about anyone that really wants to be with you will love them. I guess i just need to trust someone and go with the flow.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I too have scars, we should discuss our scars sumtime mayb
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RHP User
13 years ago
Inbox me for more details if u like
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RHP User
13 years ago
a special and unique individual. Your scars tell the stroy of how you got to where you are now. Just think, the most sought after coins are those with slight imperfections. Love your body, and others will too
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jensta
13 years ago
People say to my ... I blow my own horn But if they knew my story they would say im an inspiration I too have had big surgeries ... Big Decisions that didn't turn out as planned Plastic surgeons do there best but are not magical I will not allow my scars to ... make me feel less beautiful they are just a track of my life journey ... So my advice to you Honey is visualise your Beauty ... be Sexy xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
i dont mind my scars, i like my scars - however, i hate my stretch marks... guess we all have things we don't like
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RHP User
12 years ago
more scars than Frankenstein :D
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