screening process looking for a Dom

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  Now go and remove all your pubic hair, purchase a pair of satin white panties. (but do not wear them yet)From now on while we find a fitting new name for you, call me Benedictine

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Hi as a dom I find sub's hard to find. So if a sub is keen to start with basic's then I am happy to help them and ensure there safely entered into this world.There are so much and many forms or types of this so...What you need to ask yourself is what you are looking for?What levels you'd like to start at or are comfortable with?Like any dating site take care in contacting and meeting.An always make sure you get out of it what you are after.Cheers Dave

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/BDSM-Getting-started-for-submissive-ladies-41017

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Nice one Mado   Thanks Meeka, I have read this thread. I was wondering if there were any other suggestions that anyone would like to add.

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  On_Safari

  11 years ago

  I think a good place to start would be enduring they're safe, sane and consensual. http://www.literotica.com/s/safe-sane-and-consensual. Bugger, I have a hi-TENS machine and I love love love it, never thought to use it during sex though? (Scratches head wondering how, must read more....)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  More like,Champagne Charlie

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  Shhhhhhh, I am in my zone.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I would recommend attending some munches and meeting some local people. I would also suggest trying to meet some Femdoms as they tend to look out for other women and, in my experience, are generous with their time and are happy to talk to newbies. If you were in Tasmania I could tell you exactly who to talk to and also let you know who to be wary of. If I was looking for a dom (never going to happen) I would be checking out their general communication skills first. Do they listen? Do they talk over the top of you? Are they respectful of the people around them? Once into the conversation about what you are looking for, how eager are they to say yes? (I'd proceed with caution) Do they try and get you to be more specific? (Good sign that they want to please you) Ask them about the use of a safe word. If they suggest a safe word is not necessary, run a mile! Ask them about the types of things they have done. You will get a sense of the level of their sadism through their answers. Why not message LoveCurvie, he seems like a nice bloke and he might give you some pointers. Good luck nibble me.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Here's another forum with some good posts:   http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Fifty-Shades-of-Caution-38580-Page4   I think it would be good to take some important info from these descriptions of what a Dom--Sub relationship should be like, and test any potential Dom. Like "How do see you the power balance between a Dom and a Sub?". Any man that does not answer that both have equal power, does not know what he's doing.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'm no expert on BDSM, and like my Dom to be Perignon and my Subs footlong.

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  chevtrek

  11 years ago

  Fet balls and forums might find you that Dom. As to finding the right one I can only say caution some abusive men think abuse is domination.

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