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sex appeal
May 04 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
...and typing skills. This thread will get legs about as hopelessly as the last one posted by you.. best of luck with the troll. Next question?
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Ask 10 people (men and women) to independently name their all time top 3 for sex appeal, and you'll likely get 30 names. Public profile obviously plays a large part, as does the role they play/played to hold that profile - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
And I assume a non-gay man is permitted to have an opinion in an open forum??! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
You comment is totally out of order. The Op has posted a valid and interesting question. It's his second thread and new posters bring freshness into the forums. People complain that new people find it daunting to post in here. Your comment certainly does not help their thinking. If a thread doesnt interest you, just move on as many of us do. Remember, you dont have to post on everything. Sorry OP. As you were........
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
For my way of thinking its the way they carry themselves. Enough confidence but not overbearing. A sense of humour that doesnt offend. He would be easy to be with and have consideration for our comfort abd make us feel at ease and our company appreciated. He would make us feel our view us important and make us his centre of attention. Have i left anything out?
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RHP User
9 years ago
One woman's sexy man is another woman's boring snoring. Some women go for the hot bod,others the man who makes 'em laugh,then there is the biggest dickus,the tall man,and so it goes on. What fascinates me ,is as Helen Fisher says.Why Him,Why Her?. Q..btw always an interesting subject OP . Don't take my notice of the nay sayers.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...that ''dick posts'' and OOL comments are just so precious. Read and if you disagree just absorb and move on. ''Why has the OP not responded to anyone in the two days this thread has been up? You'd think he'd want to set the record straight if the assumptions were incorrect.'' Wave the flag...lest we not forget, just don't do it for three hours as your arm will fall off! MC
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RHP User
9 years ago
As there are few dictionary's seems like you found a simple one try googling sex appeal I bet you should find a few different dictionary's terms on there?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' For my way of thinking its the way they carry themselves. Enough confidence but not overbearing. A sense of humour that doesnt offend. He would be easy to be with and have consideration for our comfort abd make us feel at ease and our company appreciated. He would make us feel our view us important and make us his centre of attention. Have i left anything out? and Annie I totally agree with your comments.
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RHP User
9 years ago
hmm sex appeal and how to define it. You can't really. What I find interesting is the focus on famous people when it comes up in discussion. Have you ever seen some of them before makeup? IMHO there are much sexier people right here on this website. Anyway, I'm out of the loop without a tv anyway, so all good. For me it's a combination of looks, body and confidence and when it comes to act of sex itself, slightly different opinion, the best body in the world won't necessarily make them the sexiest, some have it, some don't, and I've had both. There's sexy and there's mechanical. Sexiness comes from within definitely, with or without the other things that appeal, that inner sexiness has to be there
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sometimes. I do just pass you over. Actually quite often. But this time I feel the need to suggest sometimes you'd do better to hold your breath. For quite a while.
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Bazingal
9 years ago
and we're all attracted to different things.For me it's all sorts of things combined. Some have been covered above; someone's confidence, walk, voice, smile (love a cheeky smirk), humour. Others for me include: the glint in someone's eye, how they look at me, the raise of an eyebrow, their fragrance and overall how they carry themselves.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Titus Welliver Peter Dinklage Wayne Blair David Tennant Billy Connelly Eddie Izzard Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
usually excludes famous people. I prefer a man who is quietly self assured but moves like an animal. 🤓
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is a man with both social and emotional intelligence,someone who is a thinker but is light of heart. A man who wants to be with me,spend time with me,not always talking,sometimes just breathing. A man who doesn't need to spend every hour with me,a man who likes his own and other people's company. A man who enjoys sex,who drowns in kisses and whose smell intoxicates me. 😘Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
To answer your question,do you need to be attractive to have sex appeal yes I think you do..but you only need to be attractive to me 😘Q
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lovman8
9 years ago
Please won't somebody fuck me!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' I agree with you saying that sex appeal is a very vague term, as it's completely subjective, and different for everyone. Sex appeal isn't about looks for me, it's how someone walks, moves, talks, smiles, jokes, etc. For example: Nicole Kidman is beautiful, but does absolutely nothing for me. Amy Schumer, however... phoar! She can lick booze of my naked body any time. Yes, Summer, that's exactly my point sex appeal is very subjective but there must be an intra-subjective consenus as lots of women say the prince had sex appeal, that's what i dont get it! yeas he was a genius musician
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta1' Titus Welliver Peter Dinklage Wayne Blair David Tennant Billy Connelly Eddie Izzard Q lol, sorry Q i know only Billy Connelly in ur list, he is a fascinating character but sex appeal, that's exactly what i mean, i don't get it at all, that's why i addressed my q to female and gays! l P.S i remember years ago, Amanda VanStone, Immigration minister at the time describe John Howard as having sex appeal
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Softglove' Sometimes. I do just pass you over. Actually quite often. But this time I feel the need to suggest sometimes you'd do better to hold your breath. For quite a while. thanks softglove, just ignore him, one day he will grow up
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inspirit
9 years ago
💋😂💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
It can be the way his aroused cock sits as an outline in his pants. That works. He doesn't have to say a word.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
SUBJECTIVE. It simply works with some people... push the right buttons... smell right... touch enough but not tooo much... Some people make it hard... mixed messages... some do not. Why do we become friends woith some people and not others... it is the same thing... just magnified.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Bazingal' and we're all attracted to different things.For me it's all sorts of things combined. Some have been covered above; someone's confidence, walk, voice, smile (love a cheeky smirk), humour. Others for me include: the glint in someone's eye, how they look at me, the raise of an eyebrow, their fragrance and overall how they carry themselves. I couldn't have articulated it better. OP, good question. it is very subjective and really a combination of many attributes. It is not just about physical for me. I have met extremely fit men without a sense of humour or low IQ and/or EQ. That really disappoints me,. If I have to describe a man who exudes sex appeal, it would be George Clooney. Smart, sexy, fashionable, confident and extremely funny. Kudos to him for finding a gem in the wonderful smart beautiful Amal Clooney over a lot of the sexy bimbos he dated. Saying that, it would be impossible to find another George but I find many men who dont fall into the Clooney attractive. Their common denominator? Smart, confident, gentle, funny and somewhat fit (not obese).
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'MenageTroi' P.S i remember years ago, Amanda VanStone, Immigration minister at the time describe John Howard as having sex appeal Menage, I think you misheard or misread that. I am sure Amanda meant 'six appeals' to John Howard to stop being a racist arsehole.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I use to think its all about being attracted , which is true in most cases. But on more than 1 occasion I found myself with someone I initially looked at as not my type. ? I remember being on holidays a few years back and at the resort I was staying I meet one staff member who I seen most days and we became friendly. At first glance she was a definite not my type of female , or so I thought. After the mandatory hello's everyday . She and other staff members invited me to have a drink with them poolside. Now I dont know if it was the beer everyone was drinking , but all of a sudden we started to share eye contact and smiles. Some time later I caught her eye and motioned her to come back to my room. She did , and after that we spent the rest of my holiday together, and all of a sudden I thought she was the ants pants.. So now , I never say never.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
I suspect that even individuals may change their idea of what they think is sexy and sex appeal depending on the day or hour, and how they feel at that particular time, or even what another person may be wearing at that time. (One day someone could be sexy and the next day they may be wearing or looking slightly different and you maybe feeling slightly different) I have heard some people think Meat Loaf has sex appeal (does to me as I like eating meat loaf, but the singer ?). Then again maybe he can look sexy on stage with millions hanging out of his bank account, but how much sex appeal the next morning waking up next to him naked ???? Again, shifting goal posts I suspect :-)
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Kampalina
9 years ago
Sex Appeal = The Essence of You! It's our inner energy, burning desires within, what oozes through your skin and radiates, what highlights the senses of sight, sound, scent, touch and taste and yet teases your imagination of flirtatious possibilities.........its things that make you go ooooohhhhhhhhhhhh...... As we are all attracted to what attracts us personally, it is different from one person to another.....what one views as oozing sex appeal, invokes something completely different for the next person. The example of the legend of Prince is perfect...oooohhhh what his music does to me
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RHP User
9 years ago
everyone would be buying it. You either have it or you don't. Can sexiness be learned? Yes, if it is a particular behaviour but not the type that comes from confidence exuding from a person naturally. Each person has their own definition of sexiness. A cheeky smile, charisma, wit and sense of humour, deep sultry voice, intelligence. There are many forms of sexiness. OP how would you define sexiness in a woman? LG
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Forus1234
9 years ago
To us .... SEX Alluring Pretty Promiscuous Excitable Adorable Lovely In a nutshell!
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MadhattersCat
9 years ago
Prince had oodles of sex appeal. My best explanation of it would be think of Chrissie Amphlett, Not overtly attractive but i do not know one guy that doesn't think she had sex appeal. It must be an attractive attitude.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I realised that confidence is King. For everything. It was a bit of a "Eureka!" moment. I'm betting that sexiness is closely tied to self confidence.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Dear LG, thanks for q, i don't know where to start to describe sexiness of a woman, i believe mother nature or God has given women much more seductive advantages/tools to be seductive, it cld start with hair, eyes incl eye lashes n eye brows alterations, lips n lip sticks, facial make up, necklace, breasts incl wonder bra n breast alterations, decision how much of ur top u want to expose, dress or skirt, vpl, legs exposure, ankles, toes manicured..... To summarise it all women have some sexiness but we poor men just we r as we are, nothing that we can do except hair cut, shaving or growing facial hair, have muscles or be athletics, god must be female!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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soretongue
9 years ago
A number of the ladies that contribute to the forums have great sex appeal in the form of a sexy pose. Doesn't always have to be showing 'all the goods', sometimes a little mystery with some skin still showing works wonders as well 😍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'happy_fun' Prince had oodles of sex appeal. My best explanation of it would be think of Chrissie Amphlett, Not overtly attractive but i do not know one guy that doesn't think she had sex appeal. It must be an attractive attitude. Chrissie Amphlett I think was incredibly attractive and sexy beyond words. I would have done her in a hot second. She oozed sexiness, it was real and natural. But the attractive bit is obviously horses for courses, from me she gets the tick of approval
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's not about one physical look for me. I don't find unattractive alluring, my head gets turned by plain and working it regularly. In fact, I think about rubbing up against people all day long. 😅 This is why I am here!!! Obvious sex appeal is about making someone think about fucking you. Simple, or not??!! I thought about it, therefore they've got it. It's hopefully subtle but it's about planting a thought. So what does your intended 'sexee' like or want? That helps. You can 'peacock'- Make yourself the centre of attention. Loved or hated, the more looks your way, the more chances of drawing an interested crowd. Comedians are excellent examples and already being referenced. Smiley, naughty, in front of your face... Dress- accentuate your physical attributes. Well cut clothes, showing off the best bits. Low slung jeans on a man is a great example. It doesn't have to do anything but make you question if his belt is rubbing on his cock.... (The suit is overused). Obvious or subtle, again, helps to know your crowd. Makeup (for ladies) goes into the category, eyes, lips, cheeks... Can all give an illusion of arousal, or dog food... Best to use it carefully. Mannerisms- eye contact, smiling, good posture, cheeky (gentle) invasions of personal space- all good basics. They portray confidence whether you have it or not. If you can look into someone's eyes and make them think about how fantastic would be to screw you, then you need no one's help!!! It's a fine line between sex master and serial rapist... A lot of us regularly get it wrong. There's a purely physical and hygienic side of course. Basically, don't try to hide too much and get out there. If you're not a virgin then you got someone to think you were all that, right?! I really do believe we can 'turn it on' and 'turn it off'. I'm never confused about whether I'm flirting with someone, only if they're flirting with me. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I totally believe in pheromone scent. It lets everyone one know all the shit we are trying to hide. Out of shape, smoker, inbred, gout... Whatever....😅 We all have our own real smell, how do I put this without sounding too utterly strange.... I can find s small slice of heaven in the right armpit. Oh look, I nailed it! 😅😂🏃🙋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Kampalina' Sex Appeal = The Essence of You! It's our inner energy, burning desires within, what oozes through your skin and radiates, what highlights the senses of sight, sound, scent, touch and taste and yet teases your imagination of flirtatious possibilities.........its things that make you go ooooohhhhhhhhhhhh...... As we are all attracted to what attracts us personally, it is different from one person to another.....what one views as oozing sex appeal, invokes something completely different for the next person. The example of the legend of rePrince is perfect...oooohhhh what his music does to me So true re Prince - the artist formerly known as... he was a little man... but he exuded intelligence, energy, confidence... if I was a woman I would swoon also.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' ...I realised that confidence is King. For everything. It was a bit of a "Eureka!" moment. I'm betting that sexiness is closely tied to self confidence. 100%!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I consider myself a very confident man in my professional n personal life, but when it comes to sex appeal i'm not so sure, probably i'm too soft or a typical snag!! I guess women r very responsive to masculinity, uniforms, skills incl musicians, actors, performer, intelligence. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just my observation. You can walk along any street , go to any mall and accurately predict that about 1/3 of females will look and quickly look away . Another 1/3 will stick their nose up and snub you completely , and the final 1/3 will want to catch your eye , smile and be approachable. Not very good odds , I know. But then again , nature makes sure there's plenty left for everyone. I can't imagine winning the lot anyway , wtf would you do if you did ? which gets back to the good old fashion numbers game.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...and we are selling ourselves... identify strengths... promote them and disguise the weakness.... you mean I have some???
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madotara69
9 years ago
Quoting 'amos444' Just my observation. You can walk along any street , go to any mall and accurately predict that about 1/3 of females will look and quickly look away . Another 1/3 will stick their nose up and snub you completely , and the final 1/3 will want to catch your eye , smile and be approachable. Not very good odds , I know. But then again , nature makes sure there's plenty left for everyone. I can't imagine winning the lot anyway , wtf would you do if you did ? which gets back to the good old fashion numbers game. My Grandad use to tell me "the first third of your life, you think to look at everyone else the second third of your life, you think everyone is looking at you the third third of your life, you realise no one was really looking at anyone" Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I guess that sums it up
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madotara69
9 years ago
Doing the dishes when her hands are sore Fixing those things she wants fixed Giving her a massage when she shows stress Leave her sleep in and play with the kids untill she wakes then make a cup of tea and toast Tuck the kids in at night and listen to stories, "thinking happy thoughts.. 'hmmm, thinking, thinking, thinking of unicorns, rainbows, fairies and sparkles and rainbow unicorns with golden hearts and all the stars." Stoke a warm fire till later in the night and canoodle under the flickering lights Well that's what Tara reckons get's her all toey, and whatever she finds appealing when we're playing up with the other guys, smiles and eyes at least and a dirty mind (that grin), gets her appeal, all mischievous of the likes and that's a thing.
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RHP User
8 years ago
MidnightCruisin ! Really!?! So what if someone doesn't respond for a period of time.! It's likely, that OP actually has a life & doesn't wile away the hours & days trolling online . It's also likely that he is gainfully employed - making a useful contribution to Society which does mean he is away from here for periods of time. Your 'sniping, whining does little to hide an ignorant & sour core. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's is big difference between cocky confident and being completely comfortable in your own skin. A posture that shows you're comfortable (not eating popcorn on the lounge comfortable) will always shine through. It sounds conflicting but confidence with a little humble thrown in. It's someone's presence in a room. Eye contact, mannerisms, being yourself, being attentive, not fumbling around. Yes dressing nicely but again - being comfortable with what you're wearing. If you feel good in your duds it's much better than dressing to impress and feeling awkward. For me it's got to do with these things over appearance and looks any day.
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PurePeony
8 years ago
... tantalise and scintillate me with your droolsome sexiness! Hehehe! OK, now to focus on the topic! And just my opinion on some stuff you've said : Nope, I do not find Prince sexy at all, nosiree! And as far as I am concerned, one needs to be attractive to ooze sex appeal. "Attractive" though is very subjective because a man who is extremely attractive to me, might not be attractive to another. However, there are men who transverse this and are universally attractive and sexy to almost all women, eg. George Clooney. Sex appeal to me would mean a man who is taller, broad-shouldered, with masculine facial features. Absolutely no beards and moustache because I like a clean-shaven man. The man's style matters too because the metrosexual, effeminate look just doesn't work for me. I want a man to look like a man. And if there is a hint of ruggedness about him, oh my poor buckling knees!!! And there's the pheromones thang... some men just smell "right" and "very desirable" to me and I can almost imagine my pupils dilating with massive interest. LOL!!! Sex appeal is also about a man's carriage and gait. I have a very strong personality and I like my men even stronger because i refuse to be "tamed" by one of weaker mettle. (Yes, I kinda like it rough sometimes! :P ) Confidence, intelligence, articulate, a sort of worldly-wise je ne sais quoi, a sort of steadiness that announces, "nothing fazes me much because I can handle any adversity" and yet, a sensible kindness (no bleeding hearts), and one who doesn't go around charming all the women and mass-flirting. One who is capable of oiling the PR machine when there is a need to, but is a tad aloof, introverted and a deep thinker. Hmm... very alpha male! All said, the perfect man doesn't exist but once I find a man's character sexy, the physical aspects no longer matter as much, except for height... and ok, size of the cock. Hahaha! Love a man who wields a sizeable sword, not a mini dagger. Sorry... sometimes pussy fights for the soapbox. LOL!!! However, it doesn't quite work the other way round because empty vessels, no matter how awesome they look on the outside, are still empty vessels.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Doesn't necessarily agree... but finds other human thoughts fascinating...
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