RHP

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strap on fetish...

June 09 2015

My wifey has a "WANT" to fuck me up the ass with a strap-on...now, I'm not totally against the idea as I do enjoy a good rimming and/or finger up my bum as it heightens my wanting to fuck the living daylights outta her... thus far we haven't actually tried it but she sometimes sneaks up on me from behind and grabs me around the waist n starts thrusting like there's no tomorrow. At the time I just wriggle my way outta her grip n just laugh it off but when I look at her I can see the little devilish grin that she really wants to do this to me... I'm just wondering if any other couples who have tried this can share their experiences as I am not a bi curious male but am willing to give it a try.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    over to you 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This is also a fantasy of mine. I'd like to here what the straight Mr has to say. Are we asking for to much? Or can a straight Mr accomodate our request or not??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Bend over and take it like a man. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If anyone referred to me as their 'wifey', I'd want to fuck them up the ass as well.... Just sayin'....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Trust me Darlinks, take a deep breath and relax. It will only sting for a few.... Seconds. Trust me on that. *frantic Benny Hill winks*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    why would it make you bi? What a sexy woman knowing what she wants and open to say so.. Send her out way if you're not keen!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm not nervous about the idea... so far what I have experienced has been very enjoyable so I guess this is the next step ... I have no issue with letting wifey live out her fantasy (even at the expense of my virgin ass!!!) lol

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    Stuffed if I can understand it, maybe someone can explain it. If the man enjoys it I can see the point, but if the man is not sure, what pleasure can the woman get, certainly not physical pleasure as she would not be able to feel it as the strap=on is plastic. Is it emotional; or intellectual pleasure then, and what is it ?? Power, dominance ??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    is it bad that all I can think is I'd like to shove something up my ex husbands arse and it wouldn't be for his enjoyment! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Nezvanova, why would your wife refer to you as her wifey??? Is the word wifey soo demeaning to women? It certainly wasn't used in a derogatory way towards my wife. And also is it such a bad thing to have pet names between ourselves? If "MY" referral to "MY" wife isn't to your liking it leads me to believe that you have just passed judgement over me. Am I wrong for assuming this? Now the way I see it is: wifey is the equivalent to hubby. Tell me if I'm wrong for thinking this way please.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ageing_with_ grace maybe he was hitting that he wants to fuck you up the arse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    makes you gay... What do you make of women who like it? I know it's really common for people (especially men) to think up-the-bum=gay but it's simply not the case. There are gay men who don't like anything up the clacker as well you know. The fact is there are a LOT of nerve endings around that area and having them stimulated can feel fucking awesome. If you are fond of her playing with tongue and fingers around your arse, then you may just enjoy her giving you a good pegging. There's really only one way to find out. Just make sure she starts small, uses lots of lube and warms you up and goes very gently. You may surprise yourself by coming like a fire-hose As to why women like donning the strap on? It's a psychological thrill to have that feeling of fucking someone. You guys know you like it, so do many women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Use some vibes and dildos in your play first,with wifey( I think that term is sweet) or solo. I wouldnt be going from a finger in your butt to a strap on.need to build up to it.So that you enjoy it as much as her. You can buy a good strappon halter that you can buy different sized dildo dicks that fit into it. So you could start small and always buy a larger size if you wanted. Have fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do it! It's fantastic!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    And be grateful, most women use a lawyer. 😝

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Most women collapse in a heap after 30 seconds when their abs give out. (Ok except Meeka)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It wasn't a judgement it was a suck up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ....once you've been strapped, you'll never go back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A little strap on action can be extremely pleasurable. As Keepitsimple said - start small, lots of lube and be gentle. Once you're comfortable, orgasms during this can be pretty intense. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Single_Guy4U

    Single_Guy4U

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' makes you gay... What do you make of women who like it? I know it's really common for people (especially men) to think up-the-bum=gay but it's simply not the case. There are gay men who don't like anything up the clacker as well you know. The fact is there are a LOT of nerve endings around that area and having them stimulated can feel fucking awesome. If you are fond of her playing with tongue and fingers around your arse, then you may just enjoy her giving you a good pegging. There's really only one way to find out. Just make sure she starts small, uses lots of lube and warms you up and goes very gently. You may surprise yourself by coming like a fire-hose As to why women like donning the strap on? It's a psychological thrill to have that feeling of fucking someone. You guys know you like it, so do many women. Us guys (me anyway) like to fuck someone (woman) because I was born with a penis (that is what it is made for), and I really like woman. If I was born with a pussy I would most likely love to be fucked by someone (i.e. a man). Natural physics. I "fuck" someone (woman) for mutual physical and emotional pleasure. Still don't understand how you get mutual pleasure with a strap-on if the guy is not sure ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    from the female perspective I'd say it was a role reversal thing. So psychological pleasure. From the male perspective I'd say that if you believe you can give physical pleasure to a woman anally why shouldn't you get the same physical pleasure? The question is, can you accept the passive, submissive role of receiving? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Is it emotional; or intellectual pleasure then, and what is it ?? Power, dominance ?? Power and dominance, the questions.. where would such things fit into the crazy world of sex. Guess the question is has the wife maybe an eagerness to return a favor. Who knows. You are kidding of course that you do not understand what pleasure a woman gets out of it. I wonder have you ever used a toy on a lady friend, where was the pleasure for you if you have???? No need to answer please. OP.But be warned a strap-on one day can be a desire for hot hard cock another. if that is a fear than i feel sorry for both the OP and His wife. But that path is already started, the pinky did that. And the desire for cock does not have to be acted upon does it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ive done it once or twice, very enjoyable. She did it mostly for me as I enjoy it, if I were you I would be great full she is into it too, it would be so much better that way! LUBE, don't underestimate it, and yes work up to it. Enjoy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I enjoy it from time to time the hardest thing is finding a lady that enjoys doing it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Us guys (me anyway) like to fuck someone (woman) because I was born with a penis (that is what it is made for), and I really like woman. If I was born with a pussy I would most likely love to be fucked by someone (i.e. a man). Natural physics. I "fuck" someone (woman) for mutual physical and emotional pleasure. Still don't understand how you get mutual pleasure with a strap-on if the guy is not sure ? Who said anything about enjoying it "if the guy is not sure"? I explained the feelings that can be experienced by anyone enjoying arse play and then attempted to explain (although Mrs Tri did it better above) the psychological thrill women can get from donning a strap-on. Not once did I mention enjoying it if the man is reluctant!?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' Most women collapse in a heap after 30 seconds when their abs give out. (Ok except Meeka) I'm not as regular a pegger as Meeks maybe, but I last a good deal longer than 30 seconds thank you! Don't get me wrong, I feel it the next day, but all the kettlebell swings I do have me in great shape for all that thrusting...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If an ab workout is a prob, they can just climb on top of Peggy and go for gold.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Anal play doesnt always lead to wanting a real dick in there. I know very straight guys who just like straping and dildos and have never felt the desire for the real deal. Some do, but its not a generalisation I have seen it occasionally progressing to experimenting but not in general. My Ex loved it with me, but I couldnt even get him to watch gay porn with me, he would go from hot and hard to instant deflation. Didnt turn him on at all... Not that I didnt try to persuade him to indulge with a mmf.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The last time I used my Strapon was probably a year ago I suppose. I maybe a Strapon aficionado but I don't really use it much. It's more of a party trick. And yes it is super hard work. Prefer if a guy does me cowboy style while I lie back and enjoy the view. And if you can manage to spirt your come in my mouth and not my eye that's a bonus. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You should know this by now - there's no such thing as bad publicity ! Go for gold.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Fucking love it, one of my favorite things to do.... Relax and enjoy.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Settle down woman!! Youre drooling a little bit. Oh,its ok. Its just precum from your strappon. Carry on 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' You should know this by now - there's no such thing as bad publicity ! Go for gold. Yep. Well you know me. I am a three toilet roll kinda gal.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Nice cock honey..... Now if I had have know that's what you were hiding under your skirt, I would have bent over for you many times.....😜

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    My lovely, yours and mine.....Together we could be dangerous lol, dripping cocks everywhere pmsl....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Just do it. nothing better in the bedroom & it won't make you bi.

  • m3bmw

    m3bmw

    9 years ago

    My partner wants to do the same to me, she has even bought a strap on. Im willing to "take one for the team" as she fulfills my fantasies and I hers. I figure if plenty of guys pay good looking girls to peg them, and I can get it for free, why not?

  • Dex1473

    Dex1473

    9 years ago

    Mrs Dex has done it to me and it's awesome, she found it a really big turn on which was a surprise to her as well.

  • loveorall

    loveorall

    9 years ago

    I've wanted to find a lady who'd do this to me now for ages. Always had the fantasy of a lady in lingerie surprising me with it or blindfolding n handcuffing me letting her do anything with me that she wanted to. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Angel started my anal experience with a little vibrating egg,, and now reguarly dons the strap on,, for me personally I am addicted and when done right no penile touch needed to explode,,, and sometimes you just dont want to come, just go on and on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Seems all the fun is outside of Newcastle, or at least people are keeping their cards very close to their chest..Love being taken by a woman with a strap on when she is into it..but then, being Bi, I guess, it is simply an extension of the having an open mind..but damn, it does feel good. Go for it, you wont regret it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I tried a strap on with my g/f about a year ago and was surprised by how pleasurable it was- both the psychological role reversal thing and also the physical sensations. I prefer being the fucker rather than the fucky most of the time but its a thrill to change things up now and again and it really drives my girl nuts-and having a crazy horny girlfriend is always a good thing :) In my experience most of the people who are negative towards ass play either have no personal experience with the subject or are unable to separate anal play from homosexuality-Their loss really.So IMHO have a drink, lots of foreplay then lots of lube and see what you think-the worse that can happen is you dont enjoy it and at least then youv'e learned something.

  • Steven987

    Steven987

    9 years ago

    depends on the size of the strap on - Posted from rhpmobile

  • StuntNuts

    StuntNuts

    9 years ago

    If you are interested in knowing more before making the decision to try it, I would highly recommend watching Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men. It is quite educational and played a huge part in removing my own personal stigma regarding prostate stimulation. You may find that it is not your thing but there is only really one way to find out. If done right, once you have had the experience of coming from P-Spot stimulation you may find that even the thought of it gets you going. PS. If you having trouble finding it try doing a search for Strap On Master Class I would post a link but I know that the moderators doesn't like us doing that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Thats soooooooo funny,,,need a hand??? Judd

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    This has nothing at all to do with being bi curious mate, it is a straight activity all the way. And what is good for the goose is good for the gander, so if your partner is willing to let you go there, I think you kind of owe her the same respect. Above all be secure in your sexuality, you are not doing it with a guy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    9 years ago

    Gone are the days when men were men.Well at least there will be a happy navy.Gee if I was still in the army I would have to worry more about being attacked at the rear. Tongue in cheek-------

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Has she busted your cherry yet?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think Strap ons or vibrators are for both sexes. It's called a prostate gland....:) Try it....maybe you will enjoy it.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Seriously...It's amazing. I have cum over and over in the past, and if you have someone that actually wants to do it to you, then you are a lucky bastard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mate bend over or get on all fours and let her have her way!! You wont look back you'll love it...I do!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There is nothing better than a good fuck with a hard cock or hard strapon, (strapless feeldoe even better). It's like running a marathon...you guys need to get in training & loosen up that sphincter first. Then lay back & take as much as you can. Almost the best feeling ever. Cheers, B.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    but explain how a single male profile has a wife ?? RelationshipAsk MePersonalityAsk MeStar SignAriesDrinkingAsk MeSmokingAsk Me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Don't die wondering, give it s crack , who knows you may become addicted ..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have been talking about it with my hot lady friend. I would love to see her reaction as she takes my ass hoping she will feel the power and control. Plus it will be a chance for her and me to get the other perspective. I will see what she normally sees and she will see what i get to see. Time will tell i guess, fingers crossed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You will never never know if you never never try.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Definetly worth the try, if you have thought about the idea it's only a matter of time before you take it. We use the strap on every now and then, it's taken our sexual sex to a different level. Go for it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • seaadventure

    seaadventure

    9 years ago

    not gay and always love sliding various objects in and out its better with a partner but my last thought i was strange. But when you guide it in yourself its easy to find the best spot. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I think I would love it, not because I'm going to turn gay or anything. Butt because my partner would like to. It's not demeaning or such. Try it and if you like it try it again. Your wifey won't think any less of you, in fact she will probably love you more for catering to her wants. Remember the first time you fucked her in the ass? Just saying!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Your wife sounds a lot like me lol I have the same desire and am always teasing my husband - dry humping him from behind at every opportunity. I cant help it - he just has the sexiest most irresistible arse! Sadly for me, he is not amenable to the idea or being fucked up the arse with my strap-on though. I have fulfilled my strap-on fantasy with a previous male lover who was very much into it. I found it very exciting and a huge turn on - both mentally and physically. I took him on the dining table the first time - him laying on his back and me standing... later in bed on his knees from behind....lots of positions to experiment with! Lol I also had him kneel down and suck my 'cock' which was strangely erotic even though I obviously couldn't feel it as such. It certainly looked hot watching him do it! The fact he was so turned on and derived so much pleasure from the whole experience was ultimately a large part of the pleasure and satisfaction for me. Dont do anything you don't feel comfortable with but if you do decide indulge your wife's fantasy, take it slow, use plenty of lube and perhaps start with a very small strap-on attatchment!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My preference is strap on try it you will enjoy the feeling of finger is heightened tenfold.Let your wifey fuck your love hole it will open up your world.

  • diamonds123

    diamonds123

    9 years ago

    I have been fucked by a playmate, she wanted too and I was up for it. She was gentle at first, I can recommend! Just wait til she ties you up on your back, fucks you while also playing with your cock... OMG! Lol any volunteers to do it to me again.. 😇 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Ive always loved a bit of arse play. I remember shoving a finger up there for the first time whilst wanking. My wife would use a vibrator on me and it was amazing. Nothing could have prepared me for what was still to come. I met a girl who was very confident in bed. I loved to fuck her i couldnt keep my hands off of her. She said to me that this was her fantasy. When she slid that strap on into me i went nuts. I could get enough. I begged to be fucked harder. I wanted to be called dirty names and have my hair pulled while her thighs slapped up against my arse pumping that dildo into me. She came multiple times getting off on so many levels. I am bi curious but for me this was more about getting taken by her. My current girlfriend just isnt into it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You've already been married and now have a girlfriend at 18? Wow, you move fast! You might want to have a look at your age, as you won't come up in too many searches I suspect. Most women here (on the forums anyway) aren't looking for guys your age.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have made a mistake on my profile. I am 43. Thanks for the tip.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sexuality is the equivalent of an adults playground. So make up games and use the "equipment" at hand😋. If you don't like the game, say stop, change the rules or play a different game. Butt🤗 If I was a man, I would like to give every game a go at least twice; and ride on allllll the playground equipment 😈 Have fun!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • BiPlay69

    BiPlay69

    9 years ago

    Set the mood, take it easy, make sure you get a good quality strap-on and give it a try.Can be fun if your wife invited another woman into the mix, to change the dynamic and shake things up a bit, if she was into that.Otherwise, don't rush and you may be surprised how good it feels.Personally, I love it, but finding ladies who are into it up here is never an easy thing..Good luck

  • OzRednecks

    OzRednecks

    9 years ago

    My man loves it when I use a strap on. It doesn't happen all the time, just when the mood is right. My advice: play lots before hand. Use plenty of lube. Choose a size that you would be comfortable with for the first time (you can always go bigger later) Advise her immediately if you need her to stop or slow down or just stay still whilst fucking you. She won't know if you are tight or clenching, unlike you guys, your cocks feel every muscle. Relax and make sure you both enjoy the experience. You will be begging for more. Hmmmm... I think I might go and get mine now and bend over my hubby ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I heard it hurts at first but sounds like such a hot idea. Definitely on my wishlist :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Love to experience this. Just havent found the right couple... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Id say play first, the finger feels good? Then try a small butt plug, after that a bigger one, then slowly move onto a strap on.. it may take a while, but my hubby LOVES it now... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Start out small and work your way up. Plenty of lube. My ex loved it and yes it was a bit of a turn on for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was the same as you. Mrs phoenixlove was wanting to try and I resisted One day I gave in and OMG we have not looked back. The orgasms I have from pegging are amazing. I occasionally come to bed and mrs phoenixlove is wearing her strap on. It's a huge turn on. Just let your male anal guard down you won't regret it.

  • Dex1473

    Dex1473

    8 years ago

    Mrs Dex has to be in the mood for it but love it when she is as its awesome.

  • technologic

    technologic

    8 years ago

    What really turns me on when I peg my man is watching the intense expressions of lust & arousal that crosses his face. In my observations, his enjoyment of it is very 'feminine', the rarity of this sight and contrast (to his masculinity) is extremely arousing to me. I suppose it is just like how a man finds it erotic to see a woman's 'just-got-out-of-bed' hair for the first time or seeing her only in your work shirt... But then again, I also think I might have been a gay man in my past life ... ;-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well I love getting pegged. Go gurls!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Would love to try this atleast once! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile