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RHP

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swapping roles?

May 04 2016

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Hi :)I love being dominant and telling a woman what to do, what she can and can't, but i also love the idea of being totally submissive to a confident woman who will be totally uninhibited in what she wants/demands :)curious if people like to be one or the other, or are only dom or sub ?:))

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sub all the way here

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  • langton11

    langton11

    9 years ago

    But for me, if I'm going sub, I like the partner to be very dom

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    until I put on my strapon. Then, he'd better be on his hands and knees before me 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    I'm a Man. And not a small one. I lead with my masculinity and physicality. That can inspire the women I've been with to want to express themselves just as physically. And sometimes it's nice to allow them to do that. And it's for the benefit of us both. Mix it up 😄

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes I find allot of males are switch , not so much for females But there is still females that switch form Sub to Dom Or Dom to Sub There is a lot of people who like to be both , I am fully sub but been thinking I really should learn to be more Dom as a lot of guys have the fantasy of being Dom by a chick But to think about it ,i doubt I could

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    yeah always thought i was a switch , till i tried to domme - sub though and though here lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Between rolls like I've know some switches are only Dom or domme to one sex and the completely sub to the other sex I am a full sub to both sexes

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Usually just go about the usual things and have a good time. But Im slowly starting to get this sub /dom thing. I suppose if anything I'm dom because it seems I just follow my instincts and take the lead most times. . But I'm putting it out there and on my bucket list today. Here pussy pussy...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am generally sub. Every now and then a playmate comes along that brings out my Feminine Dom Personality. That can be fun too ;) Xx L - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Haven't the slightest clue. I just enjoy sex for what it is and don't label which partner is what. I couldn't tell you if I'm sub, dom, switch or whatever. Labels just confuse me and box me in. I enjoy it for what it is.

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  • merkinjerk

    merkinjerk

    9 years ago

    I like to mix ... start dom and then go limp and let my partner take over for a while .... then be dom again...

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  • MadhattersCat

    MadhattersCat

    9 years ago

    Is there a role these days ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have been able to play the part of a Dom with two women , absolutely could not get enough of it , one of the ladies was a switch and unfortunately for me I either was not conifident enough or just not submissive enough to enjoy. Her dominate side was very strong and was her preferred role. I am hardly an expert on the subject but for me I could not go to the submissive side. If any ladies wish to continue my lessons in domination. Please say hello as it so erotic for me and I really miss it. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    MRS is sub all the way which means i am dom with her. But i also love a girl who can be dom and make me sub, nothing better than a girl who knows what she wants and how to get it 😉. So for me i mix it up but for MRS she is always sub. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Love the power in submission ... I never submit for another woman and it takes a special man to make me switch :) As a Domme, it's all about his/her sensual pleasure! I love strap on play, sensual flogging, electro play, bondage etc! Mostly, it's about making my playmate submit mind and body, so that I can take them to a sexual highs ! Mary xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I can switch from Dom to sub, or from sub to Dom. Which one I prefer depends on the type of day I'm having and my mood at the time.

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  • clarky1976

    clarky1976

    9 years ago

    Im very controlling when it comes to sex I have tried letting the woman to take control but it just doesn't do it for me I have to be in control before I will cum. And I have found most chicks love to be thrown on the bed and be dominated

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  • max_harlow

    max_harlow

    9 years ago

    Yeah both for me here. Depends on my partner entirely, but very subtle not delved into the whole whips and chains malarkey yet.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Rumour has it that the subs are the ones that are really in control , its a mental space more so than physical. Whips, chains etc are merely props in the game. Subs are getting what they want, so are they really topping from the bottom? Doms/Dommes are getting the feeling of power that floats their boats Win win

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You are right !!! A sub is in really in control at the end of the day! that's why there are safe words and sort and hard limits

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