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June 30 2009
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playfulminx
15 years ago
If anything, I wonder where the full swingers are these days lol I think you'll find that a lot of couples don't actually swap sex at all. Certainly there seems to be more than when we first started out which suggests to me that there's more openness to the lifestyle in general and acceptance that you can play in oh so many different ways. We often have to ask if a couple swaps these days and certainly don't assume it. If you're getting messages from full swinging couples maybe you should get your profile written properly so it says that you are into soft swinging. The template isn't going to do you any favours.
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RHP User
15 years ago
that your profile isn't doing you any favours. It's not clear that you are not looking for full swap. There are couples on RHP that are looking for similar things to yourselves. I'm sure that starting this thread will help you find some of them and that updating your profile will also make a big difference :-) Cheers MrsPeachy
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would rather be in a 3some/4some / moresome than to pair off and so call.. "swing". How boring! Anyway we dont swing so there are 2 couples in RHP that are NOT looking to full swing...this is not to say I wont sit back and let the other guy/s fuck Venus while I watch....thats ok to..and I would likely join in when the time was right. Mars
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RHP User
15 years ago
over the years we have changed what we want, spa's, wine, friends nudism.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We think the only way is to ask at the very begining before meeting but even then the answers may not be entirely honest. Full swaps are fun, we like the idea of four way oral (but no bi stuff) doggie style with the guys swapping and some pairing off. Dissapointments we find happen all too often when guys just want to watch, cant get a erection or its all over really before it starts. The ladies take it personal and then have thoughts....like this playing does not work very often....not good! We have now made it clear in our profile...hopeing more compatable couples will result.
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RHP User
15 years ago
ummmm nope! We dont do full swing anymore.....but it states very clearly in our profile what we're after :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have never done full swap.not even oral.Prefer the female to female play.The thought of another guy touching me??????????No thank you.There has to be feelings involved before i Would even think about a guy touching me,Females love their touch.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Interesting views from all, however, as 'newcomers' we are still at the soft swinging stage as it were. We have enjoyed the sensual and erotic massages, flirting, and intimate touching, even to the point of having sex with a couple we have been friends with for many years. So far we have not progressed to full swapping with people outside of our immediate circle of friends (something we are trying to gently slide into ). What do we consider to be soft swinging? To us it s being able to enjoy all the things associated with a healthy sexual relationship without the actual sex being an expected outcome. Hope that all makes sense!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are here for lots of sexy FUN NEVER wanted full swap (swinging) but have found lots of "sexy fun" on here of one type or another. We have been to clubs again still no full swap. We find that more and more as others have said it is in fact less common than we first thought. We have found a few "full swap" couples have been really abrupt when we have said we are not into it! which is a little disappointing BUUUUUUT yes before we get slammed for that comment, there is no doubt there are are rude people everywhere! Boys dont start us on rude boys ........... We have great fun playing with some single girly friends ..... found through here and some of the clubs. Which is our "thing"! "fun" Don't ever get discouraged it took us sometime to find what we wanted but as they say "when it rains it pours" so we now have several "friends" who we have great fun with! Keep searching!!! Its just around the corner..................
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bluelight_taxi
15 years ago
Personally I have experienced several meets with couples who just want to enjoy foreplay and oral only adventures. Where the Lady is the centre of attention. Eventually once a good bond and friendship has formed then these couples have moved to full 3'some sexual adventures. As Adults we know what we want and should be up front with our sexual preferences which eliminates a lot of guess work,etc.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sharin is Caring!! We have played in most senerios. It really depends on the people your with at the time.You need to have good open communication with the people your playing with as to what you all like or dislike. Personally we enjoy 4 or 3somes...more hands on the better :P... We have found alot not into full swap but thats ok too....its about the sexual experience, having fun and the pleasure of seeing your partner pleasured, this is why we choose to only have same room sex. Its even better if you can share the whole experience with a couple/woman and be great friends outside the bedroom too. Grav n Leelee xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
She feels the same...girl / girl playing....not on your life. He feels the same ....boy / boy .....no way. Both the above is not going happen and think we have worded our profile that way. We both enjoy the opposite sex to much!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Pete babe " bluelight_taxi" Good to see you joining in,lol As Peter said, we were a little cautious at first so we playedwithout full swinging until we we sure we had met the right couples or guy. Boy were we unindated with wasters, not only from the single guys but other couples as well. Just as Paul and I were about to call it quits we met Peter, gsoh, reliable and a really nice guy,stop laughing Pete.Yes I'm grovelling for our next meet. I'll be home to WA very soon Paul will phone you. Ciao Erin
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RHP User
15 years ago
We're interested in full swap....with the right people of course. It’s only a personal preference, but the rest doesn't really interest us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Couldn't actually say as far as other couples are concerned as we aren't looking for other couples at all. We only seek bi fems for 3somes or bi subs, singles only at that. Never had any luck on this site whatsoever as far as meeting people so dont know if anyone actually gets up to anything anyway
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RHP User
15 years ago
We're into full-swap, we've tried other varieties to make sure we're trying everything that is out there, but sadly after the non-fullswap plays, we are both left feeling a lil disappointed and unsatisfied. But I understand how that would get many others off and each to their own. I (mrs) personally love watching Mr fuck other chickys and I love him watching me getting fucked by another guy. A part of me loving to watch him at work is because I know how good he is and I know exactly how good it feels, so seeing another woman getting the same as I do, is just a major turn on. :) God I love free-for-alls ;) Mrsf xxx
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funcoupleyay
15 years ago
We are the same. We've gone to swinger's parties here in Melbourne for close to 2 years, but we've just been a soft swap couple. She loves getting the attention of lots of ppl (especially girls). We're progressing to the stage where she wants to watch me fuck another girl, but she won't let another guy fuck her. She is all for boys or girls touching her for foreplay, and will do a lot with another girl. She just doesn't want another cock near her.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We love doing full swaps - but are happy to do other things- but that is our thing. We are often reluctant to get involved with couples who are not interested in full swaps because in our experience - and this is just our experience so don't shot me - but we have found couples who are not interested in full swaps often waste our time or are more then happy for the male of their couple to fuck me (mrs sexycountrycpl) but not the other way round. That said I am not too keen to give oral sex to other men other then mr sexcountrycpl because I find that very personal - more personal then sex but yet I am happy for other men to give me oral. Everyone has their own tastes and thanks god for the internet allowing us to find those that match our tastes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
182eissej love any cpl in melbourne into 3sums ,,,always looking for a fun experience bi is ok ,,let me know if anyone interested in inviting me ..west side melbourne.mmmmmmm
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is hard to know where to start and how to set your boundaries, especially when you are new to this. My wife and I are very interested in spicing up our sex life and she is definitely the kind to meet first before anything happens. In saying that, just the thrill of the "flirt" etc is all it takes. Haven't had any luck on this site yet - although still waiting for RHP to update our profile to reflect couples not single male. Time will tell and I am sure that the "perfect" couple are there somewhere to enjoy any experience, even just fun night outs! It's always interesting to be able to speak to others about sex etc without any weird looks or expectations. Good luck.
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RHP User
15 years ago
NO your are not alone, read our profile its self expanatory anne & tony
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RHP User
15 years ago
oh..we are newbies and soooo naive. We hadn't even thought about how far we would go etc etc in our first encounter. When it happened, I (the female), went full swing...and enjoyed it immensely. Unfortunately we had'nt discussed just how far we would be going and for my husband, that first encounter was waaaaaaay to much. We have mutually decided since then, to soft swing only. We haven't met with any resistence from other couples by adopting this approach, in fact all the people we have met have been wonderful, sensitive and totally understanding. I think, at the end of the day, swinging is for us, about people...not just the sex...there will be those we will feel completely comfortable with having full sex with...and others only soft...and of course, it depends on where u are at as a couple, lots of different affecting factors and communication the most important ingredient to getting the balance right.
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RHP User
15 years ago
wow have been knocking back offer after offer ,,,NOT ...now i can see why ,,people are way to fussy, i think they best go on perfect match .They have meens way above expectations we are all human looking for a little extra spice ,we treat people as we find them as long as there clean , groomed,and look after themselves we never knock back at least a coffee chat ect.Giv everyone a go then you might find it not that hard to accept the unlikely...Cant judge the book by the cover...
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RHP User
15 years ago
after reading most of the comments I think Im now more confused then ever. We have been looking for a single gal to satisfy a desire I (mrs) have of full female/female play while mr joins in but only fucks me while I lather attention on other female. Mr can also give oral but no fucking her unless with toys etc. I didnt think it would be so hard to find someone. I can easily find other couples who want the full swap but neither of us are comfortable with this. I dont want another cock and I dont want mr fucking someone else. Am I jealous NO just playing safe. Am I right in protecting what we have and not allowing anyone to enjoy what we class as our relationship. What we do with another female is playing not a relationship. Am I reading this all wrong? the way I see it is that I enjoy female touch and oral and I would return but mr would not be touching her with his cock yes she can give him oral but she doesnt get any cock from him. makes sense? so if you know anyone who might fit the bill of what we are looking for then let me know.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Being new to all this, we had a similar conversation last night. I (female) thought at first that swinging was to do the full swap and I was a little put off by that, however after we discussed what our limits were etc, and then reading this post, it would seem that what we discussed last night was soft swinging. I like that idea :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your not alone, I'm bi and girls are welcome as I get off on it all. We usually end up in threesomes with chicks. I'm a bit sub, he's a bit dom. Other guys can be there and be involved with other chicks (gang bangs)but not put their cock in me if you get my drift. LOL. I love watching gang bangs and sort of get involved in touching and helping with the chick. Mr hasn't shared me and isn't that interested.
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RHP User
15 years ago
maybe its time a soft swing only venue was opened, we would definetly be interested in going, and socialising with other couples and singles that enjoy, voyourism, same partner sex, same room sex with other couples or group, but no physical contact from other couples.i really think this type of club is well over due, basicaly a pub/club where you can get felt up or more in public, with out fear of being kicked out or arrested .
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RHP User
15 years ago
Funny how the couple's are saying it's ok for a woman to be with woman but not ok for guy to be with her, not getting near me with that cock. Only my husband can do that. Dissapointing to see so many closed eye's. sex with another female is just the same as being with a man, it's sex. If you are into full swap, you ask and if your only into soft you ask. But be real if the wife is the only one to play then just ask for females and stop asking couples along for the ride. It is so annoying. Swing or don't swing. Be the judge for your self.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are looking for another straight couple to hard swap with. I enjoy watching my partner with another woman and he enjoys watching me with another man, but he does not want to see me with a woman and I do not want to see him with a man. We also enjoy watching other couples pleasure each other and would like them to watch us. We are finding it difficult to find other couples who think the same. A lot of the profiles on here list the woman as either bi or bi curious. I am neither.... I like my pleasure to come from man. I love their scent, strong arms, hairy chest and the deep moan of pleasure! Still have yet to find a couple to meet with...... Mrs D
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm confused to swing or not to swing that is the questionTo me soft swing sounds like scoring a try at practice or masturbating with a condom on it dont count.My heart goes out to Mrs AlyndrewBut each to their own
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are only new to this game and are also looking for the right woman or couple to introduce us to the adventure that waits. Weare in no rush but finding a good clean couple or female would be nice just to play with and see how it goes mmmm any one out there ????
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RHP User
15 years ago
This swingers party should help alot of you. www.minxparty.com
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RHP User
15 years ago
we are a bisexual couple we play soft on first meeting; if everying think goes well; we swap on later meetings. If just the girls or boys wish to play while the others watch well thats ok We do like to develop a friendship and trust with the other couple as our relationship with the other couple grows so does our adventure. It is about having fun together as couples. We can soon tell after our first meeting if we are going to enjoy our play time with our new friends,. we do not play with couples where either partner has been talked into swinging or feels they have to join in. We prefer couples who love each other and want to play with us for the enjoyment of it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gotta agree with you, your either playing or you aint! (have no problem with sorry...not interested) this soft swing stuff ...what we refer to as "claytons swinging"....really whats the point...its really only a bit of exhibitionism/voyuerism! not swinging...nope not even close...totally missed the point....in every sense of the term!Its a bit like going to your favourite Indian restaurant, ordering the Goat curry, and just being able to smell it but not taste it!rather stay at home thanks!.....don't waste our time!!!Cheers Nev........Sorry if this offends some...but thats titillation not swinging!...I think there should be a different category for the soft swingers...oh yeah there is, but it aint swingers!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are full swingers done it for a while, come to Melbourne and check us out.
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RHP User
15 years ago
best to read profiles i guess..see what their into swingers are normally people who want to swap we thought... but as we see many couples and singles want different things..and are at different stages. find whos on your level...and honestly ready to play. we only play with couples who swap...either orally or for penetration.. but only if all 4 are happy and all playing :> B and K
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RHP User
15 years ago
Once had the idea of "soft swing" put to us. Thought for two seconds, had a laugh, but quickly realised that the idea is a classic oxymoron if ever there was one! So the evening just meandered along while they each received........still never worked out just how soft it was meant to be. He was hard enough for receiving oral though. In the end realised that "soft" for that couple perhaps implied "you give we take".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Whats the big deal about full swap? Foreplay can be easy more then an hour, intercourse is over after a few minutes. we love to play long and then finish with each other
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep I used to swing as part of a couple, well try to anyway. One gets over those couples who say they are both into it and once it all starts "she" backs down and lets hubby play, which leads me to believe that a lot of the time "she" is going along to keep him happy or if "she" is bi, then that is all that is going to happen. i often wonder though what happens to hubby on those occasions when only the girls play. After all bi play is still sex. Perhaps more couples should be upfront about where they are at and what they want and not try to trick a couple.Oh and by the way, i always walked out on those occasions and it totally destroyed the self esteem of the male partner I was playing with.
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itacpl
15 years ago
We love foreplay ang girl/girl action while boys watch!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'goforit69' Whats the big deal about full swap? Foreplay can be easy more then an hour, intercourse is over after a few minutes. we love to play long and then finish with each other Agree with you 100%,Why have we never met up [goforit69]?
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RHP User
15 years ago
We don't do full swapping at all, might consider it but not for now. We have been with two couples and have seen one couple several times now. You can do a hell of a lot and have a lot of sexy fun without penetration. The hard part is finding people, god knows we have tried very hard to meet couples for the last seven/eight months on here. I think our strike rate must be under 1% by now. People seem really keen then nothing, we send messages out and get no reply. I think there are too many people just here for a perv or the male is keen but the female not so much. When you try and arrange a meeting it all dies in the ass. G & C
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NudesRus
15 years ago
Quoting 'itacpl' We love foreplay ang girl/girl action while boys watch! Do the boys just sit around and play with their dicks ????????? Doesn't sound like much fun to me.
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