RHP

RHP User

M40 F39

swingers clubs with couples/females only

April 01 2019

hi - mrs here.we are going to a club soon that is strictly couples and females.we are looking for a play mate male however - would it be normal / reasonable to expect a male to play with their spouse sidelined? first timers. thank you. please advice only from people that have been to more exclusive clubs.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There are couples out there that play separately but I don't know many. Your best bet is to go to a club that allows single men too. Chateau Vino allow single men on Friday's and on Vixen night's on a Saturday. Sometimes single men come with another lady, posing as a couple just to get in.

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    6 years ago

    OSS is very similar in couples and single girls It would depend on the couple but it is likely

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    There are many different dynamics between couples and how the choose to play. With reference to anyone being “sidelined” this is something you would have to discuss with the potential couple before entering into any acts of play. It would only be fair to all four of you that way. Many spouses are happy to sit and watch the activities start but then it’s only natural for them to want to join in and for that person to want their partner to join in. Will that person’s partner be asked to sit on the sideline the entire time and not join in or will they be asked to join in at some time? Not that what you seek isn’t possible but just asking, some people are voyeurs and the thrill for them is watching their partner with someone else... Again just discuss it before hand, have everyone on the same page. Have fun with it!

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    6 years ago

    Everyone is different and will do things differently, for us and many others it would be a no as we only play together and there is no way either of us would expect the other to sit and watch. From a personal experience, the last time we were at couples and single females party we had a couple join us in a room and she tried to play with me but neither wanted to play with Mrs NvC, wasn’t a fun experience and was quickly stopped. Perhaps you may be better off going to a club / party that allows single males? we have been to a few of these and have always managed to have a good night with an added male

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Advertise for a "Cuckold" husband (which I am) they are not allowed to participate until the wife allows whether it be MMF or FFM.

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    6 years ago

    There are always lone males at couples events. Never been to a club where there wasn't at least a couple of them on the prowl. Happens a lot at private parties, too. Challenge might be finding a match.