swinging & meeting for the first time .....

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Depends, swingers clubs have more "implied" rules than swingers parties IMO. You don't join people as such, you have to be asked and it's rude to interrupt people when they are having sex. I also wouldn't approach a random person having sex if I had not spoken to them earlier in the night. Most events start with a social aspect so you have the chance of mingling with ppl first. Be polite, be complimentary, be charming and flirtatious. Ask people what they are into - not everyone is keen to play with single men so good to know up front. When watching people, also engage with people around you who are also watching. I notice that at private parties most men will wank while they watch but that doesn't happen at swingers clubs. Not sure why. Well, from the clubs I have attended anyway, so could be different in other clubs. Don't be sleazy! It's hard one tho, some men come in and they are really friendly and outgoing and people instinctively like them. Other people come off as creepy and sleazy. It's all about your persona and whether you act with respect for the women there.

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  On_Safari

  8 years ago

  Sit back and watch. Chat to the bar staff, let them know you're a newbie and maybe they'll mention you to others. You might have to go more than once before couples/singles see you're safe. Penis-friendly is not a requirement, though screaming incoherently when your sword touches another's during play is very unattractive in a grown man! 😂 Just sayin' ~ Indy 👍🏽

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I've been twice as a single but with my friends who are a couple which was easier as I already knew someone to talk to. We just ventured our own way. The first was couples and single ladies and was ok. Got chatting to a few couples and even joined in a little. It was a good night and very sociable. I also did a lot of watching. The second time, with friends again was when single men were allowed. I didn't enjoy this night as it kind of felt sleazy and no socialising happened. I just watched. I would like to go again but my friends don't want to and I'm not sure I could go alone but I might have to if I want to experience more. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  boxestotick

  8 years ago

  Just a tip. Before any interaction happens, my Mrs loves to see a man can demonstrate good spelling and correct grammar. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Thank you to all that had left myself a comment It's very helpful , thank you . Maybe see u around me one day ! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  This may seem creepy. But can I go with you. Supposed be going to club 103 with a guy I just met on a Swingers site. And now having second thoughts... If you've experienced you can tell me what it's all about. Does it have separate rooms or all one big one. I just really want to embrace and check out everything

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Awwww you are the best person to go with for a first timer like me, Can we be friends lol

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