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talking during sex....
July 25 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love to talk dirty to each other during sex! Gets us so horny!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't keep quiet, not that I'm loud, just like my man to know when I'm liking what he is doing to me. Just love it when a man whispers sweet nothing's to me in french, sends me wild!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like to talk about fantasys and ask questions about hers. But mrs 24mfm isn't to verbal, only sometimes. I'm defiantly a lover that runs of a mental connection, love when thoughts and ideas can be brought up between each other
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm (male) a massive fan of talking during sex. Indicates that you are really into each other and the moment. Lots of eye contact, lots of talking.I enjoy it so much sometimes it best for the girl to say nothing.......I have had one girl though that talked and carried on wayyyyy too much and I felt like I was barely doing anything. That was a bit of a turn off.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I need verbal interaction with my bed partners, otherwise how would i know that i am pleasing them? There is nothing worse than silence, even a moan or some form of communication is better than nothing.It doesn't have to be a running dialogue, but at least a "oh fuck yes, right there!" is good :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
some people are cool to chat to at length. seem to know what to say etc.. others you'd just prefer to stay quiet unless you learn just how vanilla they are..But most of my most memorable shags have had some chat, or at least sounds of communication, involved..~sigh~
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's the worst thing your wife/husband can say to you during sex?"I'll be home in 5 minutes"Seriously though, a bit of oral interaction is a good thing, but we're not into the pseudo abusive stuff. "You're a dirty whore" really doesn't do it for us. Never have understood how people get off on that but horses/courses.MrTri likes it when I hum during sex. Seems to prefer it during oral.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mischeviouslad has nailed it for me,I love talking during sex, it seems to happen more when you have become familiar with your lover and I find it a huge turn on ! Got to love positive feedback !But one thing I don't like is a list of instructions, hints, little requests, fine, but not a bloody choreography please !
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playful4u
12 years ago
We love tasteful sexy talk with each other, it really gets us going. Verbal and visual stimulation combined is very very sensual. It can be nice & naughty too :)
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
You can't shut me up (Mrs PP) - I tend to be very descriptive of what's happening at the time.I love a little bit of it back...
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RHP User
12 years ago
YOU ARE SO SPOT ON !!!!sex doesnot star t in bed, I first softly whisper in his ear what I want him to do with me.... " I would love you to lift my skirt in the kitchen to start babe...." and let him know he is doing the right thing by tell him I am close babe !!!!.nothing better that expressing he is doing the right thing or I would love you to.....it really turn me on to talk dirty before the climax, that makes the esperience more intense....
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lovman8
12 years ago
As a man I like to prove that we men too can multitask and during sex like to talk about the weather, climate change , the higss-bosun particle or what a I think of Julia Gillard ( although that topic can lead to crude dirty sexual exclamations ) .Talking dyring sex is definitely a way of making a relationship more productive. Hmmmmm?????
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love it. I can't remember ever wishing someone would shut up, although there are a few words/names I don't particularly like. But I do wish people, women especially, spoke up more. Pretty much all of them. And when they do say something hot, WOW.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some dirty (not to be confused with abusive) words whispered between each other is all good, but my ex seriously WOULD NOT SHUT UP. The first time we had sex, he would ask permission to remove EACH item of my clothing and for what he was about to do.'Is it OK if I remove your skirt?''Is it OK if I take off your bra?'then after some time...'Is it OK if I put my penis in your -" (I cut him off at that point)And it didn't just stop there! He liked to describe and tell me everything that he was doing. It was pretty much akin to a running commentary at Derby Day.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I usually talk during sex and like it when the woman does as well. But as long as it is natural. As long as you both feel relaxed and it feels like the right(naughty) thing to say it's great. If it feels forced, or doesn't feel comfortable (like the usual porn film, ooooh baby, do it, do it, do it!!), not so good.Also, you need to be a bit creative. The same things over and over can get a bit boring after awhile.
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justswingingbi
12 years ago
The soft whispery voice in your ear, but not the running commentary. Or if things are playing out a little rougher then the hard dirty talk is good... Just depends on the mood really
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'City_Kitty' 'Is it OK if I put my penis in your -" (I cut him off at that point) And it didn't just stop there! He liked to describe and tell me everything that he was doing. It was pretty much akin to a running commentary at Derby Day. Haha I'm thinking David Attenborough here. "And here we see the penis in its natural habitat."
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'City_Kitty' Some dirty (not to be confused with abusive) words whispered between each other is all good, but my ex seriously WOULD NOT SHUT UP. The first time we had sex, he would ask permission to remove EACH item of my clothing and for what he was about to do.'Is it OK if I remove your skirt?''Is it OK if I take off your bra?'then after some time...'Is it OK if I put my penis in your -" (I cut him off at that point)And it didn't just stop there! He liked to describe and tell me everything that he was doing. It was pretty much akin to a running commentary at Derby Day. omg...must have been sooo frustrating, lol...... no wonder he is your ex.... that would have annoyed the hell outta me, i love talkin dirty, sometimes i just about orgasm after sayin something really filthy....lol.... i couldnt imagine sex without talking, are you just supposed to read each others minds and know what the other wants? how boring i would rather talk dirty to myself with a dildo without it......
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RHP User
12 years ago
If its fit reassurance and its a guy it can be annoying. If he's strong and confideny and asking me if that feels good and what he's going to do next it can be exciting, especially if its been a while and he's telling me how much he's missed me,...all the parts of me LOL.... But if its nerves I either turn off from excessive yabber or kiss him, throes gin back on the bed and cover his mouth, go for it and he will melt into quiet. With my girl she just melts, no words necessary.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That was " throw him back on the bed, " the other typos should be clear enough. but I promise I am not that illiterate. I think I might wait til I am on the laptop, much easier anf I can even use emoticons..... Whohoo...
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RHP User
12 years ago
nothing wrong with bit of chat during sex but when the girl starts answering tx messages,i loose interest
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RHP User
12 years ago
In tongues
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bloody hell!!This was your first time with your Ex? He obviously had some other very good points and you are very forgiving ~grins~ Quoting 'City_Kitty' ..........'Is it OK if I remove your skirt?''Is it OK if I take off your bra?'then after some time...'Is it OK if I put my penis in your -" (I cut him off at that point)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feeling talking is a part of sexual intercourse between two human. You can't just fuck like you're fucking a blow up doll.
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RHP User
12 years ago
the next time someone asks me a question while I am sucking their cock I am seriously contemplating biting down - hard!! Why do men insist on doing this? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
My lover has a way with words though... i just whisper sweet nothings in her ear and moan like a little girl. I know i'm doing it right though when i get a well timed response of "ohh, fuck you" ... ... when i do sparingly throw a cheeky one liner in... as well as being a surprise to her, it's also all the more meaningful *grins* coodi *the quiet achiever*
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RHP User
12 years ago
Im pretty sure my "not words" and "body language" are, um, expressive enough ;D I find it seriously breaks my mood/mindset/arousal if I'm forced to make actual words during sex. Who needs 'em, anyway??? Fingernails, teeth, lips, tongue, hips, moisture, breathing, eyes, involuntary squeaks and moans, muscle quivers, eyelid flutters, whimpers, moans, thrashing, writhing, thrusts towards, thrusts away, crying :P, shuddering... seem to be working as an effective communication tool. So far. For me. :) ;) :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coodi_yowie' My lover has a way with words though... i just whisper sweet nothings in her ear and moan like a little girl. I know i'm doing it right though when i get a well timed response of "ohh, fuck you" ... ... when i do sparingly throw a cheeky one liner in... as well as being a surprise to her, it's also all the more meaningful *grins* coodi *the quiet achiever* sweet nothings are just finesomething along the lines of "Oh my God..your pussy feels soo amazing!"or "you taste so deliciously sweet" would do just fine
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dammit can't do reply with quote on my iPad, but mischievouslad is spot on with the deep voice thing. Warm breath and a deep voice near your ear, and my panties are on fire! And when it comes to the bedroom I absolutely love to hear how good it is and share the compliments backto my lover. But never never inane banter that is not sexual in nature- big turn off. Minxy x
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love "sexy talk" communicating what we like, what's working, what you lo-oh-oh-oh-ve too Quite a few times I have had the specific "request" to talk in spanish during sex, and the response has been -so far- out of this world, very "orgasmic" *grin* Talking.. Gets the "yes" in the "oh yes" from me Td&H
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