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the back door
July 29 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, use plenty of lube - try some of the anal specific ones. I find doggie style to be the best, that way you can keep working your clit whilst he enters you. The first sensation is relatively painful but I find once he is in, get him to hold it there while you relax into the feeling. Then you can either take control and gently start to rock back onto him, or let him slowly start to move in and out (small movements at first). It doesn't take long for the uncomfortable sensations to subside and then you can really get into it. Prep work - well you can go all out and purchase an enema kit (you can get them online) - some come with different fittings. Do it in the morning and again in the evening while you are getting ready to ensure minimal mess. But even this is no silver bullet, there can still be accidents (which can be very embarrassing I know). Mrs Waterbabes XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ring of fire? hahaha I assume you are talking about anal sex and not anal fisting. Sooo I like to have my face down and bum up in the air. And they have to go SLOWLY at first til you get used to it but when you are comfortable with his whole cock inside you, it is awesome and doesn't really hurt at all. :D Enema's are the way to go for good clean anal fun. I was just recommended the Shower Shot which you can buy on Amazon, apparently it is amazing and the person who recommended it is someone who I consider to be an expert in anal play & enemas. Going to have a look now. :) Meeka xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka: Yes, tis the ring of fire. And I meant anal sex, as there's no way that a fist would go up there! Maybe later Thanks for advice and will be looking for this Shower Shot now.Mrs Waterbabes: Thanks for the prep work tip. And I'll make sure Im on my hands and knees and go really slooooowwww.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi diwata, . I agree with both Waterbabes and Meeks. I really love anal sex - when I am really turned on. I too prefer the position that Meeks described. The bigger the man, the better, as a larger penis does not get as 'hard' as a smaller one does. . I also find that clitoral stimulation is both a distraction and an assistant when you are being penetrated. Have him enter you very slowly, with lots of lube both on him and inside you. I don't suggest he enter you, then pull out, but rather enter you slowly at first and then hold it there and wait for your 'second sphincter' to relax and allow him in deeper. . It takes practice, time, and a very patient partner. Once you get the knack of it, then you will both enjoy it A LOT! . Flirty x
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RHP User
12 years ago
As a champion for anal sex... I have found that as a man you need to take it slow.. The key ingredients are... Lube, patients, more lube and slow but firm initial insertion.. As Meeka says once I can feel your muscles relax I slowly move my cock in and out... If you take your time initially it pays off... Plus it's always better if you've had a couple of orgasms already and your body is relaxed!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cant stress it enough, foreplay is the key for anal, from my experiences. As well as doing things to relax yourself, and ensuring you are clean n ready to go.Long before things reach that moment where he attempts to enter you, indulge in anal play. Start off with a lil rimming, having him give your lil choc starfish a damn good licking. Lube time then progress to a single gentle finger. Once inserted, slow n steady does it. And not just in n out, small subtle stretching, sideways, up n down. Work that sphincter muscle gently in all directions before progressing to two fingers. Then repeat, slow n gentle in n out, followed by some sideways and up n down, stretching again. Lube, keep it lubed. During all the above, make sure both you and your chosen man, pat plenty of attention to the rest of your body as well, to keep you in that highly turned on state. Maybe even forget the anal for a lil bit, and do some standard doggy style vaginal action, before going back to single finger and some stretches again, before lubing up again (lube both of you). Then attempt entry. With all the stretching, you should find he simply slides right in. He will most likely be inside you and before you even realise it. Once he is inside, stop, take a lil time to let everything get used to him being there, before commencing small gentle thrusts.Positions? Two come to mind. Either face down, bum up, or spooning with your knees up near or on your chest. All others are for later on, when you have some experience up.Enjoy
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zoe69r
12 years ago
well done on wanting to try anal . i agree with what all the ladies have said , but being a bi guy i to also love anal and one of the best positions i found for my first couple of times was me on top ,riding cowboy style , as this allowed me to control the pace and how much i let in . as i have found some guys just see your ass and just go for it , but it sounds like u have a lovely partner to share this wonderful experience with , and im sure the other ladys will agree with me it can be mind blowing , enjoy and have fun let us all now how u get on
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find it easier if I have already had an orgasm (either through oral, vibrators etc) first, that way my body is relaxed, I am turned on enough to enjoy the sensations and it seems to be a lot easier. As others have said, on your side is easier for the first few times, it is the same position medical professionals use if they need to insert something anally. Also try it yourself when you masturbate... you need to train your body to think of the sensations as pleasure not pain. Especially since that area is designed to push things out not have them pushed in. It can be as simple as using a finger or 2 while you are masturbating and see how you like it, then do it again next time... The more you test the waters the easier it is and the more pleasurable it becomes. I also prefer to position myself against a man and I do the intial insertion, guiding him in and controling the tempo. then once I am feeling more comfortable and relaxed he can take over following my lead. Best of luck ember
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RHP User
12 years ago
why not start off using some small vibes / dildos etc and get yourself used to it (privately) before going at it with a guy? Kisses Focus (as well as all the other great advice above)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll have my ass so high up in the air to make you all proud!Cheers,Diwata
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unless the penis passes straight through the anus and into the rectum, it can push against the walls of the anal passage causing extreme pain even in someone who is relaxed and flexible. The penetrator should enter the anus slowly and without too much pressure initially and allow the receiver to maneuver into the most comfortable position. Beginners should begin with gentle fingering to apply the lube and loosen and relax the sphincter muscles.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't worry about cleaning out before hand!!! Try scat play. It's great in a dirty kinda way ;-D
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RHP User
12 years ago
i find they make great cup holders
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CuriousBigG
12 years ago
I find a good spanking beforehand helps warm up my ass and relaxes me - and the initial discomfort is tempered by the awesome feeling of someone deep inside. Lots of lube and a slow steady initial penetration. Once all the way in, gentle thrusting can be followed by more vigourous pounding......... delightful!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Being still a beginner at this, I've recently had the ultimate experience where, once inside, he let me rock back and forth at my own comfortable pace, once I felt comfortable to do so. Lots of lube, or there's a massage oil we used which worked really well. But the key to it is, allow time to adjust to feeling comfortable with having him inside you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Having just had a hot weekend with a truly sexy woman, we did anal and she loved it! She was pleased that I took the time to make her feel at ease with me. After entering a woman's arse, the man should relax and just hold his position for her to relax her anal muscles properly. Doing this will make the further forward movement a lot easier for both. Once the head is in, move slowly forward until both can get a universal rhythm. Unless, of course, you have heaps of lube and and she demands that you thrust forward. Bottom line - lube, patience and care and you will have the best sex ever!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find I have to be really, really horny and wet I agree with maybe trying some dildos etc first maybe (mrs)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lmfao12'As a champion for anal sex... I have found that as a man you need to take it slow.. The key ingredients are... Lube, patients, more lube and slow but firm initial insertion.. As Meeka says once I can feel your muscles relax I slowly move my cock in and out... If you take your time initially it pays off... Plus it's always better if you've had a couple of orgasms already and your body is relaxed! No wonder I am nervous every time I go and see the doctor
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I have to say that its just not something that really interests me that much. Ive had some partners who have asked, or, just changed the angle to make it happen ..... but that was their choice at the time. (Reminds me of a damn funny story, but might save that one for a relevant topic... ha ha ha) I just find theres soooooo much fun to be had in the front paddock, that I dont need to think about ploughing the back one. DG. There's at least one of you!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have done anal a few times whilst it's a dirty turn on I do enjoy the feeling of a woman using her muscles on her "front bum" I think that feeling is amazing. I won't ever say no to the back door but I don't push it on the woman. I think that is a very personal thing for her to decide. Good luck diwata and I think there are plenty of men willing to help out the theories!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
when I was about 14 and a half my bicycle seat fell off,,To this day my sphincter muscle still tightens up when I hear banjos :S
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'richo1968'Having just had a hot weekend with a truly sexy woman, we did anal and she loved it! She was pleased that I took the time to make her feel at ease with me. After entering a woman's arse, the man should relax and just hold his position for her to relax her anal muscles properly. Doing this will make the further forward movement a lot easier for both. Once the head is in, move slowly forward until both can get a universal rhythm. Unless, of course, you have heaps of lube and and she demands that you thrust forward. Bottom line - lube, patience and care and you will have the best sex ever! Oh........where were you four years ago!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dont get me wrong, I am a MASSIVE fan of tongueing a girls nice clean arse, and to stick your cock in is super horny/dirty fun, but it sort of does feel like getting wanked with just a finger and thumb wrapped around your cock!!! It's a bit baggy for my liking insiide.... Each to their own though....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I LOVE it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Let the reciever be the judge of the movement if they need it faster or harder its their choice ,,, that way both parties get to enjoy it all not just the giver
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dont snap the cock off when you orgasm PLEASE
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Mezmerizingeyes0
12 years ago
Spooning works you can control the motion and movement but as everyone says plenty of lube and make sure he doesn't think that you are in a porno.slow steady strokes have been told bearing down on the cock also helps ease the sphincter muscles as well
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RHP User
12 years ago
We agree with every thing these guys say, but also consider lying on your back (nice and comfortable) with your man kneeling between your legs and the moving from your pusy to your ass ( preferably with a condon for the ass). This can be very comfortable and you can have a hand full of your clit which is always good.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi. Well I have been with a few girls that had never had anal before and they enjoyed it and wanted more. I suppose it depends on the male, how he goes about it when he is with a woman who has not had much anal. I start with my finger first while I am inside her pussy and if she likes that then I go easy and slow until my cock is right inside and gentle thrusts to start with and see how comfortable she is. Some times lube is good but other times pussy juice is enough. It depends on how big the male is. Try a small vibrator first by yourself. The best is when a vibrator is inside her pussy and my cock is inside her anally. A couple of woman actually skirted for the first time this way. Ok enough of my dribble.
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RHP User
12 years ago
two words for you ammyl nitrate. buy it over the counter, enjoy xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
The warmup to anal is important. It works differently for men and women. Women - have several orgasms, the more the better, you will be more relaxed Men - anal before orgasm, once a man has cum his pleasure is lessened and it can be less comfortable (this is what a few male friends have told me) Use a good quality lubricant, dont use water based. The bowel absorbs things, thats why you can get pain reliever suppositories and people do things like different enemas. SILICONE LUBRICANT is what I find best, there is several types on the market, I use SWISS NAVY, it has a pump so no having to squeeze and undo lids etc when needing to use it. Water based lubricant if thats all you have, needs to constantly be reapplied to ensure comfort, where as silicone sort of works more like a barrier and it is condom safe. A good coating outside the rectum and inside is great for anal. Enema is great, or at least an empty bowel, helps with comfort. I also have a thing called a lube launcher so it can be filled with lubricant and a qty inserted into the anus so you have extra lubricant where needed. I DO NOT suggest amyl to anyone who has high blood pressure or any other medical problems. Yes you can buy it over the counter but if you dont know what it is, what it can do, dont use it, it can also be very dangerous. Make sure you ask all the questions before dabbling with amyl.
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chevtrek
12 years ago
best way yes lube and yes it helps to relaxLet him penetrate slowly then just lye down together and get use to the feelinghe can move a bit but take it slow time will make it comfortable and later you can even orgasm this wayPs dont go back to pussy as this causes health issues....clean penis first
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi ya, You need to trust the guy you're about to allow the pleasure of fucking your butt. He needs to know your boundaries and hopefully he's not built like a horse for your first experience.. Definately use a liberal amount of a nice lubricant, and have to agree that ass in the air, even with a dildo in your Pussy is nice. Enjoy!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
you are right on the money kylie...I like your thinking !Good girl.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you find doggie too painful at first, try hopping on top, stradding him and lowering yourself down on his cock. This really helps me when I can't get the angle right from behind. I also find that a good session of vaginal penetration really helps to relax everything! Lube and patience, of course. Take it slow when he's first going in, bit by bit, make him stop as you get used to the sensation and give your muscles some time to relax. Don't give up - it is SSSSOOOOOOOO worth it ;) Nothing like a good ass session!
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