the ex factor...

December 10 2011

so you have been happily playing on rhp, completely oblivious to the fact that one day it may interact with your real life then suddenly your ex pops up...I know how i'd play it, but what do others think is the correct protocol?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    And avoid the hassle...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    laugh at the irony...i mean...what would the frigid bitch do here? needlepoint?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There is one I would block completely but really the rest I'd probably send a flirt or message and have a laugh about it :P swap pointers and stories ;) that sorta thing...

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    13 years ago

    You have a face pic up that is very clear...did you really believe that it wouldn't interact with your real life? Sorry but unless you are a hermit and know absolutely noone in life...your pic will be seen by relo's/friends/co-workers/clients/school mates or whatever! The very reason why alot of people put their face pics in PG. xFunlovingx

  • Onlylivetwice

    Onlylivetwice

    13 years ago

    You said "I know how I'd play it..." so now I'm curious about how you would, ah, "play it".For me, I suppose it depends on the individual. I am friends with a few ex partners, while others I find life much easier if I don't interact with them at all. I suppose there's no reason why it would be different here.But I love the subject line - the ex factor, that's gold hehe!!I'm sure people from "real life" (this is real life too) see my profile, in fact I'm quite sure a client of mine the other week had seen my profile because she was directing the conversation fairly clearly about it. Not a problem myself as we're all adults and I kept professional.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My ex would literally not know how to turn on a computer let alone find this site and join. If I put myself in that scenario I imagine I would laugh it off and ask how he s doing anyway. I would certsinly find out through messaging or chat faily quickly anyway.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have been messaged by 2 ex's here. I just politely said no thanks. They have no idea who I am and I never told them and didn't block them. I'm not going to say anything, so everyone's privacy is protected. One is no longer on here. The other still stalks my profile every now and again

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    13 years ago

    I blocked.....saves the hassles....Made me feel in control as well......just spent 20 years with him and if he didnt know what he had in all that time well ..............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Don't have any ex's, it's too much trouble having an ex. Just don't date anyone imperfect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    PRODUCT IN BOX MAY NOT BE AS DESCRIBED!     I came across my ex on another dateing site, just a month ago.   I do wish there was a way of warning people, that some of these profiles like hers are totaly bogus.   No kid's my Arse, she has 2 (DCP I suppose took care of that) Single, and never married? married twice, and still married to the second. Been in perth for so many years? all her life. Has never worked in the industry she says, and all that money she has, was gained from fruad and divorce.   P.S. Buyer beware, The AFP, DCP and Centre-link are after her andike to harrass, ex partners trying to regain money's not rightfuly gained.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Seriously, you're 23.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    if he'd ever wandered into the forums he would have recognised me from my profile pic even if I'd blocked him so I was upfront about it, told him the photo he had put up was really not doing him justice. He got a bit awkward and said he was removing his account as he'd met a new girlfriend anyway LOL. I didn't go looking for it but I haven't stumbled across his profile again so I assume it's gone. If not, my life is my own now and I don't play when it's my week with our children so he has no call to interfere :)I've no real reason to hide so I'm ok with being recognised.

  • deanna_rose

    deanna_rose

    13 years ago

    I'm ok with people knowing what I look like. I'd rather find some attracted to my face than the size of my tits.Its a better quality of man that way.

  • deanna_rose

    deanna_rose

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Bratzilla' Seriously, you're 23. errr... 25...and I'm not sure what point you're making.onlylivetwice - I thought the best thing to do was ignore the contact and move on... And ignore the subsequent phone calls and texts. Surely the assumption should be if you already have their number and you're not calling, it ain't going to be helped by a flirt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well Deanna, your face is cute - but your tits are awesome.

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deanna_rose' Quoting 'Bratzilla' Seriously, you're 23. errr... 25... and I'm not sure what point you're making. onlylivetwice - I thought the best thing to do was ignore the contact and move on... And ignore the subsequent phone calls and texts. Surely the assumption should be if you already have their number and you're not calling, it ain't going to be helped by a flirt. Bratzilla was talking to Nathan_n_Cassie being 23! She wasn't aiming that at you....sometimes you have to read the top line to see if people are talking to you...honest mistake I am sure! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'deanna_rose' I'm ok with people knowing what I look like. I'd rather find some attracted to my face than the size of my tits.Its a better quality of man that way. I'm quite happy being attracted to both!