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the personality type or types that you find most attractive

July 24 2012

or the personality type that you as a woman, identify with most.If attraction is not just about the physical, then which female personality types are you most attracted to.It might be just one, or a combination of a few. Here is a list to choose from. The Boss a strong woman ,she may spark emotions ranging from admiration to jealousy.She is a temptation to men who like to conquer women,she may be too dominate to appeal to many men. The Seductress She has power over others due to her charm and desirability.She is valued for her surface charms,and is like catnip to men. The Spunky Kid funny reliable supportive,she likes everyone,everyone likes her.Often sarcastic and cynical,she is often unwilling to be the girly girl just to catch a males attention. The Free Spiirit sincere upbeat and imaginative,genuine,funloving energetic.She makes decisions based on her emotions and instincts.Amusing and a great story teller her vivacity and love for life often make her irrestible to men.Her charm lies in her ability to laugh at herself. The Librarian efficient,serious,dependable ,self reliant.She strives for order and values the intellectual world over the physical.She dresses to repress but when she lets her hair down,she reveals a passionate woman. Th Crusader courageous,resolute,persuasive.A born leader,she commands deeds of valour.To busy for a social life,she rarely shows up on a mans radar. The Nurturer Altruistic,optimistic,capable.An ideal mother companion or friend.A people pleaser,men appreciate her caregiving qualities So what personality types attract you,or as a woman which ones do you relate to.x Hugs H

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Working my way down the list, I thought "love that. Love that. Looooove that!" On closer reflection there's a clear standout. These are my thoughts:The Boss: I love strong women, and until I read your description I would have said The Boss was for me, but I think what's missing from her is a sense of mutually shared fun. The Boss sounds like she takes herself too seriously, which I find unappealing in either gender. Love is a battlefield, sure, but power play and a notion of 'conquering' do little for me.The Seductress: I'll probably find hot and attractive, but it will be pretty superficial. Probably not made for lasting romance. I would actually have doubts about both whether I was truly into her, or whether she was truly into me.The Spunky Kid: Bullseye! This is my ideal. Unsurprisingly, it's where on the list I would categorise myself. Which gives credence to my theory that the person I'm most in love with is myself.The Free Spirit: I love these girls, they're so beautiful. I've been with a few in my time, though to be honest I've sometimes found myself wishing they were more cynical and critical. See above.The Librarian: Love these ones too. I find a sharp mind is hot. Again, though, it's the other side of the Free Spirit. I sometimes wish the Librarian was a little more socially minded. Really, the Spunky Kid is a combination of some of the best qualities of the Free Spirit and the Librarian, which is why I find her so appealing.The Crusader: Ooooh yes, the dark horse. Have also known a few of these, and have the utmost respect and fascination with them. Kind of like The Boss without the power play. Probably rate these a bit higher than the Librarian because they've got an energy about them that's captivating, but the same wish that they were a little more socially minded.The Nurturer: Blech. This is one the one I'd well and truly pass on. I am not looking for another mother. Of course I'd love someone to support me, but not as anything other than an equal. Personally I want someone with dreams and goals of their own, not someone who is defined by their relationship to others.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    A large chunk of the Nurturer mixed in with some Free sprit, Librarian and Seductress,and Crusader (depending on what she was on her hobby horse about,we may clash to much especially if she was a lefty).I left out the bossy one, because I like to be the boss, to much of a clash.At least most women let us blokes think we are in charge...lol...when it suits them.I left out the Spunky Kid, because I like women to be girly, and I can be cynicalenough for the both of us, trust me on that!Thanks Hesione, Great post!Cheers Felonius...Analyse that...lol

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I will go with all but the crusader..to me the crusader is always trying to save someone from something..and neglect the job at hand..   just my thoughts grasshopper..

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  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Love the librarian. A well read women with endless passion when hair down. Maybe Repunzel was a librarian

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    and a litlle from column B, C, D, E, F and G....I'm every woman, it's all in me - or maybe just split personalities...

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I'd have to be a combination of three: The boss,the librarian, and the spunky kid. The features that I possess of each:The Boss:The persona that I project in my professional life and studies, of being highly capable and enjoying being in charge. This also overlaps into my bedroom activities often, where I quite enjoy being a little more dominant than my partner. I've been told by my self-appointed wingman that I also unknowingly put this personality out sometimes when out and about on the town, as he calls it my 'uptight dominatrix bitch face', which I've heard can come across as intimidating.The librarian:Closely connected to the boss in that I have a very rational and practical way of thinking. I like to dress in 'classy' clothes rather than clothes that reveal too much, preferring to leave some things to the imagination.The Spunky Kid:The side of me that mostly only my nearest and dearest see. Sarcastic and cynical to the very end. Supportive, reliable, always willing to crack a joke at my own expense just to see someone smile.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    .     Boss - Nope Seductress - Ah Nope.... (wish I was !!) Spunky Kid - Definitely not me Free Spirit - Kinda, sorta- a little   Librarian - oh yeah thats me to a T - often passed over by men, but occassionally a man will stop and delve to discover I am a real gem...fuck my brain before you fuck my body...some men are up for the challenge...   Crusader - definitely got some elements of this persona residing inside of me....nothing wrong for standing up and fighting for what you believe in......its how you go about it that counts (think Gandhi) - nobody ever achieved anything by sitting around just talking about it - you've got to do it - be committed and believe !!!   The Nuturer - yeah theres a fair bit of me in that statement as well..... - I do care, I do nurture - I guess thats why I do the job that I do...but as for men appreciating it....ah yet to stumble acorss that rare being...   .

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The free spirit. But I have been all of the rest at some stage in my life.   Today I turned 60 so I can be what ever I like

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I'm a combination of 1 (boss) and 3 (spunky kid) - at least according to my own perception.   Hesione, I don't suppose you have a comparable list for men? I'd love to do the exercise in reverse :)

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The boss. This guy wants to be in control of it all. Will always be on top. Tends to like to shaft you in the arse, or blow on your back. He will always be in a hurry and on the phone while he is getting a blow job. He likes sex in an office environment and his profile will say no time wasters. He will ask you a lot of questions before he meets you and will pencil you in for a fuck. The seducer; His first words are trust me. He can talk his way in and out of a woman’s pants in ten seconds he is that good he can pick you up at the Coles check out and have you blowing him in his car, in the shopping centre car park. He will also ask you for your docket so he can get cheaper full and you will hand it over. When he says he is married but is wife does not under stand him. You will believe him. The spunky kid: This guys ball sack is so full that when he cums it goes all over the place. Do not wear a black top when you see this guy. He is that quick that after he has blown all over you , the wall , your brand new curtains. He will be out the door running before you can get up off your knees. He is full of it, in more ways than one. The free spirit The free spirit , cant keep and appointment. He will never turn up to a date,but will keep stringing you along. He usually lives at his parents house, smokes a fair bit of dope and has not had a job since leaving school. He sleeps in till 12 and likes meets at your place and goes to your fridge first. The crusader He is after true love, and is on every cyber date site there is. He will grill you like a cheese sandwich then ask you to marry him. He will pursue you till you fuck him , then he will call you a cheep slut and go on again looking for that perfect girl. One that looks suspiciously like his mother The nurturer...holds your hair back when you vomit The librarian has a stack of playboys and other porn mags with lots of pages stuck together. Gets all his info of google and wickipidia. Knows and reads about as much sexual perversion as he can. Goes to the library to sniff the books and jacks off into women’s weekly magazines and puts them back on the news stand.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Im either baking or singing Meredith Brooks - no wait Im a bitch, definately a Meredith Brooks song happening.   I would say I have aspects of all of them (though less of the Crusader than anything else) but strongly identify with The Boss, The Spunky Kid, The Free Spirit and (my friends would say) The Nurturer.   Not sure which I am most attracted to I think someone who has aspects of the all. I do look a well rounded woman.   Kisses Focus

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ROFLMAO, priceless tuscan ! I have tears !

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  • lovman8

    lovman8

    12 years ago

    Ideally I like an intelligent playful woman that can be all of your listed "types" and a few more depending on the situation and the mood. Or failing that a long list of women to play a "type" each.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Spunky definitely, sometimes even full of spunk ;) I'm currently hearing that more than cute lately.Definitely the part about not being a girly girl, and I have been wishing for a while now that there was a font for sarcasm. I'm mostly cynical but reserving a little optimism for the right person(s).

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    if it's a bloke? he'll like the one with the biggest boobs!!or in my case. nipples..you guys crack me up LOL..

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    gets my laugh too.. :-)

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Tuscans male version . From the the male , I laughed and I laughed ... Made my day

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have a bit of a thing for women who?   I like the spunky kid,free spirit,librarian combo...   Love the enthusiasm, optimism, vivacity, dress sense of the spunky kid/free spirit. and the thoughtfullness, consideration, inquisitiveness of the librarian   hard to carry off Mike

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Personality types lol ...whatever got me into bed is now out the window . Now all i want to do is fuck so .... a personality of a pornstar ... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's not mentioned in your descriptions. Confident, intelligent, masculine, tall, funny and attractive :). All combined is very difficult to find.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The Free Spirit.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I look like a librarian ...

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    in my 20's before kids, I'd be the one on your list too.

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    I seem to encounter most, the Boss and the Seducer. Lmao soooo funny I've known a few Free Spirits too!!! Me I think I'm a combo of spunky kid and free spirit, maybe a lil seductress when I'm off my chain.

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Grandeur,the original post was about female archetypes.Tuscans was a little tongue in cheek,that is why he...aka the Loch Ness Monster, is not there.

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  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Bumpity Bumpity bump bump - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    11 years ago

    OMFG...how accurate are they...lol...had me crying they are so funny

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You forgot the Hipster personality type. The Hipster: Upper middle-class, pot-smoking Caucasian with a post-modern, modernist approach to life (i.e. embraces everything and anything from any era - but in a contradictory fashion rejects anything that resembles the present-day "mainstream"). She is the converse shoe catalog definition of cool. Normally found in overpriced urban-American-influenced bars that resemble speakeasy's. These specimens are usually hard to approach without the correct attire. One must ensure they are wearing expensive labels that give the illusion you are wearing second-hand clothing dated back from the 90s. They are one giant transitional contradictory mess or human oxymoron - but yet at the same time always offer something new and interesting.*** Definitely my favorite type of girl hahaha.

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