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the tri fucked her

March 23 2014

Made me think about a comment a friend made about threesomes. I have had the odd one or two, and got me in trouble a few times when the man focused on me and not my friend.It can get awkward when you try to sorta push the guy over to your girlfriend. the truth is the laws of attraction do apply even in a threesome.so how do you guys manage that fact. If I am a situation where the man likes the woman I am with then I do not mind just laying beside them and touching and kissing but am happy to give myself the happy ending. However I get that it can make you feel terrible if the guy or girl is not into you but there you all are naked and trying to do the right thing by every one.I had one of my female friends abuse me in the morning saying, yeah he just fucked me but made love to you? WTF ? so tell us how you guys handle this kind of thing? I would like to try couples but it worries me if I am only attracted to half the couple ,what then? not had a lot of mmf but those I did , not a problem was a good match for me and them.

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  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    Sorry to come across as crass but... there are cocks and holes - and sometimes there just not enough cock to go around...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    forget couples.......... they are too much like hard work. Just go the men. that is where the fun is at.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Try 2 guys next time hun, much easyer, always focused on you and never get jealous lol. Plus not many guys can handle 2 girls lol. Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    11 years ago

    I love being part of other people's pleasure... I hate being the centre of attention- I love turning other people on... I much prefer if the person I am with is getting off more on the other person and we can devour them together...it's amazing - Xxviolet

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    11 years ago

    Let the couple play together first so they are into each other before starting on you...lay back and watch. It also helps you to get an idea of what each likes.Worked for me in my 3somes.ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it depends on what you're looking to get out of it aswell as who you do it with? I think it's quite normal to be attracted to one half of a couple more than the other, but I would say that if you're not attracted to one of them and you're expecting play to be 'involved' with both members of the couple, then find a different couple. It's very hard to fake enjoyment with someone you're not attracted to. If you find a secure couple who are interested in a mutually pleasurable experience, those issues you raised shouldn't come up and it won't be too hard. There's a whole heap of fun to be had - you just need to reach out to have it! Kisses, J (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think if she's not just after a fuck, then threesomes are the wrong place for her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Isn't there a decision at some point where everyone is attracted to eachother b4 they start , no point taking one for the team , but in saying so I've been in that situation where my friend wanted to show another that I was hung and I ended up in trouble for focusing on her hot friend , I've been in the situation where the girls just focussed on eachother too ( I must say good viewing though haha) I've found more flirting time and foreplay makes sure everyone gets their fair share without anyone feeling left out

  • Bideas

    Bideas

    11 years ago

    I personally like the challenge if multi tasking. My greed has me wanting to touch and pleasure as many partners as is physically possible at any given moment even if it has me off balance or looking like a contortionist. I can sympathise with the notion that attraction will likely draw ones attention to a specific partner more than the rest, however a mindful participant should make the extra effort to please everyone involved equally or avoid being in multiple partner situations. I love the thrill of making people cum, man or woman, so attraction is second to the enjoyment of figuring out exactly what it takes to bring orgasmic bliss to my partners. Once everyone is laying in a puddle of their own juicy pleasure, my own orgasm can move up to the forefront of my focus.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    If you're not attracted or 'into' them..... how did you decide to all get naked? DG - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    DG, I have seen it a lot. The bloke will focus most Of his attention on one women instead of treating it like a group sport. It's not that he isn't attracted to both.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Depends on the nature of the relationship of those involved I guess. I have only been involved in a few threesomes but it has been with long term married couples where the wife has been the centre of attention and focus so nobody has really felt left out. The hubby some times has been happy to watch but naturally because of their long term relationship, the wife has been concious of not excluding hubby either and us all enjoying the experience together. Haven't had a FFM but have a female FB who is so keen to give it a go.....so keen I suspect I will be on the outer and surplus to requirements once she gets going.....but I like to watch so can't see any down side really ;-)

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    If he does that..... he's not likely going to be considered for further fun - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Then you see one woman sitting on the side lines and she feels left out a bit. I don't know, maybe the guy is a selfish lover or someone who is not aware Of the dynamics in group play. I think there can be a lot of confusion or misunderstandings with people that haven't had much experience in group sex situations. Or of course, some women always have to be the centre of attention and will do anything to ensure she is. I don't like women like that... I prefer not to be involved. NEXT!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Everyone was single (except hubby and I). Boy what we heard the next morning..... I was pleasing him all night and he didn't return the favour once, he went with the other girl twice why not me.... He's only doing one girl........... It was a lot of work trying to keep the dynamics....... I'm normally even keel about it all, however I got my nose out of joint when they decided to swap and I heard one say what about 'big mamma' oh don't worry about her........... I much prefer couples, more an even footing, the men move around but make sure their partners are satisfied and there doesn't appear to be as many issues.... I'm not saying there's none.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Everyone was single (except hubby and I). Boy what we heard the next morning..... I was pleasing him all night and he didn't return the favour once, he went with the other girl twice why not me.... He's only doing one girl........... It was a lot of work trying to keep the dynamics....... I'm normally even keel about it all, however I got my nose out of joint when they decided to swap and I heard one say what about 'big mamma' oh don't worry about her........... I much prefer couples, more an even footing, the men move around but make sure their partners are satisfied and there doesn't appear to be as many issues.... I'm not saying there's none.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm with you, in that I love watching and then touching, licking and enhancing their experience.

  • Beachlover1999

    Beachlover1999

    11 years ago

    I have been with a couple who were like sweet and sour.......in the most luscious sexy sense, having the soft sweetness of a woman and the taste and feel of a man......Yowzer!!!! Their focus was on pleasing me ;))) But can see how it could be tricky on other occasions with different people..... Wonder if 'some' guys have watched to much MFF porn and their fantasy is beyond them, in my experience guys can promise a lot and often just want to take and that is with a MF let alone 2 girls, am sure it happens the other way as well. I am want to be Meeka!!!! Sex with hot bi guys!!!!!! ;)))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That would be a group of people who don't get it. I would say NEXT!! Lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Bigmamma,were they strangers or people that you knew?.....because they sound like very selfish individuals....and rude.....I doubt that I could cope with a FMF situation unless it was with people I trusted and knew well.....even then sex can change everything.....because sometimes it's not just about sex xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I like being the starfish in the middle and being poked in every hole. Ooh err that does feel good. ;-)

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    I think you and Meeka, bigmamma are letting this slip, soon there is gonna be homesteads floating past your windows, and we are going to be in conversation about washing the Sunday drive GoGo mobile. And three legged races across an olympic swimming pool at some carnival Or threeway sex play, disambiguations watering down the meaning soma,menage a trois, love triangle. Some, is an inviting word, it's inclusive, gathering, caring, and represents the meaning to threesome, someday, sometime somehow something somewhere the unknown the threesome "a" triangle, into the trance of heightened intensities, uphoria, three energies become one into oureselves and for the spirits to take us to their world. Simply can't be done if one of three is sitting in a corner. And if you havn't had a threesome in spirit, then you havn't experienced the fuck it becomes, threfore feel alone and in wonder without the feelings and story to uphoric places, one can not be told only shown. So It's not the hollywood and display of it all ladies, it's to the love and unknown, can be done with your eyes closed. All three need to get on. DG is hot on your trails Violet the unicorn in pure natural form Fair is fair, Meeka that dark humour, it's a thing in disguise. It's morish and delectable Mado Mado Tara xx (to the unknown and back)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    we both enjoy watching each other with someone else so a 3 person dynamic works for either of us in any combination. Wren

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    With the perfect threesome...... Went to the club with friends, then back to the hotel but no one was free to join us........ We are all so comfortable with each other, that each of us just enjoy it when the other is pleasured. We are comfortable enough with each other that we try out our thoughts and fantasies with each other, which last night included us girls rubbing ourselves against each other....... Mmmm a very enjoyable time, shame I had to leave at 3am (yummy smile on face).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am learning a lot. I have been with a couple only twice. the first one the woman and I got on so well that we ended up at my hotel, without the guy. But that being said, it was not so much a one on one it was more that we left the drapes open and the construction site across the road had a bunch of guys sitting there having lunch. some even clapped lol the other time was with a couple and the guy was rough, it was only once I started that I realised he was rough with his hands and I am sensitive, in all fairness his wife loved it rough. Fingering that is. he then tried to get inside me without a condom and that was like cold water over me, so I just said focus on your wife and that was that, I lay next to them watching. If I am a woman that is strong and is not worried about attention, and who can get her own attention if she likes, then I don't stress. I would like some MM stuff but its pretty hard I think to actually get that, as its hard enough for me to get that chemistry with just the one on one. Besides I don't do anal so that may limit things a bit LadyT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'CrystalxxDamon' Try 2 guys next time hun, much easyer, always focused on you and never get jealous lol. Plus not many guys can handle 2 girls lol. Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile LOLLLLL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Was a little bit of a tri hard,I used to give him those little blue smarties and oh my goodness Madge and I always had a smile on our faces after....once he ate the whole box,poor Madge she was on the zimmer for a week after that xx Auntie

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'LadyTuscan' I am learning a lot. I have been with a couple only twice. the first one the woman and I got on so well that we ended up at my hotel, without the guy. But that being said, it was not so much a one on one it was more that we left the drapes open and the construction site across the road had a bunch of guys sitting there having lunch. some even clapped lol the other time was with a couple and the guy was rough, it was only once I started that I realised he was rough with his hands and I am sensitive, in all fairness his wife loved it rough. Fingering that is. he then tried to get inside me without a condom and that was like cold water over me, so I just said focus on your wife and that was that, I lay next to them watching. If I am a woman that is strong and is not worried about attention, and who can get her own attention if she likes, then I don't stress. I would like some MM stuff but its pretty hard I think to actually get that, as its hard enough for me to get that chemistry with just the one on one. Besides I don't do anal so that may limit things a bit LadyT Shouldn't matter if you just wanted two fellows to massage a foot each, if that is what you desired Lady T If you want it to happen it will, once you know what you want or maybe not worry at all to what you want so much as to the unknown it is. They even take 5 or 6 hundred shots at getting it how they want it in the adult porn industry, then it looks like it is acted. Just got to be three in the moments and it is hot sex, why it is so difficult to find the guys, is more likely you haven't got a real positive outlook to it, maybe your friend has taken you a little more than ignoring her. Left a splinter in you. Threesomes are all about feelings, nothing much worth a mention without them saturating you all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My old mum,Mavis,used to say....if wishes were horses ,then beggars would ride.....xx Auntie

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    I beg your pardon, but I don't wish you were a horse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Indeed I would not like you to beg:-) xxAuntie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Grrr....Dear,Mado dear x

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Mado dewar Quoting 'AuntieEdna' Indeed I would not like you to beg:-) xxAuntie Me and double you would make three, even beggars can have wishes xx