RHP

RHP User

M37 F40

threesomes

March 20 2012

We got married nearly 2 months ago and my husband wants to have a threesome with either another girl or guy but I am not sure that I want to and not sure that I feel comfortable... any ideas on how to feel comfortable with it or views on if we should do it. Do you think it ruins a relationship or can will it be ok?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DONT !!!!!!!       One should never go down any path (no matter what it is - drugs, sex, drinking etc.. ) if they are unsure or dont feel comfortable...be true to yourself first no matter what....and if your partner loves, cares and respect you, he will not push the issue.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Try it with an older guy first and there will not be any jealousy by your M partner.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What difference would an older man make? A man is a man is a man no matter what their age. And jealousy will still strike. If you dont feel comfortable doing it please dont!   Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    thanks everyone for your advice I have made my decision not to do it, you never know down the track I may feel different but at the moment I am not comfortable with it. thanks again for your comments was great to hear other peoples views.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    first thing i want to ask is ,in time you were dating did he ever raise the question of threesome..now you married id say he couold have grown tired of you and wants to fool around bout not behind your back..if he gets you to say yes then he go thte go ahead.......being so young i really dont see marriage lasting long when he wants to play so soon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi , we are married 7 years and together for about 12. We talked about it years ago ,after we were married, but my wife said no way! So glad i stayed faithful and patient as we have got to a stage in our relationship where the trust and bond is strong enough for us to explore this avenue as we have done recently.We are both loveing it and have never been closer. Right choice to say no in early stages of relationship ,think it would have broken us if we had done it sooner

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    thanks alot for your comments it is great to hear about other peoples personal experiences. Very glad you stayed faithful and in the end you got to experience it together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why are you on this site then???????????????????     dazi