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to hair or not to hair...down there
August 30 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
No hair, but have been scolded by my gyno as hair down there is for keeping germs at bay apparently. But the silky feel of soft skin is way more sensual. Waxing tends to make me bleed, shaving causes ingrown hairs, and a daily commitment..... IPL has been suggested...so Im currently looking into that.....much to the horror of my gyno. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm with you on this, as far as offending people, I seem to be good at that so screw it, here I go again, hate pubic hair, zero, zip, nil, nada, nought, zilch, will do me just fine. I do not hook up with hairy people, ever, not negotiable. I shave and love shaving, it's cheap, I can do it every day, or numerous times a day, whenever I need to so there's never that in between stage waiting for the next wax. As far as rash, never, I use soap and really sharp men's 3 blade razors, women's razors are crap, what's with that Being bald down there makes me feel every breath of wind, when air gets in mmm feels bloody good, and my clothing rubbing against it feels pretty damn good too, and I love watching myself pee haha I'm a weirdo Also love the smooth look and feel when with guys and for masturbating, I'd never go back to having hair. And to add, is there a sexier vision than a chick bent over so you can see her pussy from behind, I love that, it's the most beautiful sight
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm lazered down there, so still do get a few persistent hairs but easy to manage. I love being hairless, makes solo play a lot nicer. I like my playmate to be shaved. Love a clean surface to work on ;)
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Epilators ,pro done laser or diy laser at home - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Never tried waxing as have been told that it is quite painful. We shave and or trim, down there. Genital hair has a function, believe it or not . Something about trapping pheromones and also helps protect the pubic area. Recent studies now indicate that going completely hair free, down there, may make one more susceptible to STI's due to increased skin on skin contact, it seems. As far as your statement " purely a sexual area of our body for sexual enjoyment " . The genital area / organs are not purely about sexual enjoyment . Their primary function is about reproduction. But yes the good feelings during sex, do make it special and worth the effort - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
pretty much everything to do with our bodies is there for a function, whether we may realize it or not. We have evolved over time to be much less hairier than our forebears, but we still have hair in certain areas of the body for, presumably, functional concerns. Appearance-wise, I don't blink at either treatment for the pussy. Whether you are hairy or clean, I don't mind either. Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
I do have a preference for some pubic hair. I still won't say no to a Brazilian, which is entirely predictable.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Shave and like men at least trimmed if not shaved - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lasered, down there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I decided to go for a wax, havent had one for years as I prefer the convenience of shaving. Boy was it painful!!! The end result is great though. I still left a "landing strip", thats how I like it. I honestly think its up to the individual. I dont like men who are totally waxed, I prefer the manicured look. I just find hairy men sexy
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Hoping this isn't off topic and not over thinking ,but whilst I'm not sure about no pubes,contributing to stds,I'm thinking any little nicks and fresh cuts could be a prob ,at least the other methods have time to heal day s before and not be micro open wounds cos you just did yourselve in the shower just before you ran out the door at the last minute to avoid any stubble at all - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Written by mr b ,,so prolly a useless contribution,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...and will never ever forget the woman with the most beautiful little landing strip that tickled my nose. Yes, please...more. Assess yourself and do the most with what you've got...if it's like barbed wired then get the power lawn trimmer out! I personally prefer that consenting adult women don't look like pubescent children but then again...I prefer Habanero chillies in my guacamole', variety is the spice of life!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...used to think that smooth and bald down there was more attractive in a woman, but I'm not so sure anymore. I think that was just my porn illusions. Prickly stubble and ingrown hairs are not all they're cracked up to be. And as for my own presentation...much the same thoughts. Neat, tidy and trimmed looks and feels good. I'm a grown man. I feel like a grown man with short, soft hair in various places on my body.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've gotta say, I'm not a fan of a bald spadger, it's probably an age thing, I'm 56 now! BUT, it's got to be clean and smell good, I don't want any mingy motts, that smell like a bucket of prawns on a hot day. No bitter taste of pee crystals and no crusty crappy asses, with old bits of The West hanging out of it! Don't need Fem Fresh, just keep your most intimate parts clean and fresh each day, and have an extra freshen up, preferably a shower, if a lady is going out to play. I'll try not to have a fishy smelling old codgers cock, and vinegar scented sweaty wrinkly nuts too! Andy
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Well last time I ripped out the Epilator and de fuzzed the knutz,and I got caught up ,Jesus that hurt ,I got so angry at public hair and pain ,in for a penny in for a pound , I went everywhere ,good by pubes, you bastard things ,well now ,I realise ,I should have left some form of adult patch ,lol,but the hair being sparse ,fair ,and slow growing ,it's an awful desicion ,to let it grow back in the landing strip area for a patch and look like an under planted forest in a drought ,or just grow used to the 12 year old boy look ,lol MY LIFE ,lmao Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Shaving and waxing caused in grown hairs so now it's gone for good other than the few stubborn hairs and they're easy to maintain, I like a man trimmed neatly - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I prefer waxing myself, but if I'm being lazy I'll just wax some areas and shave others. My hair grows pretty slowly and isn't thick so I don't get the insta-stubble problem. I prefer waxed on others as well, it's a softer feel and I'd rather not get 'pash rash' from a prickly pussy.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I enjoy smooth. I agree with itouch about smooth pussy seen from behind 🙊 I also like the look of my smooth erect length, unadorned with hair. I shave. Any good tips on male waxing in Perth?
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lovman8
8 years ago
shaved pussies!waxed pussies!hairy pussies! You might say I'm obsessed with pussy!
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're nothing if you're not flexible smart man
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RHP User
8 years ago
I always keep myself trimmed, neat and tidy but not bald. I had only been with women who were completely smooth, but when I was finally with a woman with a full bush, not sure why but my god what a turn on! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
while at other times there may have been disagreements, theres no arguement here and you speak the same truth. --- "I do not hook up with hairy people, ever, not negotiable. I use soap and really sharp men's 3 blade razors, women's razors are crap" --- got that right, hairy sexy bits are just not attractive, or tasteworthy and exactly right about the razors, shameful marketing to women when the mens razors glide and adjust to the contour of the skin much better, shick extreme 3 sensitive do a jolly good job
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RHP User
8 years ago
Had two treatments but had to stop when I got really ill for a few months. So now I need to start again. I'm prone to ingrown hairs no matter what I do - shaving or waxing, exfoliating. Guys I prefer bare or trimmed.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Because I love the clean feel and as others have said it enhances my pleasure. I prefer shaved/manscaped in a partner but it's not a deal breaker, just a preference. I would never try to tell a partner what they should do with their pubic hair.
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
I'm prefer waxing and I'm lucky enough to have a wonderful boyfriend who happens to be a waxer. I like to keep some hair on my pubic mound, but lovely and smooth underneath. 💋
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Personally I wax and I refuse to shave. I also sometimes have hair if I decide to grow it for awhile. On men I definitely prefer hair. Balls hairless is a bonus but not a deal breaker for me if they aren't. I don't find completely hairless attractive at all on men.
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RHP User
8 years ago
When I joined RHP the first couple of guys I met were waxed completely bald. Thats fine but I now know I feel much more sexual with a guy with some body hair. It is just my preference of course but it feels more natural and just does something to me...
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love licking a wet pussy until a women explodes in my mouth and a smooth pussy makes it so much easier to run my tongue up and down a woman's pussy and down to her ass hehe mmmmm
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'pokemeow' while at other times there may have been disagreements, theres no arguement here and you speak the same truth. --- "I do not hook up with hairy people, ever, not negotiable. I use soap and really sharp men's 3 blade razors, women's razors are crap" --- got that right, hairy sexy bits are just not attractive, or tasteworthy and exactly right about the razors, shameful marketing to women when the mens razors glide and adjust to the contour of the skin much better, shick extreme 3 sensitive do a jolly good job omg that's what I use, they're the best razors. I've tried other brands and don't like them. And have you noticed that the smaller packs, don't ask me why, but the packs of 3 (or 3 or bonus ones) aren't as good/sharp as the larger packs of 10 or whatever (might be 8 plus some bonus ones, can't remember)? If I can, I always buy the bigger packs. Maybe I just encountered a few not so sharp razors, but it happened a few times. Anyway, Yes they are really good quality and give me a super smooth shave, soft and smooth as a, don't think I can say that on here, but you know
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RHP User
8 years ago
No hair for me, him or her, but if worn correctly hair on him can be sexy - Posted from rhpmobile
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ReyandJean
8 years ago
Not many fans of tweezer-cleaned pussies, then? (most men are too wussie to go that route). Takes a bit of time but the result is smooth with less ingrown hairs.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ReyandJean' Not many fans of tweezer-cleaned pussies, then? (most men are too wussie to go that route). tweezers are so slow, save them for cleaning up the odd one here or there when the wax doesn't get them.
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me strictly zero on Ma butt or anywhere near my private parts the the front just a little nicely trimmed and waxed sides, it's clean and easily maintained, I don't want to look like yogi bear.
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RHP User
8 years ago
......You can give a woman far more pleasure if she is smooth !
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I prefer no hair on myself. I love a man with a clean shaven face too, so I can feel the smoothness of it against me while he's busy going down on me. It's such a turn on.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have had people offer to give me a trim and threaten to tie me down to shave me. I love receiving oral but would not trim or shave her for anyone. I love her the way she was intended to be. Plus I am too lazy. I love giving oral and prefer pubic hair on men but it doesn't bother me if there isn't any. My focus is on the cock. I haven't been with a woman so I have no opinion about what I might prefer in that context.
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Sawadee
8 years ago
The sight of pubic hair is and always has been a turn on for me. After a run of clean shaven ( which I don't mind btw ) it was nice to see one particular lady I know sporting a natural but neatly trimmed pubic area. One of the biggest turn on's is when you slowly pull down your ladies panties and her pubics start to appear... I love the intisapation.. But then again , I like the bare look also.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a preference for lovers with have some pubic hair, for surey. Natural or somewhat tamed. But then, I don't mind a lover with a beard either. Or a man bun for that matter. I don't mind the occasional hair in my throat. Means I've done something fun and minxy :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
No no no....shaved or waxed...don't mind a little fluff on men or women as long as it's away from my dive area..lol....oh and a 2 day regrowth on a man is fabulicious to ride on...only unshaved that I accept is that of my Doms.....that's my preferred preferences - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
(KC72) I used to shave when I first joined the swinging scene and really hated the regrowth so ended up shaving every day. That was a real pain so got my first wax and haven't looked back. The hair grows back soft and doesn't irritate. I keep hair on my pubic mound, waxing the rest including my arse and that's my preference for my partner. I do shape my public mound by taking a bit of the sides and giving it a trim. As for my partner I prefer more than less. I love public hair but find it cleaner keeping the undercarriage smooth so to say :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yep, sorry but I'm a bald lover! Do not like bushy balls, nice smooth soft balls are awesome!! Nothing better than sucking a nice clean dick that's got no stray hairs stuck around their knob!!! And I don't like my pussy hairy either! I shave but always looking for an alternative!!! Sick of ingrown hairs! But it'll do for now!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I prefer trimmed for myself these days as have had a nasty run of infected hairs and boils in the past. Which really kill any sex life you might want not to mention being extremely painful. - Posted from rhpmobile
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BODD01
8 years ago
IPL for the girl and short clipper for the boy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm a rare one... who doesn't really give AF.. as long as it's presentable; trimmed/groomed short n not a bloody forest... i don't care 😊 in fact it can be a bit sexy i think - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Definitely smooth. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing better than eating a clean hair free pussy - Posted from rhpmobile
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codsworth
8 years ago
I don't have any hard locked preferences as long as you are clean im a very happy man I love the look and feel of a smooth girl I love the cute styles and designs of trimmed girls I love the natural look of bushy girls wading through a thick forest is a distraction at times and not really my favorite but as long as i cannot smell the last 30 times you went to the gym, i don't care how the gift is wrapped I prefer to keep myself trimmed, the thought of you getting poked in the face by wire and bristles is a turn off for me I would shave or wax, but all my lovers have made it abundantly clear that i am to have at least some fuzz on me so trimmed it is
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Damn it ,epilatorwd all the bastard hairs out last week ,scrub scrub ,every second day ,all good ,woke up this morning with what mays well be a million ingrowns or something ,that is just awful and three freakin huge red bumps ,that aren't going any where in a hurry ,gawd damn hate pubic hair ,it will be the death of me Any suggestions to get rid of the red bumps besides a vigorous exfoliation ,and a dark lit room ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Since I was a young teen, I chose to remove my hair, in the most unusual way of using tweezers. I'm not sure wax was around then? LOL! And Nair was going nowhere near there. I've gotten lazy the last few years and let that bush grow wild and it's like a holiday when I get around to it. Takes a while but it's long enough to pull out by hand which is a lot easier on the hand. Endorphins rush in from the first moment of pain and the surrounding areas go somewhat numb. It works for me and I love the fresh smoothness that lasts several weeks with the tending of the few new hairs until they build up their numbers again. And the growing back in too :-D Peachy
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codsworth
8 years ago
boobs or bust, you cannot "get rid of" the red bumps i made you a quick guide on how to not get them in the first place the keys to a good shave get it hot get the skin hot get the blade hot a hot shower or a hot bath does wonders this opens the pores and allows a cleaner cut and a smoother finish as the skin cools it shrinks and pushes what was not cut out past the surface (instead of hiding under it causing red bumps) lubricate this is a answer to many questions on RHP lol, but its true , lube lube lube if your going to try shaving creams ALWAYS! do a test patch first your hubbys cream may do wonders on his face, but it can burn the shit out of your genitals so put a small dolop on your finger and rub it off to the side near your bikini line leave it for a few mins then wash it off, if it stings or burns or itches in the slightest DO NOT USE IT spot test any chemical you are going to put down there i recommend hair conditioner or shaving oil, they are often PH neutral or close to it and dont have high amounts of aggressive chemicals , but still test, always test using a lube allows for smoother interaction between the razor and skin, leaving it to do its job better instead of getting stuck to you and causing problems it also keeps the blades sharper for longer blade quality throw all the "for girls" and "for body" razors away they are shit and the blades blunt so fast you might as well not have em i use Gillette fusion manual, my beard is extremely rough grows really fast i have had a rough time of shaving for years as i blunt blades in less than a week cheap blades i blunt after one use and i cant use electric shavers because they just end up pulling hair instead of cutting it when using lube and the proper techniques i can have a fusion blade last for 4 months or more there was some razors mentioned prior that are also not bad technique do not shave how you see it done on the tv ads the positions they show are to make the products look sexy, with men holding razors hamfisted and girls legs all elongated holding it with two fingers, this is flat out wrong and will only do you damage you want the rubber section before the blades to make full contact on the skin before reaching the cut area this means you need the angle the face of the blade to a level horizontal to your skin , yes the swivel head helps but its not designed to deal with the extreme angles they show, its designed to allow the blade to follow the contour of your body so you don't get cuts, thats all its for the rubber grips pull the skin back and allow the hair to spring forward and into the blades this allows a very precise cut and helps prevent issues like red bumps and ingrown hairs the best way i have found to achieve this is to hold the razor like a pen but backwards so the blade end rests on your thumb and the tip of the handle is aimed by your bottom two fingers very precise and gets the blades in low and on target http://i.imgur.com/TpHAIaq.jpg http://i.imgur.com/csp4Y0Y.jpg like that , you can pitch and roll the blade very easy with your bottom fingers while the thumb provides a stable platform for control you will find a grip that works for you, but the most important part is you get the blade in horizontal and close to you you will need to get your hands out of the way for that to happen also a big part of technique is shaving against the grain you have probably heard this a lot, but ive found that many people have no idea what it means (nobody taught me either) before you do anything, run your fingers through your hair do up, down , left and right most directions will feel smooth-ish you will feel that in a certain direction the hair resists or pushes back against you more that is the direction you need to shave in be aware, the grain can change direction multiple times within one area so have a good feel around and map your self out (for example i go down on my neck and up on my cheeks but down on my chin and sideways behind my jaw) repair issues like ingrown hairs or red bumps are products of a bad shave the red bumps are caused by a cut hair that has been cut and has fallen below the skin but is still long enough to push into the skin, there is no cure for these bump other than to wait for them to push back through the skin and then shave properly it is my recommendation that you let them grow out, wait perhaps a extra week after the red bumps have fully gone then shave shaving over the top of red bumps will only irritate the skin and make it swell , making them into wounds or just hang around for longer a ingrown hair is the same as a red bump, but instead of pushing out of the skin it bends over and grows into you prevent them in the same way you prevent red bumps hope this helps people if i wasn't camera shy id make a video tutorial
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RHP User
8 years ago
😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'boobs_or_bust' Damn it ,epilatorwd all the bastard hairs out last week ,scrub scrub ,every second day ,all good ,woke up this morning with what mays well be a million ingrowns or something ,that is just awful and three freakin huge red bumps ,that aren't going any where in a hurry ,gawd damn hate pubic hair ,it will be the death of me Any suggestions to get rid of the red bumps besides a vigorous exfoliation ,and a dark lit room ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile use a manual razor, I never have a problem with ingrown hairs, I have one that happened when I first removed the forest lol but since then, the hair doesn't grow back enough for that to happen. I'm slightly confused why this continues to happen for people. But I shave every day, sometimes twice, it only takes a few seconds, I'm so used to doing it, just whizz over, easy as, no problem at all. My advice would be to use manual razors and see your doctor about the ingrown ones you have
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Missb4u
8 years ago
Paw paw ointment works pretty good I found
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RHP User
8 years ago
I personally trim up top and shave the balls, just to keep things nice and tidy :) As for my preference on women, I find it totally depends on the woman I'm with. Practically, the less hair around the vulva the more pleasant the experience of giving oral, but otherwise I appreciate both the hairy and the hairless! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing better than munching on a nicely waxed pussy and ass. Im completely free of hair. Hate it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't mind well trimmed but bushy not really haha Pussies are cute gotta see them 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are both waxed and love it my waxing has gotten to the point that there isn't much growing back so winning lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love pubic hair! Maybe not a crazy forest! ahhh who am i kidding, i love it all!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
My general stance for my body hair is "only what's needed, only as needed." I'm lucky to not be especially hairy; I only have to shave my legs like once a week anyway. If it were completely up to me, I'd just leave my pubic hair alone, but I generally remove it out of consideration for the people spending time downstairs. I will say, though, that I'm far more conscientious when I'm with girls than when I'm with guys. As for what I prefer, bare is always appreciated when I'm with another girl. Having said that, though, I've yet to meet a vag I didn't like. With guys, I'm not super bothered. My last two boyfriends were bare by their own preference, but as long as it's not out of control, I'm totally fine. I definitely prefer beardless men, though! There are few things worse than a red chin the day after a great makeout session.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sometimes i leave the landing strip in place but i much prefer to be hair free
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was bald looong before it became cool and like to swing between mainly that and some natural scaping these days. Feels and smells good... but most importantly, so much fun to go back to back to smooth and delicious after the itchy annoyingness of hair down there. :-Peachy
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