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to kiss or not to kiss

June 22 2020

flying the newbie flag asking what people think about kissing when swapping partners

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    For me.... if someone says they don't/kiss ..... swipe left and onto the next. Kissing is soooo intimate and without it, I may as well stay home and watch Netflix.....because sex without intimacy is just not worth it to me. Interesting to see other people's thoughts. Including your own OP, Do you or dont you?

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    We all write our own rule book . As we all know it’s about finding like minded people that we are attracted to . No one can dictate to you as a couple what’s appropriate for the two of you . For us a no kissing rule would mean a most respectful no thank you . We find kissing erotic and essential in creating intimacy . A

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Agree with FF 100% and couldn't have said it better ourselves. We're not looking to just have another couple in our pants, we can offer that to each other just fine. We're looking for connection and passion when we play with others and kissing falls into that passion category.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Kissing is erotic

  • try1ngit

    try1ngit

    4 years ago

    Yes from us, a very nice part of foreplay and to get things rolling

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    Those that are against kissing when swapping are best avoided due to insecurity issues that are many times justified due to previous history behaviour.More often than not they drag 3rd parties into their shit by jealousy or by their other half stretching that imposed boundary in quiet protest. Approach with caution....

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    The first time we ventured out and Mrs S played with the guy , thier kissing was a important part of the build up to penetration. Being our first time , l wasn't prepared for the emotion . But l quickly realised that one without the other would be so cold.. Funny thing was ' the kissing' although this stirred my emotion the penetration ' no problem... Go figure.. As Fiesty said.. you may as well stay home and watch Netflix if theres no kissing..

  • click_lick

    click_lick

    4 years ago

    Kissing... definitely. Is there a better way to start things?

  • cplusdee

    cplusdee

    4 years ago

    Watching C kiss another guy, it’s what makes the whole thing so powerful, there’s so much intimacy and emotion in the act.. definite yes, expect to be equal parts turned on and challenged by it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Kissing is definitely a must for me as it’s a turn on! If the other person is against it then they are not right for me. Everyone is entitled to their own choices if they do or don’t and so be it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Swinging for us is about being intimate with others, we could always buy a couple of blowup dolls and use those or watch a bit of porn and get ourselves off fantasising about the intamacy we aren't getting. But that is what we enjoy from the swing, maybe I have been harsh because everyone gets something different from the experience...

  • Sizequeen_HW

    Sizequeen_HW

    4 years ago

    a no kissing rule is a deal breaker for us......its such important and erotic part of the dynamic

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    You got that right ... " expect to be challenged " l was ' but common sense told me we shouldn't be there if theres no intimacy ? If l dont kiss you ' im not that into you 'so what's the point ? May as well watch Netflix..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    So the original "newbie"question to kiss or not to kiss - is that because you are unsure as to what you feel comfortable with?From personal experience kissing is a must do.I have met some couples who dont want to kiss on the mouth - I dont understand that, the whole point of meeting someone new is to get as much pleasure as possible and kissing is certainly an intimate turn on.

  • Midnight6

    Midnight6

    4 years ago

    Kissing each other's tell how special you are 😘. Nothing beats slow sensual kisser

  • kisslids

    kisslids

    4 years ago

    Kissing is the best Kiss me so rough or light and mild kiss me with your lips that'll make me go wild

  • PLEASUREFEST

    PLEASUREFEST

    4 years ago

    Quoting 'Mantoy69' So the original "newbie"question to kiss or not to kiss - is that because you are unsure as to what you feel comfortable with?From personal experience kissing is a must do.I have met some couples who dont want to kiss on the mouth - I dont understand that, the whole point of meeting someone new is to get as much pleasure as possible and kissing is certainly an intimate turn on. hello mantoy69 a couple that we meet asked no kissing as in a massage parlor they dont allow so i thought i would ask as to what couples thought about it

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    4 years ago

    Kissing is an important part of the whole experience. Over the years we have encountered a few people who don't indulge in kissing but they haven't made that known upfront. Finding out just before play starts is not ideal and while we carried on with the play, no kissing makes it very awkward and kind of clinical. People who use the excuse that "kissing is too intimate and personal" doesn't stand up , after all you can't get more personal than burying your face in someone's crotch.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    ... most want kissing with thier sex ? Seems most need some sort of stimulus before taking the next step . If you're worthwhile fucking , then you must be worthwhile kissing.

  • wildcrazyloving

    wildcrazyloving

    4 years ago

    I think kissing is far more intimate than sex and understand why some couples prefer not to engage in this interaction.. Though in saying this, emotional connection can manifest either way. Some of the best sexy memories revolve around the kisses.

  • Bllonde1

    Bllonde1

    4 years ago

    Kissing men or women is an erotic and passionate part of sex. Without it doesn’t seem right and missing out on some key fore playing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Interesting question! Some sex workers dont allow kissing, but you can fuck them any which way (and they, you). So that just shows how much more intimate kissing is (IMHO) I'd prefer kissing to no kissing, for sure.

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    4 years ago

    Each to their own but we like kissing. If couples don’t, that’s cool but weren’t not interested.

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    4 years ago

    Kissing is a must for us. We love the intimacy and passion that kissing provides. To us kissing is the beginning of foreplay.Respect always to those who don't want to kiss but it is a playbreaker for us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    It’s a must to get the best sex