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to the masters on here
January 23 2015
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Missb4u
10 years ago
referring to a master as in a Dom? You just know it's in everything they say and do
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because dom/sub relationship isnt about dominating physically. Its more a mind control thing. But ultimately, its the sub in control because they allow it.Im not into that lifestyle personally but am quite fasinated in the dynamics of it all. Seems to be lots of ppl claim to be dom/masters on their profiles, and from having conversations with them, I still didnt gain much understanding and I think a few ppl just label themselves as doms or masters because they like a bit of rough sex.But its much more than that.I really enjoy learning and understanding different kinks and lifestyles. Looking forward with interest to some serious views/ replies on this thread.
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lovman8
10 years ago
I'm no expert but if you find yourself automatically curtsying , bowing your head in his presence, and always addressing him as sir then you have found the real deal.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I can see where this one is going to be heading... Unless you are talking about "I dream of Jeannie. In which case I think the answer is Larry Hagman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
10 years ago
The Glow "Now all the masters knows that you need the glow, You need the glow, the glow to grow. If you love to live, you live to love, Hah, you got to move to the upper level. Cos When you got the glow, there aint no stopping, What you want to do. Hah, oh. To reach that upper level, Your mind, body and soul must be one. It's a sacrifice, it takes hard work, It's a way of life. When you got the glow, you feel the one, (You feel the one) When you got the glow, Your body's gold, (Your body's gold) So don't let go, of the power of elevation. (Power) (Talk about that glow) Shine on, Get the glow, Get the glow, Get the glow, grow. Everybody knows that you need the glow, You need the glow, the glow to grow. And if you love to live, you live the life the way you love, The love you take the gift. Cos when you got the glow, you see it on your face, You feel it in your head, people understand, That you've got the glow, and they're beware, Cos the power's there when you got the glow. (shine on) Well, when you reach that upper level, Your mind body and soul will be one. Hah! It's a sacrifice, it takes hard work, It's a way of life. When you got the glow, you feel the one, When you got the glow, Your body's gold, So don't let go, of the power of elevation." Willy Hutch Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
to simpleneed2 I am not talking about a tv show but I want to here from real masters
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have to check out fetlife for that. The serious ones prob wouldnt even bother with answering a forum topic. Plus you forgot to say "please sir" haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry redhot but on past experience here, the likely respondents will be: 1. A bunch of under 30 males who will claim to be masters. They're not, They just look at a lot of porn and think if they use this line and slap a buttock or two mid coitus, they can pick up chicks to make them do that stuff they see in said porn. 2. A bunch of over 30 males who claim to be masters and tell the under 30's to shut up because they have been doing it for decades and only they have the experience to know what is and is not a true master. They're not. Their assertions will be beyond the capacity of anyone to prove or disprove but they will insist it must be true because they say it. But think - if there were that many asters around 20 years ago, the Tool Shed would be more popular than Bunnings. 3. A bunch of people will offer their own definitions of who is and is not a master, based on their own idiosyncratic view of the world, many of which will be inherently contradictory or involve criteria which are ineffable. They're not masters, they are just Cogito Ergo Dom. 4. A bunch of person will reject all of these definitions, and then refuse to accept any definitions. Of anything. Because definitions just limit reality and you can't impose words on people. People will just be free to be themselves. They're not masters. They are anarcho-syndicalists, who probably take turns to be top or bottom depending on a popular vote of the commune every morning except in cases of group sex which require a two thirds majority and only binding for 24 hours. 5. Finally you have a bunch of people who will engage in a debate in which there is no agreement as to terms of reference or direct rebuttal of points. Historical references will be made to support their arguments based on what they last saw on the History Channel and have no relationship to academic research based on actual primary sources (would it really hurt if people read Max Hastings or Carlo D'Este every now and then?). They will deem themselves to be the winner of the argument by going the longest and strongest (at least they can do that somewhere, I suppose) in the posts so that they have the last word. Always. Especially if anyone posts something new, which has nothing to do with their debate a month ago. They're not masters. Because a true master would be having their slave write up that stuff.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of the anarcho-syndicalists,I wish to remind you SN,that tomorrow is your turn for being bottom😜xxFreya
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madotara69
10 years ago
Tell me, if I held your clitoris between my teeth, we have a stand off keeping eye contact, how long do you think we will last before you buckle and lose all sense of composure? Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only with a collar can a women be truly free - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
To start with your talking unusual dynamics between Master and sub.A good Master has control without a whip and can control his sub with a look or words.Yet that is not always the case as some subs like the whip so much sothey will push hard to be put on a cross/stock or bed and enjoy the pain.One of my subs loves doing just that but also will take the whip to otherguys and have them serve her.I do very well with my subs but to explain what makes a good Dom ishard but I must be doing it right.Many ladies who seek this type of relationship fail as they meet brutalguys who say there Doms but are fakes.Some of these are wife bashers or feel superior to whip and abuse and the sad part is women who meet these men guys fail to take the journeyinto this fetish.
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Naughty_nature
10 years ago
Everyone who plays dom/sub will say that their the real deal who cares as long as the it gives the ones involved what they want/need. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And I love to learn and understand other ppls kinks, especially how they started, and what was the key that opened that lifestyle for them. I question, because I want to explore my sexuality a little deeper basically.So im on another site, one that caters to very different or extreme lifestyles, and chatting with a few ppl on there ( yesterday actually) and I know I could never be a sub, just not my personality. But one self professed "dom daddy?" explained to me " even as a sub, giving yourself over to a dom is a gift that has to be earnt by the dom" I liked how he explained it.Still not my cup of tea though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I lived a BDSM lifestyle for about 10 years. I was for the most part, a service sub. So I guess the place I come from is one of a decade of personal experience. I have since moved on from this lifestyle choice (note - I said "lifestyle" - not just in the bedroom on Saturday nights - my households were structured and being in service to a Master was the way that I lived). So, how do you tell.... ANYONE can and will make claim to being a Master. The question should really be how to you tell a *good* Master?! In short the answer can only come from *you*. Is it a Master you seek or a Top? This can change the answer/response somewhat. Either way, lets start with a very basic bit of advice - a good Dom/Master/Top will offer you RESPECT. Respect for your LIMITS as well as respect for your person. The kinky play you do, will be discussed in detail PRIOR to playing (refer things like Fetish Consent Forms etc); and you will be given opportunity for CONSENT and a SAFEWORD. All play with a newbie sub/bottom will be SAFE SANE AND CONSENTUAL. If its not, or he pushes you past your limits after you say a safeword - RUN FOR THE HILLS! I do recall years ago seeing a really good website, I am not sure if it is still running or if I am allowed to put links in here - but try a google search for a website called "Albany Power Exchange" (or APEX).. I recall it had some really informative articles. There is no real comprehensive way I can answer this for you. A good Master is really defined by you - what you think is great, I might really hate for example. Just play safe - there are a LOT of predators under the banner of 'Masters'. Reference check people. Play safe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you have just read 50 Shades of Grey.... FFS.... It's all shite. Don't even.... just.... don't.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have the power, not me...... I am blessed in your presence.....thankyou!
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RHP User
10 years ago
You forgot.. 6. Forty-something men who dismiss any other commentary because it is not the correct way to debate. They will rely on other people's ideas because no opinion is valid unless it's published in a reputable journal, or is directly and correctly cited from someone else's published works. None of it matters because, based on their extensive Googling of primary sources, they have already posted the one correct answer. I have despatched the slaves to the library, and will get back to you when they have found me an opinion.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
#havagoyamug
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chevtrek
10 years ago
The difference between abusive and a Master
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RHP User
10 years ago
A good master requires a good sub! I've found I've learned more from an experienced submissive than I have from other masters or Doms. If you really want to learn and be good, learn from a submissive because then you can truly understand the power dynamic between a Dom/sub. A true master through the way they act, think and behave will always have their submissive willing to submit because of the way they make them feel and always wanting more! Just my thoughts - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree265' Because dom/sub relationship isnt about dominating physically. Its more a mind control thing. But ultimately, its the sub in control because they allow it.Im not into that lifestyle personally but am quite fasinated in the dynamics of it all. Seems to be lots of ppl claim to be dom/masters on their profiles, and from having conversations with them, I still didnt gain much understanding and I think a few ppl just label themselves as doms or masters because they like a bit of rough sex.But its much more than that.I really enjoy learning and understanding different kinks and lifestyles. Looking forward with interest to some serious views/ replies on this thread. This was a great response. She's completely right in that the sub in any healthy D/s relationship has a great deal of the power. I probably wouldn't say ALL but certainly a lot. I will say that any healthy (and i stress *healthy*) D/s relationship is totally all about love and respect. Yes, to the outsiders and uninitiated it may seem like power and control and domination and little more but there is so much subtlety going on. The trust involved on the sub's part to submit, the love the dom has for the sub (due to what the sub gives to them/does for them).
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RHP User
10 years ago
My bloke is a Master do you know a man that has an enormous penis??? He he.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Real Masters do. Wannabes talk. As with everything. If you're a real art enthusiast, you don't sit around wondering if you really are an art enthusiast, or telling people how enthusiastic you really are about art. You just get out of bed every morning and hit the floor already enthusing. When you meet a real Master, you'll know. His mere presence will announce it.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I am a fet member and I can walk into any munch with at least 2to 4 subs.If I was not a real Master I could not do that so,I must be doing it right. JessicaM What the hell has penis size got to do with it and if that was the case I would get know where as I am only better than average.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think I saw one today he was down the beach with a dog whistle and collar and lead and treats not sure if it worked as his bitch would not do the recall. now my German Shepard, he comes with a snap of my fingers...but then I am just a little pussy cat. Someone said that the woman is in control in these situations and that is true, she allows what goes on if not then its abuse and the guy goes to jail with a bit of luck. After all its just a mind game to enhance part of your life. took me a while to work that one out, and I have been owned and I do like alpha males, but one girls alpha is another woman's push over, its subjective. Some men tend to type themselves an alpha life, take them off the computer and your sitting in front of a guy that only disappoints you. Others do not have to say a thing, and you really only can tell in the flesh what the dynamics will be. I found this when on bdsm and other sites like it and then met a few guys. I found men in the usa, tended to be more of what I was looking for but after a while that got boring as bat shit as well. I mean me and a ball gag.....now that is cruel and unusual punishment.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' I am a fet member and I can walk into any munch with at least 2to 4 subs.If I was not a real Master I could not do that so,I must be doing it right. What you mean is..... you walk into Munch... and come out with 2-4 subs HAHAHA
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RHP User
10 years ago
why have some of you made fun of me i just want a to know some things about master,s
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Quoting 'redhot666' why have some of you made fun of me i just want a to know some things about master,s I have not made fun of you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nobody is making fun of you. They are just having a bit of fun with the subject. Its the forums, its for fun as well as information. They play nice, really they do. 😄
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whats a real master, is there some uni degree, where one gets a Bachelor in Mastership, and does some sort of internship thing. or do Masters progress from being a wannabe. If no one wants a wannabe, then where will future Masters come from?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I went through the whole thread and can't find a comment that is making fun of you...making fun of each other yes...and I think there have been some excellent responses on a topic that has people debating their different points of view...good topic Red xx Freya
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi i would like to say iam sorry i misunderstood some things so plesae for give me
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi i just want say sorry i misunderstand your post on to the masters on here
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inspirit
10 years ago
Educate yourself in the ART of a D/s - PLEASURE - Everyone can give you advise, though it is up too you how you proceed with with it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The Master has power. He that takes power has power, power is control. That power is not a responsibility, it does not have conditions, or rules. There is no contract and its not a role. All that power has, is a need, that need is only for more power. Apart from that you are just a normal human, you may be sub, dom, switch, top, bottom, rich, poor, big, small or equal. You can love and care, lust and trust, feel sorrow and loss, have pride and shame. I have yet to meet a Master.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Would you like to do what I ask?
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RHP User
10 years ago
nothing to prove and knows who he is and looks after and cares for his sub's every need both sexual and non-sexual.. he/she takes control and brooks no opposition and has a list of punishments for crimes if necessary and only uses them when and if necessary - they often go unused
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think our different views on what a 'master & slave' or similarly 'dominant & submissive', creates a significant amount of confusion. In either relationship there has to be a high degree of trust and faith and vulnerability! This is where the care comes into play from both parties; the caring for the other in the relationship means hurt or exposure wont occur unless it is desired. There also has to be an acceptance of the other regardless of their desires. Critical to the stability of the relationship is a clear and concise communication style the lets the other person know exactly where they are at and what you are thinking. in some of these scenarios, the Dom takes control and makes decision during the role play (or in life if it is the lifestyle), and the Sub acquiesces his or her decision making to the Dom - this is a very black and white system. The alternative 'grey' system is problematic because one is uncertain of which decisions who makes and where the boundaries are.. just my thoughts..
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'redhot666' hi i would like to say iam sorry i misunderstood some things so plesae for give me I don't think there are any real masters on here RedHotPie. Again you should have a look at Fetlife were the forums discuss these issues in detail. How to find a good master, what to look out for, the mistakes other women have made so that you don't make the same ones, etc. Everyone else who has commented on this thread are just jokers. Being funny, but of course that doesn't help you. There is a section on this forum for BDSM as well with some good topics. Have you looked in there?
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RHP User
10 years ago
meeka100 thank you for your nice commented an i am now on alt it has help me to know that he was not a real master just a guy that like t control me
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wasnt being a joker.And I think there were some good explanations from some of the posters. I was seriously interested in the op's question, as Im a curious little thing. But after chatting to self proffessed dom's on fetlife and a few of the answers here, Ive come to the conclusion that its a very personal thing, and you will only know them to be " true for what you are looking for" when you find Them. Its a connection you will find when you are searching.To try and explain to someone what a true master is, is pretty much the same as trying to explain to someone what an orgasm feels like, or childbirth. Well thats my thinkin' on the matter anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For i have no expereince as a master.. nor as a sub. I dont even know what a Master should be, and how he/she should act out as a Master. I know im a Dominant in "bed" but that doesnt make me a "Master" I DO agree with Meeka100. Fetlife is a site that explores mostly on this Master/Sub avenue. It is not my cup of tea, but i heard wonderful reviews about it. ~Sparty~
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RHP User
10 years ago
oh wait.... There you are chev!!! I didn't see you hiding there....coming out to play?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The Chevonator has already given his words of wisdom. So this thread has already been Chev'd
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have met Chev though he does not know it was me (blindman) and most of what he says in here (RHP forums) is, as far as I can see, correct. I have also talked to his young subs and will attest to the fact that they are young, sexy, and subs. Power is not always where one thinks and Dom Sub roles have very interesting dynamics. Who has the power? definitely never the one that says they have.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't wake Chev, he says the most interesting things when he's dreaming :-P. Spicy :-D
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RHP User
10 years ago
You do say the funniest things. Have you thought about pursuing a role in comedy? Spicy :-D
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Now you have me thinking when did we meet --- Anyway don't give out details to other members likespice or sir stir for as long as they have no clue people like me get more girls.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't tell, but a hint for where I last met you, there where a lot of pirates, and you used to go to the deltas, and I went there at least once a week for the past 4 years. Though I did not know it was you at the time, we have met there a few times as well. But for now I will leave you guessing. If we meet again I will let you know its me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm gonna cum in my pants soon if you keep turning me on like this.... 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
just don't play blindmans bluff LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' I have met Chev though he does not know it was me (blindman) and most of what he says in here (RHP forums) is, as far as I can see, correct. I have also talked to his young subs and will attest to the fact that they are young, sexy, and subs. Power is not always where one thinks and Dom Sub roles have very interesting dynamics. Who has the power? definitely never the one that says they have. LOL. I can hear a collective gasp from the crowd.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chrek (oops, sorry chevtrek, but I just love an abbreviated name) and a blindman. Spicy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Firstly, when you ask about a master, are you referring to a Master/Slave relationship or a Dom/Sub one? In a Master/Slave relationship, The slave is totally dependent on the Master and he(she) controls everything about the slave, from what to wear, what to eat, to what to do etc. Ideally they live together and the Slave has a weak personality and a strong desire to submit completely to their* Master. A Slave can only leave their Master if their Master allows it, not otherwise. I am sure there are circumstances where a Master will have multiple slaves, but normally they only have one. On the other hand, a Dom/sub scenario is a totally different dynamic where the sub gives control to the Dom, but the sub is the one who is in control! The sub says what she(he) is willing to do and if the Dom wants their sub to experience a particular, say a sexual experience, a good Dom will always ask the Sub first. A sub can leave a Dom anytime, even if collared, and a Dom can release their Sub at anytime. In any Master/Slave relationship or Dom/Sub relationship there is a contract** between the particpants. This contract is either verbal or written. These contracts would include expectations of both the Master/Dom and the Slave/Sub and what is expected of each party, safe words, no limit zones, limits etc. But before a contract is entered into or play commences, the Master/Dom will interview their potential Slave/Sub to see if they are suited to the lifestyle. Hopefully this helps to clear any confusion which may have arisen from some posts on here. Spicy * their refers to either "he" or "she" ** contracts tend to be verbal rather than written as it is illegal to have a "slave" Postscript. Do not confuse a sub with a prostitute/hooker/escort/callgirl or a sugar daddy's lolly, as described in one post on page 2
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RHP User
10 years ago
between a good Master and an abuser? Spicy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry but your jeousy is shinning through there. Maybe Chevy can give you a few tips on how to pick up women.
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RHP User
10 years ago
is not a rainbow pavilion full of wise and wonderful Doms and Masters. It has it's share of wannabes and predators.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll just check my dictionary on the meaning of jealousy. Opens Collins dictionary , turns to J. J... J... Ja... Jarhead... Je....Je...Jerk, oops, too far... Ahhh, here we are... Jealousy n. pl. jealousies 1. "A scornful or derisive attitude to an individual or group who write total and utter balderdash in forum articles or blogs". Damn it Meeka, I guess I am jealous of Chrek :-P But that also makes me jealous of one or two other posters on here as well ;-). Spicy :-)
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chevtrek
10 years ago
How a ladies question became a mud sling match.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
Sorry redhot666
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is diddums a bit upset? Seriously mate, if ya gunna post a whole lot of frog spawn, get ready for the shit that's gunna follow. Now, would you like a tissue? Spicy :-P
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chevtrek
10 years ago
This guy wants to push the ladies away no wounder he is single.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But your immaturity is shining through in truckloads. Are you upset because I tell you that your post is utter rubbish. Note I have not criticised you as a person, I have commented on your post, and the ridiculousness of blindman's post as well. So darling, I was wondering, why are you casting aspersions on me being single and what has it to do with this forum topic? Spicy (rolling up sleeves)
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chevtrek
10 years ago
I could say so much here but wont lower my dignity.But will say this others have sent direct messages to me on your commentsso you should think more about your attitude in forums.
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RHP User
10 years ago
... With laughter. Honestly Chrek, DILLIGAF. Spicy :-P
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chevtrek
10 years ago
but I am not the one showing a small pecker in my pantsto try to get a woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'passionNSpice' But your immaturity is shining through in truckloads. Are you upset because I tell you that your post is utter rubbish. Note I have not criticised you as a person, I have commented on your post, and the ridiculousness of blindman's post as well. So darling, I was wondering, why are you casting aspersions on me being single and what has it to do with this forum topic? Spicy (rolling up sleeves) I assure you I told the truth. I will say nothing else about it as what happens in the real world should stay in the real world and it was just a chance encounter. I only made the comment in defense of Chev's honesty. Many say Chev is having us on with his stories, but what I saw and heard was in line with what he writes here. I was as surprised as any as they do seem far fetched. I purposely did not let him know I knew him as I wanted to catch him out, but there was not even one inconsistency. So cut him some slack, it is not often that I meet people that conform to their online image, a refreshing change. BTW Chev, I was the one drawing dragons on tits...
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Takes a comfy seat.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
now I know At the pirate party
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your written oath, "cross my heart and hope to die, 'cos..........", Can't remember the rest. Nice to see that Chrek has got his bitch to come on over and help him. Such a shame that you, like he, not only have no idea about Masters and doms/subs, but that the two of you want to keep on showing up your ignorance. Seriously hun-neeee, move on! Spicy (trying to wipe look of incredulous disbelief of his face)
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RHP User
10 years ago
The depth of your shallowness knows no bounds. And casting aspersions on the size of my lovely yummy cock? DILLIGAF Now possum, off you go, you're not needed here anymore. Spicy (waves a fond farewell)
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chevtrek
10 years ago
We girls didHey can we bitch slap you .Kisses from the girls old spice.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
The girls do get carried away.but serious if you show a small pecker your not going to get a womanand besides if you believe that's what a girl wants ,you need help.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'passionNSpice' Your written oath, "cross my heart and hope to die, 'cos..........", Can't remember the rest. Nice to see that Chrek has got his bitch to come on over and help him. Such a shame that you, like he, not only have no idea about Masters and doms/subs, but that the two of you want to keep on showing up your ignorance. Seriously hun-neeee, move on! Spicy (trying to wipe look of incredulous disbelief of his face) Yep sir you got me just right, me sa not have a clue.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' We girls didHey can we bitch slap you .Kisses from the girls old spice. I had to laugh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
a real master from a want to be master could mean many different things to others. your perception of reality is dependent on your point of view, angle of view, life experiences and expectations etc etc. every Master in my perception should be unique in their methods, its far too boring to build the same sub over and over and it actually doesn't give the sub / slave the opportunity to grow / over come the fears, challenges and obstetrical that will improve all aspects of their lives. which to me what being a Master is all about. every sub has their journey they need to take from daily tasks, to play rewards and punishments its not only for the direct pleasure of the master in my view, its also for the long term development of the sub in every way "not just physically". you usually know a master when u see one straight away, its not just an alpha male who wants to dominate or a guy who likes restraint control and power or even bossing or rough sex. there is an aspect of care about the subs personal life and setting up targets in the masters mind to help her be better equipped to over come her challenges.good masters generally have a very good understanding of physiology and healing. its hard to explain it all and the dynamics to the outsiders at times as every case is unique.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
A good answer
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know I like it when you do what I like ! Contact me if you like.
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RHP User
10 years ago
its not about dog collars and nipple pegs , its a mind thing , so your true master is the one that gets into your head
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bunnings as masters is to far away :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
willowtree seems to have it nailed... and it certainly is not about abuse.
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RHP User
10 years ago
warning69 what are you tying to say
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RemainSeated
10 years ago
A Dom/master doesn't need chains, ropes or cuffs to bind his sub. When they dominate the subs mind and heart they are willing to bind to the Dom. As mentioned in another post the sub is really the one incontrol for if they are not willing no matter how good the master thinks they are there will be no submission. Dom/sub is a lifestyle not so much of a sexual act.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
That is a good answer my subs liked it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi, This seems to have drifted way off topic. Just for the record there is also a dynamic of D/l which is another thing altogether. Any way as many have said this question is difficult to answer but I would consider the following to warning signs: Sir/Master Any one who expects or insists on being called this from Day 1 or first contact is going to be a problem. Asking Not all Ds are right for all Ss and vice versa. Both parties will have wants needs and desires and the start of anything should be all about conversations and understanding each other. A master who wants a service sub will not be content with some one less than that. A sub that want to be a slave will not be content with a masters who allows too much freedom of choice. A good sub and indeed a good master will understand the needs, wants and desires of the other. Give not Take Control should be offered not demanded. Rules are always agreed not imposed. Punishment is agreed...Nebver forget that Power exchange is just that an exchange <=== ====> it is two ways each has obligations to the other. So my main point is that a good master and a good submissive will have many discussion before drifting into the roles at a superficial level. Each will have a strong understanding of each other before adopting the roles. Some people say the sub has all the power in this sort of thing...Sorry you are not correct each has power and each has responsibility the failure of either to fulfill their obligation will lead to issues in this sort of relationship. I am no expert... LC
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who the masters are but the bitches are pretty obvious.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I doubt Warning69 understands why your asking that question redhot666.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You didnt message me?
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RHP User
10 years ago
A real Master will find out what you are looking for. A real Master will look for ways to tease and tantalise you. A real Master will drive you crazy with desire and anticipation. A real Master will give you not only an awesome sexual experience but a real emotional thrill as well. A real Master will make you damn bloody nervous. A real Master will want to get inside your head to heighten each part of what you are seeking. A real Master will make you want to please him* and not let him* down Cheers, The Nurturer *or her
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