M45
tough crowd
February 07 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
The answers that you seek, are within your post
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can tell you this you definitely aren't ugly maybe there just up themselves and I'd be over the moon too have you in my life - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hit the button before I finished typing lol , if I was interested in men you can't always judge people by their pics or what they write it's what's in their hearts and actions that count - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
10 years ago
Absolute chaos Mado mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are certainly not repulsive. The profile pic shows a nice torso. Your profile is fine. Yes its hard for a male on any dating/hook up site who isnt a paying member,to get very much attention. Especially if you send a flirt to another guest, it isnt proactive. Any man on here will tell you that even being a paid member doesnt guarantee what ever you deem as success. The unbalanced ratio of males to females proves that. Same on any site. So dont throw the towel in yet,forums are a good way to socialize, and learn lots of stuff you really dont need to know, or just have a good laugh.plus follow the events in your area and get to some meets or parties. So sit down, buckle up and enjoy the ride... Where ever it takes you. P.s. you could always come visit us queenslanders!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I saw your comments on the other wink thread started a few days ago. So I am not sure, what other responses are you hoping to illicit by starting another wink thread?? Tell me Naked. When you go to your flirts sent folder, how many flirts have been read in comparison to unread?
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N4November
10 years ago
By definition of your orientation, kink & location - you are for those with a more discerning taste.... so will be overlooked quickly by the masses. Do you homework, pay for a limited subscription and take the time to write an individual introduction to those you think would connect well with you. Put some more pics and perhaps put more about yourself in the real world. I likened my 'research' of prospective lovers as a second job. It takes a lot of time! But rhp is only a medium to meet people in the real world so make it count! Good luck! ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive been fucking my little bum off all over the place. If I see something on the other side of the door on the way out through the hoardes, hell yeah fuck is on.But more often than not that hot exterior that is portrayed fails to live up to expectation when getting to the down and dirty.Naked, if someone likes you you will find some one.Im more scrutinizing of a guest profile. And a benifit of upgrading is you get to watch people fuck them selves with strange obpjects in cam :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry, I mean Twinkles said it all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But one naked torso amongst many....tell us what makes you special?..Your profile is locked xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
For example, do you sit outside of a members area of a club and wait for all the females to approach you? ...and then complain and act confused because they don't?
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
You are in WA. From what I hear, the competition is fierce! Good luck!
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
All of the above. We have no idea if you are new to the site or not when you send a flirt. It just hits our mailbox with all the rest... Here is something to ponder. Think about when you clear your real mailbox; do you have a 'no junk mail' sign or do you collect all the catalogues and maybe have a quick glance through them after you have opened and read the mail that is addressed to you? But sometimes that cheap advertising material goes straight in the bin, unopened. Can you spot the analogy?? If so, apply it. And unlock your profile if you want people to contact you; it was locked yesterday and is locked again this morning. I'm sorry to say that I probably won't bother trying to view it again, even though you have Melbourne travel plans.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just a quick note on forum posts. Because they don't happen in real time, unless you have instant posting rights that they give to long term forum posters, the conversation can move on while your post is still being cleared. That can end up in your post being overlooked. It's a glitch in the system. Try not to take it personally. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not rocket science. Yiu have a good body. Your young , if you want a fuck go to the swinging pig or come drag me out to the car park at murphys and bend me over the bonnet. Or pay for a membership. Women are out numbered , we just sit on our crack and wait. its a psychological thing. Women will think your a cheap prick looking for a free whore on rhp. Yiur doing the old chestnut of market research, so wind it up and get your credit card out of mothballs. I was a member so I paid my dues for a while, it worked for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you want to get in contact with people, connect, be a member so you can write messages. Why should we waste our "50" messages on all the Guest who contact us????WHY?
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RHP User
10 years ago
You want a tough crowd? I see a lot of profiles that refer to winks. When someone can't keep the different dating sites they're on straight, it tells me they're really not paying attention and are not for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'baygirl2315'.. so will be overlooked quickly by the masses. Yes..It is a far out weighed site men to women... And woman have the upper hand and can afford to be choosy.. RHP is harder than the real world as their is no alcohol, no thumping music and no time restraints..I am a newbie myself..But I have had some great conversations with some amazing and amusing personalities..
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RHP User
10 years ago
The only time i will reply to a flirt is if there is a public face pic. I'm not going to waste my messages on someone i can't see. That being said your profile reads like you're only looking for a very specific type of person. If you are that's cool, but a lot of people won't reply based on that. Try broadening your 'looking for' section a little bit, and take out the negative section as that is just a turn off. You have to remember as a guest only able to send flirts you are up against hundreds of other similar profiles so without something absolutely standout in your profile you will be overlooked. Simple as that. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
Your profile reads a bit negatively I'm afraid. I would suggest you write something that reflects who you are. You ask whether or not you're 'fuck ugly' but have no face pic. Put one up. A woman wants to see who you are. Make yourself stand out...
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RHP User
10 years ago
No need to analyse the black box flight recorder ... pilot error the whole way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You would be better off paying for a membership rather than trying to use the Forum to advertise yourself. Its your brain not your looks people will be more interested in anyway. It may predominantly be a site driven by sex but contrary to popular belief most ladies are looking for significantly more than just a root. The question you need to be asking is can you offer them that?
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chevtrek
10 years ago
The ladies are not all going to jump on you justbecause your here.I am over 50 but do well because I offer a chance todiscover more and the fact I am good at kink.There are more guys here than women so be patient.Most ladies chase looks so you have a good chancedon't rush.
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RHP User
10 years ago
and that goes for RHP too .... if you want to make the most of this site then sign up and make an effort to impress with actual messages. Kissk analogy of junk mail versus real mail is brilliant! You have a good torso shot so its hard to say if you are ugly or not .... beside the point really. What is more attractive is your attitude and how you interact with others. Good luck. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I'm a newbie to RHP and wondering if it actually is worth purchasing a membership. My hubby and I don't get out much due to kids but I'm dying to find a female playmate and finding it a bit hard. Any suggestions or helpful tips, greatly appreciated.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with Leo_girl on the point of you need to impress with your communication, on most sites it is impossible for guests, but here you have the forums - take advantage of it. If someone is really interested - meaning she is in your area and wants sex (rare combination if you're away from a capital city), then she can look at your posts and connect with you - but if she is a guest then it is also difficult as Naked79 is not a first name or surname to type into any websites to find you on...?!? Maybe try to use a different username ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
It sounds all to life and death for my liking. Take a chill pill and relax, don't take this shit so seriously. Cut out the negative bullshit and pay for a subscription. You need to understand that at least half of the profiles are fake, the other 30% have no intention of meeting. That leaves you with 20% of the female profiles on here as a possibility. If you like those odds then buy a subscription, meet some women, eat some pussy, bang some arse and have a great time. If you don't want to buy a subscription, then just masturbate. Cheers Larry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Paying membership is not the be all and end all, no matter what anyone else says. You can still end up in the same place, except now, it costing you money to be there. . Saying that, membership does give you access to the chat rooms and adds your name when you sign up for any events.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Try being a woman in here, who says "no" Then, you'll see who the tough crowd is.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
LOL, You clearly rate yourself highly for a woman who has passed her prime (middle aged) with tuck shop arms, a nose that requires surgery & a double chin. The most funny thing is i did read your profile, the whole fucking 10 pages of it (LOL). The only reason I sent you a message is like every man if I see a woman with big tits I want to fuck it, don't flatter yourself thats what most men think doesn't mean you are any good. Another tip if you are looking for a relationship or a BFTF (Boyfriend that fucks) as you call it perhaps you should try the normal dating sites such as e harmony, oasis active, & RSVP etc. Websites such as this one or adult match maker is simply for fucking. Now don't get angry or upset about this message I have sent you, go & read the rude message you sent me perhaps then you will understand why. My first message was polite & respectful everything you are not. Good day. Hmmm fragile ego? Do I over rate myself? Past my prime? Naaaah my tuckshop lady arms and chins are quite happy where they're at. He blocked me so I guess my saggy ole arse and I are definitely out. Don't fret OP it happens to us too, this place will teach you resilience AND that you also deserve only the best according to your desires, needs, wishes. Like I said to the guy who sent me the above. I'm sure you'll find a woman who wants what you are offering. As for trialling other sites. Alot of us have done that, as for interactive experience RHP all the way, hands down! Just my 2 cents. Be good, be respectful and be smart about who you approach. Indy
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Feb 07,2015 Hi I saw your profile and had to contact. A little about me i am tall, dark, handsome, well hung & built like a league player & quiet intelligent. I am looking for someone i can connect with both sexually and also to have a good conversation. I have had a lot of experience and havent met my match yet. I like to explore and have fun and i am always respectful to woman. Email me on (insert email address) if you want to contact me or reply back on here. I hope to hear from you. P.s. I gave you permission to see my private pics can i please see yours thanks My reply: You're punching above your weight (first name here), but I'm sure some other lady who won't out do you will enjoy your attention. Please read profiles in future and not just go on the pretty pictures, you would see you are entirely outside my preferences. Nice approach though so I wish you well. IOS Maybe I forgot my manners but his pics weren't true to form either. (Shrugs) league players don't do it for me anyway 😕
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RHP User
10 years ago
Finding women to play with couples can be extraordinarily difficult online. If I were you I would go to swingers parties, clubs and events. Isn't Chateau Vino swingers club on the GC?
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RHP User
10 years ago
And upgrade... you've got tough competition as it is... if you're not going to upgrade, you'll have to at least put face pics up and just wink away... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanx Meeka100, we're thinking about checking it out this weekend. Wasn't quite sure at first as I guess there is quite a lot of misconception surrounding swingers clubs, but after reading some of the reviews on here we're both getting quite excited :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsSexyGC' Thanx Meeka100, we're thinking about checking it out this weekend. Wasn't quite sure at first as I guess there is quite a lot of misconception surrounding swingers clubs, but after reading some of the reviews on here we're both getting quite excited :) - Posted from rhpmobile Swingers clubs - look they are all different and they are different on different nights. For instances some clubs get a younger crowd on Friday nights and theme nights always attract a bigger crowd. Sometimes they will have really slow night. It is pretty hard to predict but you should go a few times to really assess whether it is for you or not. You could also ring the club and ask what night brings in the younger crowd, etc. They should be happy to chat to you about that, but again it can be very hard to predict. Remember it is perfectly fine just to socialize or to watch others playing you do not have to get naked or have sex if you don't want to!. I only watched the first few times I went. Don't ever do anything you don't want to do and if someone asks you to play and you are not keen it is the done thing to say "no I am fine, but thanks". Everyone should be cool about that. Don't touch anybody unless you have asked or they have invited you and the same goes for you. People don't have the right to just touch you without asking. have fun!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gonski..guess we didn't pass the test☺xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Tough crowd. As the saying goes, When the going gets tough, The tough get going, The others have a wank And go to RSVP
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RHP User
10 years ago
well OP if you have the looks you are in the door if you live in an area that doesn't favour you your out the door also if you have a yobo attitude about the adult sites your out I understand where you are coming from it is quite expensive to get nothing I think most males experience this best thing you can do if you don't want to pay just hang in the forums post remarks if the women like what you have to say they will get in contact with you then you can decide wether to pay or not
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am hearing you! I never get a look in and I am a full member who sends msg's and flirts, I must be ugly lol......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm hearing ya, I am a member and do send msg's and flirts, but still haven't any luck what so ever!!! I must be ugly lol....
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