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transparency,the right to know
November 29 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally i'm an open book. Might be to my detriment in some cases, but i choose to be open with those i share my body with. Emotions are the exception, i share those only with those i feel safe with and who return the favour. My friends are free to share any information they wish as i've probably already shared it anyway!
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you have Aids, HIV, Hepatitus, or other communicable disease, or if your old man is sergeant at arms for the Rebels or something along those lines, I think you should 'fess up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
well not really but you get the idea. Like karynb I too am very open. My friends are more than welcome to talk about me, warn people off etc as Ive probably done that too. I would rather be upfront, honest (probably more than people want) than hide anything that may come back and bite me. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel I should be told everything that could endanger both myself and my playmate. STD? Tell me. Epilectic? Hemophiliac? Diabetic? Tell me. Crazy ex-girlfriend with a gun? Tell me. A friend leaking confidential information won't be trusted again for quite some time. (And I have a permit for that gun, damnit!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Any health risk, and to go on from another thread, if the woman used to be a bloke or if the woman still has a dick. As for me, there is nothing that I won't discuss. I'll tell anyone, anything because I'd rather people know me 100% before they make a decision. The biker thing isn't that bad jensman, you generally have no problems as long as you're not "in business" with them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Open and closed I am in many ways private with my family life,yet I am open to a point with people I am two women I guard both my lives, my rhp and my other life. sometimes they over lap but not often. I do not trust that many people to bring them into my other life, off rhp I tell people what I want to tell them. I lie like everyone else I am human
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' I am human You are? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
12 years ago
with a mate.. I had hair nearly touching my belt, and it was out of it's plat.. hanging freely.. clean and groomed.. with a bit of wildness from the 2 kilometre ride from my place to the hotel. As I walked past a group, a young lady leaned out an said.... "LOVE you hair..!" I turned back and looked her in the eyes.. "Wait until you feel it on your belly and thighs".... then walked on by and bought mate and myself a whiskey. Within ten minutes, she was by my side, and within ten after that, she was swinging astride my harley. I gave her a lift back to her friends place in the morning on my way to work.. after a very hot night.. (no safe sex.. no questions about ANYTHING more then.. drink? joint? Where is the loo.. No names.. no occupations, no relationship disclosures.... ABSOLUTLEY nothing..) she swung off.. smiled, winked and went inside. I still dont know her name.. or anything about her.. I found out about 2months later that she had taken a photo of herself with my camera.. when I got the film developed.. Nothing more.. DAMN... I miss them days !!! AND... you know what?? I would do it again tonight... IF i had pulling power like I had then :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' with a mate.. I had hair nearly touching my belt, and it was out of it's plat.. hanging freely.. clean and groomed.. with a bit of wildness from the 2 kilometre ride from my place to the hotel. As I walked past a group, a young lady leaned out an said.... "LOVE you hair..!" I turned back and looked her in the eyes.. "Wait until you feel it on your belly and thighs".... then walked on by and bought mate and myself a whiskey. Within ten minutes, she was by my side, and within ten after that, she was swinging astride my harley. I gave her a lift back to her friends place in the morning on my way to work.. after a very hot night.. (no safe sex.. no questions about ANYTHING more then.. drink? joint? Where is the loo.. No names.. no occupations, no relationship disclosures.... ABSOLUTLEY nothing..) she swung off.. smiled, winked and went inside. I still dont know her name.. or anything about her.. I found out about 2months later that she had taken a photo of herself with my camera.. when I got the film developed.. Nothing more.. DAMN... I miss them days !!! AND... you know what?? I would do it again tonight... IF i had pulling power like I had then :) Wow, was that why they were called the naughty Forties?
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RHP User
12 years ago
But only I turn the pages. . It is on a case by case basis and even in a relationship I am naturally reticent about revealing the real me. I hide well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yep its private and it amuses the heck out of me. My friends tell me things in confidence and Ide never betray their trust. I love how they can open up to me. Its a two way street. Ide never break that bond of knowing each others desires and experiences.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I feel I should be told everything that could endanger both myself and my playmate. STD? Tell me. Epilectic? Hemophiliac? Diabetic? Tell me. Crazy ex-girlfriend with a gun? Tell me. A friend leaking confidential information won't be trusted again for quite some time. (And I have a permit for that gun, damnit!) Crazy ex's but only one with a gun.........that I know of. She has a permit too. Does that mean I'm of limits?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I feel I should be told everything that could endanger both myself and my playmate. STD? Tell me. Epilectic? Hemophiliac? Diabetic? Tell me. Crazy ex-girlfriend with a gun? Tell me. A friend leaking confidential information won't be trusted again for quite some time. (And I have a permit for that gun, damnit!) Crazy ex's but only one with a gun.........that I know of. She has a permit too. Does that mean I'm of limits?
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RHP User
12 years ago
In order to answer you I will have to break your questions down How much information do you expect a potential fwb, fb to disclose to you before having sex with them. Obviously like most I would like to think that if there is an issue like STD – they would let me know this so I can make the appropriate call for me on whether I wish to sleep with them or not – having said that just because they may have a STD does not automatically exclude them from potential sex with me (as I always practice safe sex) but it’s my body and I like to be fully informed on what I put it in…so health issues like this one mentioned is a big one for me personally I have an issue with people cheating – I understand why and everyone has a story no doubt.. but I do not wish to be a party to it..I am who I am. Only this week I met with a lovely man and things were going only brilliantly – jackpot I thought..and yeah things were getting hot and heavy..it was at a certain point though that proceedings grounded to a halt, when like 43 seconds earlier he disclosed to me he had a g/f (why he chose to tell me this bit of info then and there I will never know – attack of the guilt’s ??) it was a mood deflator – why his playing up is his business, but myself personally I don’t want to be a person who contributes to another person’s pain (he told me she didn’t know her had a profile on RHP) so you know I’m not comfortable being with someone who cheats – I would have appreciated knowing this prior via all our correspondence – his profile clearly states he is separated (he is - from his wife but not from his girlfriend !!)…so personally I would have liked to have known prior to us meeting What questions do you ask,and what questions would you be prepared to answer? Or do you think that the right to privacy takes precedence I am curious by nature however I’ve never felt the need to ask anyone too much – I figure if they want me to know anything they will tell me in due course – but as you can see this has been to my detriment – perhaps I should screen more in the future ? I have no issue answering questions though – my life is open – I guess part of that comes from not having family anymore and I’m ok with people knowing stuff about me – having said that…disclosing information has been used against me in the past – a nasty and bitter lesson which I have now learnt, so I must admit I am more guarded….however you have to let down ones defence mechanisms especially when you start to get serious with someone – if they are low enough to use your confidences against you in the future then to me that is proof enough that they weren’t the rite person for you in the first place..this goes both for lovers and friends. So in answer to your question I still think privacy take precedence..it’s up to you when you disclose How would you feel if a close friend breached your privacy and told your lover something that you had told them in what you assumed was confidence, would you ever be able to trust that person again ? The short answer is No - - forgive yes and I would also ask them why they felt the need to betray me and I would give them the opportunity to explain their actions and reasoning…., however the answer would still be no…forgive yes, we are all fallible but forget…no and I would not trust again…However I’d be more questioning my own judgement – obviously I was wrong in considering them a true friend in the first place and that would ultimately concern me more.
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RHP User
12 years ago
:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27':) Drinking again now doubt!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27':) Drinking again now doubt!! I hate trying to be funny and it backfires cause i cant spell!! That would be "Drinking again no doubt!!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Introducing my tragic friend Miss SassyMissM !!! - who has obviously had a few Friday nite Chardys already !!! - Melbourne time - and also supports Collingwood...double tragic !!! And trust me hon after Tuesday nites date...I so needed a drink !!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
*chuckles* so... IF you ever invite me to .... Ahh.. don't worry.. you won't.. I know :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Introducing my tragic friend Miss SassyMissM !!! - who has obviously had a few Friday nite Chardys already !!! - Melbourne time - and also supports Collingwood...double tragic !!! And trust me hon after Tuesday nites date...I so needed a drink !!! Now dont be like that!! :) Chardys are only just starting now, the only excuse i have is... um old age?? and just back off with those Collingwood references lady, they're not lost on me pussy!!! hiss I expect to hear about that date miss burlesque...
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