RHP

RHP User

M36

trust and love

September 20 2009

Hi girls So I have a problem. I lost the trust of someone I love, not through cheating or anything along those lines,  and im wondering if you have any ideas on how you could show that person you are sorry and that you love them?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    flowerschocolatesjewellerySay sorry for what you are sorry about not just sorry. Say you love them and why you love them.Do some major sucking up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Im sorry to hear that!!Im not being nosey but it does depend on what you did i suppose!Maybe they're the type of person who needs space and time in order to deal with their mistrust??x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    When you let someone down and betray their trust it takes time and effort to recover it.   In spite of what you may do to regain her trust you should be ready to possibly be rejected and you may never regain the lost trust again. In that case it is out of your hands, even if it hurts!   You need to admit your mistake or the way you hurt the other person. Ask for forgiveness. Whatever you did to betray her trust needs to be changed! Tell her exactly what you’re going to change to regain that person's trust. Betryal of any kind is usually directly connected to lack of communication, lack of information, lies and cover-up stories. Be straightforward and honest.   Also, if  what you did is not too bad, a bit of space, flowers and jewellery work for me LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    and anyway if she's keen on you or your special to her she'll take you back.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    thanks girls, ive been trying my hardest to suck up, havnt lied, and i have pressies, so i guess im on the right path maybe lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The secret tactic in these circumstances (or any where you are on the back foot) is to convince her to do something for you.   I pull the pathetic puppy dog face and offer her things to throw at me... and a ping pong paddle.... that one gets her nearly every time.... depending on what I've done... but she knows I need a decent thrashing when I've been naughty.   Good luck mate.   Gaz